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writes: I work at a local theme park. Over the course of the summer I have become friendly with Mike. Two weekends ago we worked side by side all night. He was very flirty and nice. He gave me his hand warmers and placed one on my forhead. He asked me about school and made fun of me but I knew he was kidding around. This past weekend we ended up working together again and it started off fine. Until one of my friends Dan ran up to me and gave me a hug, a random boy asked for a hug(I did not give him one)and a security guard came to flirt with me a few times. I don't know what was making all these guys do this but I tried to get close and talk to Mike but he began to snap at me and implied that I was stupid and was just mean. I told him to stop and he said so you care what I think? I was like yeah I do. But his antics went on. My best friend works with me and we can get giddy. We can come off as a little idiotic I don't think he likes that. He is very smart, he's very into sciece. He also hates Baseball and I just adore it. I realize our differences while he continues to make fun of me. The next day he was fliting with me but when I aksed him to hangout with my firend he said he had plans but had offered me his chair and touched my shirt when he noticed I changed clothes. My friend had to give him his break and he was so mean to her.I'm getting mixed signals from him and I'm getting quite sick of it. Any ideas on what made him change his persona both times? Tips on where to go from here?
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (22 October 2008):
 Well, the incident where he was annoyed after ALL the guys flirted and hugged you was a pretty clear sign that he likes you. He may or may not like the way you are when you hang out with your girlfriend and act silly, but most guys can act that way and I don't think that had anything to do with how much he likes you. It sounds like he is a bit unsure how to make the next move or take the relationship to the next level and if I were you, I would try to make it easier on him. Give him a bit on encouragement or an opening that he can use. Talk about a concert that is coming up at the park that you would like to see, or tell him that you and some friends are going to the movies on Thursday and you don't have anyone to go with! Who can I POSSIBLY ask to go with me? (Do some sleuthing and Make sure he has that night off beforehand, of course...) I wouldn't be surprised if he shows up somewhere that you are planning to go, Hun! Good Luck!
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