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writes:Hello people, i need some advice on my situation.i have been seeing my boyfriend for a little over a year he's a really nice guy we both have children, i have twins from a previous relationship and he has 5 kids by 4 different women. there's no baby mama drama as a matter of fact they all get along. this is my dilemma he has asked me to marry him. i do love him but he comes with a lot of baggage. i've dated guys with kids before but not this many..my boyfriend is very attractive and caring and such a social butterfly. another thing is that he likes to go out with the boys and the ladies love him. i don't know if i can handle these if i accept his proposal. please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (22 August 2009):
 I agree DO NOT rush into marriage. Even if he is a good guy. Financially he will be paying out his ass (pardon the language) for 5 kids. THAT is LESS money for you and your ( in case you get any) KIDS.
There might not be any baby mama drama right now, but it could easily happen.
To be honest I would take my time getting to know him and NOT marry him til you can accept him & ALL his baggage.
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reader, Sugarbuns  +, writes (22 August 2009):
 I think you should spend more time together, and not rush into marriage. What's the hurry? You'll learn more about him the longer you are together and then you can make a more informed decision about getting married.
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