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*uzieqb
writes:I've just started dating a new older guy. Everything is great so far. This weekend we were fooling around (clothes on) and I discovered that he has a really huge penis. I mean it felt really thick and really long, like 10 inches. I didn't think that was even possible. BTW, I still have not seen it, only felt it. Can it actually be that big, or is it my imagination? Anyway, I don't really have much experience with guys, as I am young and I have only slept with my long time ex-boyfriend, so I asked my girlfriend who has slept with 5 guys. She said she hasn't had anything near that size.To be honest I'm very nervous about having sex with him if the time comes for it to happen. I'm a petite girl and I'm worried about it being painful. I read some threads that said if we use lube and take it slow it should be fine. Is this pretty much what I should do? Is there any preparation that I can do before hand? Can anyone share their experience with a similar person? Am I making to big a deal of this size thing to begin with?
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reader, suzieqb +, writes (21 December 2008):
suzieqb is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIts me again. Well...
I had sex with my boyfriend the other night, and it was wonderful. I was a little worried because he was quite large (i could not close my hand around his penis). When things were getting steamy I told him that I didnt have much experience and I was nervous because of his size.
He reassured me that he would be very gentle with me and told me that he would stop right away if I asked him. He also told me that it was quite common for a new girlfriend (of his) to be worried the first time, and that my request was very normal.
He was great! He took his time with lots and lots of foreplay, he was in no rush at all. He gave me an orgasm orally to get my juices flowing and the he put on some lube. He entered me very slowly, going in a little bit each time and then stopping to let me adjust. It didnt feel any pain, just felt my self stretching a bit. And lots of pleasure of course. He got into a nice slow rhythm, but never went fast or hard. And he gave me my first orgasm from having a penis inside me. He was very sweet (and talented). I was a bit sore afterwords, but thats all, im really looking forward to our next session. He's a great lover, not because of his size, but because or his patience and technique. I think he is a keeper. Thanks for the help everyone.
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reader, sarcy24  +, writes (8 December 2008):
 I am very tiny too and one of my first lovers was massive. It is all about being relaxed. If you tense up it will hurt. If you can get him to massage you and enjoy a lot of foreplay before he enters you then you will be fine. Make sure you are wet and fully aroused first.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008): Well...If a baby can come out of us it should be true from the opposite side too.
Tension and nervousness cause pain.Relax.Plenty of foreplay and lube will not even make you realize anything until you see the stars.;-).
May I please add that its too soon to sleep with this guy.Make him wait.Its all the more fun if you get to know each other a lot more first.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008): Hi! Just a note to Plexi.... when you have sex, the penis doesnt enter the uterus. The uterus is an internal organ, inside the pelvis, and the cervix stops the penis from entering the uterus.
That said, onto the question!
You will be fine, make sure he knows youre not too experienced, and if you just say how youve never seen a c**k so big... and ask him to take it slow he'll be really flattered, and he wont have a problem doing it im sure. Once youre over your nerves and you get used to him, it will all be fine. Most of the time during sex the whole penis isnt inside of you anyways... dont worry, relax and take things slow and naturally, it will all be ok! :)
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reader, Plexi +, writes (8 December 2008):
 Yes it is possible that he is that big but it certainly is above average, avg for men is 7 inches. The female uterus is 17 inches long and if it can accommodate a baby it will accommodate a large penis as well. Sounds to me like maybe you are not ready to have sex with this man. If you are uptight, nervous and unsure it will be more uncomfortable absolutely. you need to make sure it really is what you want to do and me relaxed and enjoy the moment. Lube can help of course especially if he is also wider then normal as well.
PLEASE DON'T SLEEP WITH HIM UNLESS YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY SURE THIS IS WHAT YOU WANT:)
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