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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:It's been about 7 months since me and my bf (who I had been dating for only 2 months) split. He ended up moving away and it pretty much ended there. I still can't stop thinking about him, and it really bothers me because I'm a very attractive girl and I have guys waiting on me to give them a chance. I always end up comparing everyone to him, and I just don't see the chemistry that I had with him in any one else. Is this love? He not being in my life doesn't change many things, I'm still able to function without him, yet every night for the past 7 months, I've been dreaming about him, and secretly thinking I'll run into him some day, or he'll get in touch me with again.I feel so love sick, especially because I was only with the guy for 2 months, and no I have never felt this way about a guy before. Usually I've moved on pretty quick. Reply to this Question
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reader, shiraz  +, writes (8 December 2008):
hiyah, from what youve said i can tell you obviously have strong feelings for him so go for it. it wasnt your reltionship that finished you it was the situation you were in. now youve seen life without him youve realised you want him back and its something you need to fight for. get back in touch, if you want this as much as i think you do then making that frst move shouldnt be a problem. you need to do something quickly if you want progress to be made, dont spend your time longing for what could of been and the what ifs when you want something bad its up to you to get it.
give all youve got, you dont have anything to loose as your not official so give it all you have.
best of luck , this is going to sound bad i know but maybe you shouldnt be as over confident as you are, it can sometimes come across wrong and yeahyou may be 'very sttractive' but its not your place to say that! its a compliment somebody else gives you. also you may have men waiting on you but if ou lok back on that part of your post you may want to reword how you put it. its good to be confiendent but there is such thing as over confident. im sorry thats ending on negative and i sound harsh but i wanted you to see it and work on it.
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