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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I am having a long distance relationship for about 8 months. She is 3x years, divorced and I am 2x.Some of her emails meant a lot to me. When she asked for my email password, I told her if we fight in future, never delete those emails because I want to read it when we are no longer together.Everytime we fight, she will still be there waiting to talk to me and delete her own cursing email from my inbox.She had been ignoring me for weeks. She said she is busy debate in online forum, it is just some useless flaming each other.From there, I also found out she been giving relationship advices. Not a nice one. She said, she likes to have spares in a relationship.While talking online few days ago, she ignored me again. I visited that forum and I get so angry when I found out she made me wait for her so long while she is busy talking to a guy in the forum, tag team to flame. My gosh at her age 3x.When we started to get closer, she forward an email about a fight between her and her x. The date of the email, we were actually getting close while her current relationship is not completely ended and never say a word to me. Her x also say that she always ignore him whenever she get a new guy. Sounds quite true because that time it must be me the new guy.So I asked, are you going to do the same thing to me but this time I am becoming the x? She get angry, saying a player never admit herself a player and said she will never talk to me again. She blocked my chatting id.Few days past, I called her, text her. She doesn't respond and I don't know if she is there online because she blocked me but I am still there waiting.All of sudden, she came online yesterday. We talked for awhile but it is great. Since I am busy that time, I couldn't talk to her to clarify our relationship.This morning, when I login to my email, I found out all of her emails are gone. I called her so many times and text her, she never respond. I knew must be her deleted those.I would like to know am I horrible saying those to her because now I felt guilty and it is killing me. Is her simply being manipulative? What should I do now? Keep calling or just no more contact?Sorry for the long question. Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2008): Dear Poster
I have empathy with you. It is very sad that this lady messed you around like this, but unfortunately you have allowed it. Now, don't contact her again. Should she contact you, PLEASE do yourself the favor and ignore her.
No matter how difficult, she has played the fool for long enough. Learn from this experience and MOVE ON. (Be careful of the internet).
Best wishes and keep SMILING.
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