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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I have been in a relationship for 3 years. my concern is when we go out in public my fiance will home in on a woman and then keep looking at her until he get her acknowledgement. he tells me he loves me very much and time will tell in the next ten years how much he loves me. but what i don't get is if he says he loves like he said then why is he wanting this from other woman. it is natural to look once, twice at a person but after that move on. am i being to sensitive about this issue. i look forward to your speedy reply.thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008): Thanks for your response, the thing is i have discussed this issue with him and he cannot explain why he does, then i ask myself if he cant answer my question then how am I to deal with it????
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008): Well, this certainly can't be very comfortable to you. I would be quite hurt by his actions. I know men like to look, but it sounds like he is just plain being disrespectful to you. Have you ever asked him how he'd feel if you did that? I don't think you are being too sensitive, but what concerns me is that he knows you don't like this behavior, and yet he still does it anyways. Does he like to make you feel insecure?Jealous? Is it like a game? I don't think I could put up with it if he were my guy. Which brings me to: What does he do when you aren't with him???
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