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writes:I am so so confused.I just cant figure out whether i am in love with my man, or whether i just love being with him. We have been together on and off for 4 years. Recently, I have been feeling very little in the way of chemistry and sex drive whilst we are together, and the other night reverted to kissing another man whilst out drinking(which even though i know ment nothing, but regret so much). I just feel like he is perfect to me, does everything he can to make me happy, yet i am just taking him for granted and unsure all the time. He does not deserve this. I really want our relationship to work, and i want to feel attraction and chemistry and 'in love' with him again. Am i just writing this off in my mind, and thinking about it too much, when if i look closer could find it is actually there? I dont know, im just so confused.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (13 October 2008):
 It sure sounds like over thinking to me. There is probably something else in your life that is unfulfilled. He does not deserve that type of treatment either. At least you understand that. If you are going to continue to treat him this way it would be better if you were single. Love is not always like we see in the movies. Quite often it is mundane and routine. You need to be aware of this and be strong in the weak moments.
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