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writes: I was at work when my friend (shes a lesbian and I also knew her since we both were 5) popped in to say happy brithday and to congardlate me getting merried (in 5 weeks). One thing lead to another and we started flirting a bit. When my fiance showed up randodmly to happy brithday as well. She got all mad at me and my friend (mainly me) then stormed off before I could say anything (I didnt want to go after her because that only add fuel to the fire) . When I got home later my fiance yelled at me and threw me out after I after say she's overreacting (and she was). I called her at 3 time with no answer. I hate it when people overreact about something this stupid. What do I do?
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reader, katatonik  +, writes (8 December 2008):
 Who did the cheating? You or a previous boyfriend? Either way explains her response a little better, but if you never cheated it's still not really fair of her to jump to conclusions on this.
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reader, katatonik +, writes (8 December 2008):
Give her time to cool off and then talk to her about this. Explain that you didn't see the harm in it, since your friend isn't even attracted to men. Then hope she believes you and is willing to leave it at that. If she continues to make a huge deal of this, you may want to hold off on marrying her, unless you're prepared to deal with someone who gets irrationally jealous and will periodically try to kick you out of the house over it. Good luck =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI forget one thing (sorry) she's been cheated before and I think she's fully over it.
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