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reader, anonry  +, writes (17 March 2009):
just flaunt whatver you got, girls might like material things but all guys want is some action, no matter how little. try a lapdance omg works so well or sitting on his lap and bounce lol this might sound stupid but it works 2 seconds flat
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou so much guys! we have been doin new stuff and less often and its soooo much better. easy turn on. and i tried the 'wandering' thing and he LOVES it. hard in 3 seconds! haha
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionjust to clear things up, we are not actually having sex. just touching etc. i took the advice and straight away went 2 talk to him and he said he:1)didnt like what i was doing cuz it just wasnt what he was into and i should try new 'tricks'2) we were doing it too much and it wasnt as hot or spesh as it used to be and he didnt get as excited so now we decided to do stuff on weekends at the most.hopefully this will help our problem lol. thankyou so much!
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reader, DieRomantic +, writes (18 October 2008):
 yea i agree with the other people. There is deffinatly somthing wrong. If he is straight and has feelings for you then it shouldnt be a difficult challenge at all to get him hard. so its either three problems...1. He's Gay 2. He jus sees you more as a friend and not as an intamit partner or 3. There is somthing wrong with his gear. Just talk to him about it and try to figure it out. Be safe. Good luck. Much love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008): hmmm i had trouble with this one though i found out what works for him... he loves it when my hands "wander" as he says... for example we will be laying there watching tv and slowly i will put my hand over his legs and slowly move it around in a circular motion working it up 2wards his thighs once i get to his thigh regions i slowly squezzin it and he loves it... just experiment and when something does turn him on you WILL see it
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008): Aside from the fact that you present as under the age of consent, is there a possibility that he really sees you as more of a friend? Does he get erections by himself?It just seems quite odd, as no guy I've been with has ever had this problem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008):
Does he have any medical condition that is causing this?
Or is it because he just isn't in to you in that way?
If he doesn't fancy you then no amount of sexy outfits will change his mind. Maybe he really likes you in many ways, but he just doesn't have any chemistry with you.
It should never be hard to turn a guy on if they fancy a girl - so perhaps you need to have a good talk with him to see what the real problem in your relationship is.
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