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Why does sex with my boyfriend always hurt to begin with?

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Question - (8 December 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 December 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *ellabell writes:

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 10 months now. We have had sex together almost every time we hang out. Which is roughly 4/7 days. I am on the pill. Every time we have sex the beginning part always hurts for like 5 minutes. Then after that it doesn't hurt, I just get really wet. Before we have sex we have a lot of foreplay. Eating out, it hurts a little for him to finger. What is going on? It feels good for him to eat me out and rub, but not to have sex? Can someone help me!

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A male reader, crazydirtyred United States +, writes (9 December 2008):

Have him rub his penis on your clit before penetration, and when he penetrates, do it slow, enjoy the moment. Make love, just always the lube and take your time. I had sex with this one girl before who had alot of experience but we couldn't do anything without lube and I had to start very, very slowly. Why don't you try a different brand of lube? There are many differnt types, but you'll have to do the homework there yourself, I'm K.Y. all the way.

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A female reader, bellabell United States +, writes (8 December 2008):

bellabell is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Oh well thank you; but we do use lube. Astroglide.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008):

damn girl 4 days of sex a week nwiuth a lot of foreplay, and it still hurts, i suggest foreplay more and more until youre really 'wet' and, when he fingers you, have him use more fingers so you are used to something big bein in there. hope this doesnt gross you out and hope this helps!!

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