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writes:I need some advice please... 3 weeks ago me and my girlfriend it seemed like we hit a rough patch I dont knw what happened but over night it seemed like things changed abruptly like she stopped talking to me as much, we didn't flirt as much, hold hands, even making out became kinda rare... I'm not saying that we have to make out all the time cuz we did a lot before but it's just things just changed and we became so distant over night.... worst of all we kept getting into little fights that became big arguments and it just kept continuing and continuing ... and every time I seem to apologize and say it was my fault even though it's usually not and everytime I try talking to her and asking what's going on with us she answers "I dunnno" or "nothing" or gets annoyed at me for constantly asking... I think Ii am asking too much about our relationship but it's only because I'm worried about it and I really love her... she's also been talking a lot to one of her ex's lately and her friend this guy loves her a lot... the thing is he only opens up to her and she feels really bad about being the only person he really talks to and opens up to. So I just don't know what to do, these arguments and fights are killing the relationship ... Should I take some time apart from her ... I'm just worried if I do the guy that's in love with her will try and make his move because they are really close and talk a lot. So what should I do? Please help ... I really love her and she's actually been the best girl I had to this point. I miss the way we used to be it was amazing and we made a hell of a couple... also if I do take a break how do I do that because we see each other every day and she's part of our group of friends.
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reader, Ukie_boarder +, writes (13 October 2008):
Ukie_boarder is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut thts the thing i considered tht but the guys was a terrible bf like her was too shy and busy 24/7 they barely tlked he kissed her atleast 5 time during there relationship of 4 mnts and she had to ask him out he didnt even do anything on vday which is pratically a given for every guy to do sumtin and her havin sex with him is more likely then a cow with wings cuz during the relationship she threw herself at him but he wouldnt even kiss her if she didnt ask ... but im more worried bout the other guy who is madly in love with her he is in our group of friend so i dont think he did something but she seemed defensive once when i said tht he might try something due to our distance now and constant fights ... so wat do u think
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2008): but thts the thing i considered something goin on between her and her ex but the guys a terrible bf like she liked him for 4 or so months and he like her but her nvr had enough balls to ask her out but she had to... then when they were actually goin on things changed completely he became to busy for her and it reli seemed like he didnt care after 4 mnths of goin on he maybe kissed her like atleast 5 times or so cuz she asked him to ... but im more worried bout the other guy the guy who loves her ... so wat should i do every time i try askin her bout us or thinkin bout wats goin on she gets mad and annoyed
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reader, prof_orr  +, writes (13 October 2008):
 The guy that's in love with her is already making his move.
You need to tell her that it's really NOT alright with you for her to continue being close friends with her ex.
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