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writes:i have a problem with a girl i want to date. it seems that she wont even notice me. im nice to her, ive even asked her out once. i have listened to her problems but she keeps on going out with total dirtbags.she's abused in these relations - both physically and mentally, and i can't figure out why. how can i get her away from this, i realy care for her.can you help?
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reader, rcn +, writes (18 October 2008):
 People have different personalities. If she keeps getting into the same situations, she may be attracted to a personality which is present toward those who mistreat their dates.
Be a bit harder on her. Tell her how you notice, she does not make good choices with who to date. Let her know, until she finds out why she's making these choices, people she dates will all be the same, and she won't find happiness. Sometimes, as a friend, you need to tell them what they need to hear, not what they want to.
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