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writes: When I have sex with my boyfriend I rub him raw... I know I'm small in that area and he's larger than I'm used to, is that the problem or is it because we are doing it too long and I'm not wet enough? Reply to this Question
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reader, HonningKanin  +, writes (13 October 2008):
 Its probably a combination of all three. If you are small and he large, its gonna be what you call a tight fit.
If he is not circumsized it may even be worse for him because its stretching skin further back than what it would be normally comfortable with if your vagina is small as you say. Plus if it is not fully lubricated the skin will stick to eachother is very irritating when pulled apart.
Spend more time with foreplay to get completely relaxed so that you are fully dialated for sex and also wet and lubricant you get at the chemists also helps. There are many types of lubricant and can actually be very pleasurable for yourself as well. (I like the menthol ones. It gives a really nice tinglig sensation.)
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2008): well does having sex hurt you too????? if so maybe you arent wet enough or maybe he's not hard enough. to stretch out thats area take a little bit of oil and rub it around that area everyday whilw stretching it a little bit. i heard that if u do this before child birth it can less painful so try it before having sex too.
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reader, ilikeboys  +, writes (13 October 2008):
try some lube, maybe that would work better,and how long exactly are you doing it?!!like 2-3 hrs?!!then, maybe its a lil too long,heehe
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2008): My first guess would be that there isnt enough lubrication going on.But there could be other reasons.If you shave,and you have sex when the hair is just starting to grow in a tiny bit,this could probably cause some irratation to your boyfriend.even if its the smallest amount,a day or two after you shaved.if he has really sensitive skin that would do it.you mentioned that he is large,and large sometimes requires lubrication,more than you can naturally provide.also i dont know if your using condoms or not,but maybe it could be that as well.latex condoms cause irritation for me,but im a female.could be the same for a male though!just try to narrow down what you think it might be,and fix it:)
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