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writes:Hi All,I have been involved with this guy now for 3 months. He initially didnt want a committed relationship, he said he wanted a "loose relationship" and so we decided to be just friends. Now all of a sudden he wants me to be his girlfriend. He is being totally nice and we get to spend time and do everything together. he says he has feelings for me and he would like us to take things as it comes and see where it leads us.But not sure if i should trust him now?Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, MINAT  +, writes (8 December 2008):
They say if you love something let it go but if it yours it will definately come back.he might needed to sort things out so why worry when he is back then?
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reader, katatonik  +, writes (8 December 2008):
 I don't think you have any reason to distrust him. It sounds like he has only been honest with you, first in telling you that he wanted to keep the relationship open and now to say that his feelings for you have progressed. He didn't hesitate to tell you at first that he didn't want commitment. If he still doesn't, he would simply let that original statement stand and maintain the status quo. His offer of commitment in a situation that, from your description, sounds like the two of you would be involved regardless, sounds like it's in good faith. Unless you have reasons other than what you have mentioned here to be suspicious of this guy's motives, I'd take him at his word and see what happens. Good luck =]
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