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anonymous
writes:I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months now. We are great together. We have a wonderful friendship, our sex life is amazing and he is really attentive; treats me like a queen. Having said that, I have my moments when I really don't feel like being with him. It's not because he does anything to provoke it, actually we have never had a huge fight. I am just not sure if I really love him or if it's because I don't want to be alone. Granted, he is not financially stable, and to me, he needs to mature a little. What's wrong with me? Is it me? Or is it because I subconsciously think he isn't right for me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008): Seems to me that you guys don't speak the same love language.The reason why you're confused may be because he doesn't speak love in a way that you can understand it. "He treats you like a queen", can you be more specific ? A good way to what your love language is ... just ask yourself what you do to him to show your love. Most of the time, the way that you express your love is the way that you want to be loved, and understand it."Treat others like you want to be treated." Same goes with love. "Love other like you want to be loved."What to do if he doesn't speak your love language? Simple, teach him how to love you. Since he doesn't speak your love language, it means that he does have another love language also ... he'll have to teach you how to love him as well.Search for Gary Chapman's Five love language book, It will give you ideas and tips on how to speak your love in a different way to your partner.It helped me anyways, hope it does the same to you :)
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