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writes:ok this is gonna sound really weird, but when I masturbate, or get in the mood to masturbate, I think about girls, and what they'll do to me etc. I have a boyfriend and am extremely happy when we are together and are being sexual. Is this weird?????
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reader, Mixylicious  +, writes (9 December 2008):
Nah hun its not weird im sure ALL girls think bout the same sex. if they say no they r probs lieing. id say your more then likely bi-curious cos your imagining wat it wud be like if a girl wud do that to you. its 100% normal so dont worry about a thing :) xx
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reader, NightStalker +, writes (9 December 2008):
Hello and welcome to bi-sexuality. If you have never felt this way about men chances are your lesbian, I understand you have a bf but really it could have been culture peer pressure that forced you to him. Be happy with what you like and if you really love the idea of doing other girls then go for it! This is the 21st century Live it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008): No its not weird! Alot of women fantasize about women, and it doesn't mean your bi or anything. Women are beautiful!! No worries love. XOXOXOX
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reader, VictoriaAnn +, writes (8 December 2008):
Of course it's not weird. I used to do the same thing a bit ago, and still currently do. You have absolutely nothing to worry about, and it doesn't make you "bisexual" or anything. I actually used to fantasize about my boyfriend and I being pleased by another girl. It was a bit weird at first, but it's just human nature. Girls are beautiful, and they're very sexual--which is probably why there are more lesbians out there then homosexual men. I decided to put my foot down and take action, because I was in the same stage that you're in. I tried to actually tell a girl that I liked her, and she confessed that she liked me too. I just wanted to see if it felt right, to see if I did have a thing for girls. We kissed and it felt so odd, and I realized that it wasn't right for me. So, what i'm trying to say is, let those thoughts entertain your brain! It's good for stimulation and to spice it all up a bit! I don't know about telling your boyfriend though, he may get turned on at just the mere idea of it all. Hoped that helped, even in the slightest bit!
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