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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi, so here's my problem, im usually not a easy girl and i never thought this would ever happen to me, but at this party, i started talking to this guy i thought was cute, and i was really drunk and so was he and somehow, we started making out, and i gave him a blowjob, i don't even know the guy, and now at school, we avoid each other we havnt talked at all since, but i really want to talk to him i don't know what to do.. all i keep thinkin is that he used me, but he doesn't seem like the sort of guy who'd do that.. i feel like crap i really need to talk to him, im not even sure i like him but i need to know what he thinks bout me, i dunno how to ask him without looking stupid or anything... help.
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reader, To_Di_Always +, writes (9 December 2008):
Say "We need to talk about what happened at the party" if he is unwilling to talk, then you give up. He is obviously feeling regrettful at that point so thats a way to know. and my advice to you : Drinking is stupid, dont do it.
so because you drank im sure he counts you as stupid, same for that you gave him (someone you dont know) a blow job.
there is no way to really fix his view of you, because well what you did is not too smart anyway. but no you are not easy, you are only easy when you are drunk. BUT who isnt?
thats why i A 15 YEAR OLD girl chose never to drink. its useless and even when my friends might drink, its none of my concern to be controlling them so they dont control me.
if you really do end up realizing how wrong partying and getting drunk and doing sexual things is wrong, and then stop. then i think you will be better off and never have to go through it again. i have made my share of mistakes, but i of course knew that i was stupid and didnt repeat, and knew if i did then it was my own fault.
im sorry if i sounded rude or hurtful. but really i cant comfort you in this, because what you did was foolish. but i will say that if you chose to stay away from that type of situation, then i say to you : good choice, and be proud of yourself.
thats why they make commercials that say "above the influence" stay above it, and you will be better off.
good luck, and best wishes honestly and truely
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