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writes:Mkay, if this helps... I'm 14 years old, haha.Alright, so I have liked this girl for a little over a year and we so has she..... We've gotten pretty serious this month, and whenever I get a chance to talk to her, I do so.The main problem is that at the varsity football game tonight (most of you Europeans may not know what this is) she practically ignored me the whole night, saying a few words to me, and these words were mostly insulting compliments about what I had said earlier.Later in the night I confronted her about it, and she said that she doesnt really like to talk to people when she is around her friends, although I saw her talking to other guys throughout the night. So I told her I was sorry if it seemed like I was being a pain in the ass. While I was talking to her, she wasn't even looking at me, just looking around. So we walked out together, and I said something to her sister, and of course, the girl I like made a rude comment about it. So I just then walked away and said "bye" in a soft voice, feeling kind of stupid....When I got home tonight, I was thinking what I should do about the whole situation..... I came up with the idea ofA) Ignoring her and walking away with my friends when she tries to talk to me....B) Not starting conversations with her like I do normally.C) Not even looking at her, just look at her for a brief second and look away.I want to know what you guys would do in my situation...... ?Is this the right way to get her to try and talk to me more? Or would this push her away from me?I wanna know what you guys think I should do.Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, anthonynj  +, writes (18 October 2008):
 Disclaimer: I'm not an 'expert' nor I had great experience in this 'stuff' okay? I would've chosen plan C! So stop being a bitch and making her feel that she's just another girl for you! And make friendships with girls who are her friends! See what happens!
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