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female
age
41-50,
*er-mom
writes:i've bin with my bf for almost 6years now. the problems started after giving birth to our baby girl(5mnths). i became so into sex, i would get turned on by just looking at him or feel him pass by, but 3mnths afta, things changed. i have to really make an effort to have sex. sometimes i even fake orgasm. i feel so bad after doing it and i told him and he made me promise that i wont have sex until i'm ready. days passed but i became scared that he'll leave me or cheat on me if i don't sleep with him so i went back to my old habits of faking it and it hurts him because he call feel it and sometimes i cry during sex.we live in different towns and i have just learned that he's been faithful though i wasn't giving him any. what do i do because i become insecure when we are not having sex for 3 to 4 days?
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reader, her-mom +, writes (15 October 2008):
her-mom is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx a lot for your advice and if i may give you updates; since we live apart, yesterday we had phone sex and i felt like naughty teenager. today he's coming to visit and i'm gonna give him sumthing he'll neva forget. and no, i won't be faking it, right now by body is aching for him.
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