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30-35,
*oey 2008
writes:Hi Guys and Gals, I really need some advice.Me and my longterm gf of 3 years broke up just over a month ago, we havent spoken or seen each other since the break up. Today i get a txt from her saying she has some of my belogings and i have some of hers and we should meet up to exchange them....I take it this means it is truley over:(.I'm asking for help as i have tried so hard to get over her, and i cant as deep down i know i still love her and feel for her. My mates say meet someone else that will help, i have met a really nice girl,we share soo much in common even the same birthday but cannot be with her as i still love and have strong feelings for my ex, as long as i keep busy i can get through the day but as soon as i stop i break down in tears as i miss her soo very much, i got to the point last week when i was working soo hard i made my self ill.So please i really need some advise on this situation, how can i get over her?, will we ever get back together? as deep down i think she is the one. Thanks for taking your time to read this. xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008): All you gotta do is talk to her and show her how you feel! How will you know until you do.. good luck.
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reader, abby5000  +, writes (18 October 2008):
tell her the way you feel, it will decide where things go. get back together or done for good. isnt the love of your life worth some effort?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008): Maybe she's just looking for an excuse to see you, why wasn't your personal belongings exchanged at the break-up?
I would agree to meet and exchange the items and no matter how hard it is for you, or how badly your heart is breaking.....put on a happy face, pretend as if you were the happiest man in the world, she WILL notice this and possibly if she's not involved with anyone seriously, she might even flirt with you. I have a friend who did this very thing and when she played her happy role her ex just couldn't believe she wasn't falling apart and missing him so bad, 3 months later they were back together again. but then again she may be serious about getting this over and done with, to move on, so be ready because it could very well be that. Good luck to you.
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