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writes:I think I'm falling in love with this guy that I'm in an unofficial relationship with. He says that he wants to wait and see if were compatible enough to be together and I guess I can understand. We live about an hour and half away from each other. We've known each other for almost 5 months. We've seen each other about 6 or 7 times. I don't know if I should tell him because I don't want to scare him off. Besides that I want him to tell me first. My worst fear is me falling in love with him and he can't reciprocate those feelings. That's why I think I should at least let him know that I'm starting to fall in love with him so that if he can't see hinmself doing the same for me, then we should just stop talking so I don't get hurt. He really likes me a lot though--as he says. Reply to this Question
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reader, PsychicDove  +, writes (21 October 2008):
 Hi Honey,
Hope you doing good. Perhaps you need to avoid saying anything at the moment. He seems overly analytical, don't you think you need to wait for someone who is also in love with you?
Like saying that, unless I get a good job, I don't wish to commit is much better than telling you, I want to test and see if you and me are compatible, if not then I leave, well what kind of a love is it which wants to check first if you have any flaws and then when he finds you have one he leaves you?
Just think about it sweetie, I think this relationship will not have a real long potential, although if you wish to proceed for fun in a light-hearted manner then wait for him to say he loves you, don't do it now; although I am told that IF you talked to him about your feelings NOW you are going to see his true side and that will release you from anything which is not your highest good.
Take care okay?
~PsychicDove
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