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writes: I really dont know what to do. Someone please help me. Okay so I have a boyfriend. I met this other guy and have been flirting with him (online) he seems really nice and he wants to hang out. He even told me he wants to hook up. I at least wanna meet him first. I know it is extremely wrong to do this when you have a boyfriend and I dont wanna break up with him or cheat on him. I just like to flirt and I think its fun being single. I also hate breaking up with people.. Someone please tell me on what I should do. Thank you so much.
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reader, hamko  +, writes (14 December 2008):
the same thing happend to me aswell. i can tell you wat happend to me. i also have a bf, but then we werent that close enuf. always something will come up and we will always argue. in the mean time, i met my friends, friend who was really cute and we bacame 'somethng' i used to tell him about my problems and he used to give really good advices. and my bf, noticed that im always chattin with this guy, and because of my stupidity, i tell abt this guy to my bf also :s i ddnt realize he wuld feel bad. and my bf was really good to me. and he took really good care of me. but my bf ddnt say anythng abt it. he jus warned me. then oneday, i went to the guy's place, just to talk to him. it was the first time i went there. i spent the time talking to him, having fun. wen my bf called i ddnt know wat to say, i lied to him that im at my aunts place. but he got to know abt it soon. he brokeup. it was obvious. but as days passed, i started missing him, and the sweet moments we spent together. im talkin abt my bf now. i missed him like hell. he said that he wont come back to me. i cried infront of him, i begged him to be with me. and after a few days he came back. i ddnt realize how much i love him till then. u will realize the importance of people, when they leave you. so please take the right decision. and my bf's friends duznt even want us to be togethr again. coz they think a guy shuld be like that. but he says he cant live witht me. thats why he gave me a second chance. thts why i love him so much. he is living against his all friends just to be with me. and i really love him now. he means evrythng to me. so dont judje a book by its cover. its been two years now and we are living happily, and plannin to get married soon. you also chose someone who is just perfect for you then u'll realize how much happy and special to be with a partner. goodluck!! take care
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reader, xxidkxx  +, writes (8 December 2008):
 i know how you feel, this happened to me. And mostly its lead to cheeting, and thats not fair for your boyfriend. But everyone messes up. All i can say is you should pick one, and leave one behind. :)Good luck, and follow your instincs(sp)
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reader, larusso +, writes (8 December 2008):
I would say break up with your boyfriend because you don't like him enough to be loyal. If you want to flirt and be single, then do that.
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reader, Confused and lonely +, writes (8 December 2008):
I think personally that you are young so enjoy it! ... and maybe you shouldnt date anyone seriously so that you can flirt and all, guilt free!
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reader, katatonik +, writes (8 December 2008):
 Also...if you have only met this other guy online and you do decide to meet up with him, please do it in a public place for your own safety.
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reader, katatonik +, writes (8 December 2008):
Unfortunately, you can't have your cake, eat it too, AND be fair to both of the boys involved. If you just want to flirt, you need to break things off with your boyfriend so you're not leading him on any longer. If you want to stay with, and be faithful to, your boyfriend, you can't keep flirting with this other guy. It's that simple. Good luck.
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