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*skRosie
writes: Hey,For the last 2 years I suffered a lot of depression. But this year, I got over it as soon as I got a boyfriend, OB, who is absolutely lovely. But the thing is now, I'm having a relapse coz two of my supposed best friends, SM and AG, are being really mean to me. They are laughing at me and teasing me. Also my parents are treating me as if I'm 3 and I'm nearly 15! My best friend, AN, had a bust up with these two friends as they expect us to do exactly what they want us to and my other two best friends, LS and HB, are getting really fed up with them as well, as nothing is ever good enough for them. I might being going out with AG's exboyfriend but they split well over two years ago and it lasted with them for all of one week. Also SM and AG are being really mean to me about being friends with, GW, who is an exboyfriend but we are still fab mates. Since finding my boyfriend, OB, they are saying that me and AN are lame to hang out with these boys. SM and AG find everything hilarious and and are taking the mick and calling me short even though AG is shorter than me. They are giving me the evils all the time and in English on Thursday, they were saying how rubbish are groupo was and how unfunny the script I wrote for the last Drama piece was so unfunny when no one even laughed at what they thought would be funny last time.Is there any way of stopping this relapse of depression? Ahould I go and see a teacher or a doctor? Should I talk to them? Help! Coz if you don't I may do something stupid.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (18 October 2008):
If you are depressed to the point where you feel you want to hurt yourself then go to the doctor.
However if you are just stressed out and miserable then you have to cut the things that make you miserable out of your life.
If someone is being mean and childish to you then stop speaking to them. You are a typical teen in that your self esteem is totally linked to how other people judge you. It will get better as once you get older you'll learn to base your self worth on what you have achieved and how you feel about yourself.
As for your parents, you just have to put up with them. Mine still treat me like a child and I'm a successful 25 year old.
Good Luck!! xx
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