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He already trashed my reputation! Does he still want to go out?

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Question - (8 December 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 December 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *etright11 writes:

ok, so i just recently found out that a senior at my highschool told people that he slept with me! i already no he likes me and i know that bye telling me and becuase of female intuiton. now when he sees me its like he looks at me but not at my face. im not sure what he wants me to do, and yes i really do like him for some weird reason. but pleas tell me why hes acting the way he is and what you think i should do...

whats the next step? what does he expect me to do?

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A female reader, smartazngirl United States +, writes (17 December 2008):

smartazngirl agony auntHe wants to sleep with you, that's what.

I suggest you get away from that creep. That's like... Well, just not right. Honesty, if he's looking at you like that, then maybe the way you dress at school invites perverts like him.

If he asks you out, refuse him and tell him that you already like someone else and you hate him. Guys don't understand "I don't want to have a relationship right now" or stuff like that. I know that sounds mean, but it's true. Telling him straight out that you don't like him will let him know that you're not interested in a creep like him.

He'll probably sprend more rumors about you after that, but don't worry about it.

If you're a good person, I'm sure you have good friends. And your good friends will always stay by you.

Just ignore him and let him fantasize.

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A female reader, katatonik United States +, writes (8 December 2008):

katatonik agony auntHe might, but I don't think you really want to be dating someone who would trash your reputation to get what he wants. If he's telling these people stuff that didn't even happen he might very tell them details of anything you actually do with him, too. Are you ready to deal with that if it happens? Your call. Good luck.

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