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Archived questions from: July, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

My mum's best friends daughter, do you think it could be awkward?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

31 July 2007 (M) - I am 13 and i fancy a 14 year old. she is my mums best friends daughter and we see each other regularly. if she says no or we break up it would be awkward, but i cant stop thinking about her. should i ask her out?...

It was only pre cum.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - i had unprotected sex with my partner three weeks ago but he didn't come only precome, i've been feeling sick lately. Do i have a high chance of being pregnant?...

I can't find any guys, who are interested in me and I like them! Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - Hi. I am really stuck. I can't find any guys. Every guy that likes me im not interested in. I don't know many guys as i go to an all girls school which is awful. I am quite shy but i've been told i shouldnt be as i get a lot of male attention but i ...

My military guy is going on tour! I desperately want to be strong for him but i dont know how

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6328 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been living together for almost a year, i've never been so in love. I'm in a rough spot right now because he is in the military and these past 6 months he's been on course, away for most of the time. He's supposed to be done ...

How can i convince my girlfriend to sneak out so we can be together at night?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

31 July 2007 (M) - how can i convice my girlfriend to sneak out so we can be together at night? we cant hang out to often on account of her parents not liking me to much for my past. i constantly sneak out to see her for a few hours but its always her inside and me ...

I like her, but am holding back because she has a bf! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

31 July 2007 (M) - hi i'm new here and not to sure how to start this, but could do with some advice. i've been working with this girl at work since the beginning of the year. When i first met her i liked her but now after getting to know her more i have a massive c...

I love him to pieces but how do we get over our awkward shyness with each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - Hey well the guy i like fancies me too, but we only get to see each other once a week. Also it has got a bit awkward between us ever since we told each other we liked them. But we're trying to sort things out as both of us really want it to work. Th...

He says he doesn't find me attractive after we had such a great time together.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I recently met this guy online and we just went on a second date and we had a great time and really get on, kissed loads and cuddled/held hands lots and have loads in common. He then sends me a text to say that he loves my personality and we have ...

Want to dump this guy I've dated for a month-how do I do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6329 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I'm going out with this boy who is a year younger than me and i dont love him anymore after a month of dating. I cant stop thinking about this other boy and he's giving me advice on how to act towards the boy i like not knowing it's him. Basically i ...

24 hours after we split-he's in bed with a herpes infested girl! How could he do that?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 6 months. We broke up late Friday night because he doesn't share his feelings with me.(he shares them with everyone else though...friends/family) On Monday, I went to talk with him to patch up the relationship and I ...

Should I feel threatened by his ex gf calling him all the time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of 5 months ex-girlfriend is constantly calling him or texting him. The thing is they were together for 4 1/2 years lived together so yes there are some issues that they need to speak on the phone. They are also on the EMS squad and ...

Does he love me but he's just afraid to say so?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I've seen this guy around town for a number of years, and I've always had a crush on him but never really met him, formally. I learned not too long ago, that he and his g/f had split up and he wasn't seeing anyone for the past 2 yrs. Since he used ...

He makes me feel guilty if I can't hang out with him. I want to stay with him but I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 7 months and everything was going well until he started talking about us getting married after college, we are getting ready to start our senior year in college, and it freaked me out. He also makes me ...

I want to talk to my daughter to suport her but she seems to keep things from me. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - hi everyone hope you can help me with this well this lad and my daughter are best friends and have been since they were in infant school, they are both 16 now. Well he stays with us a lot even thought he only lives a 5minute walk away as he doesn't ...

I really fancy this footballer but have never spoken to him. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6328 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - hi i am 14 and i really like this footballer who i recently saw at a football match. i have never spoken to him before and have only seen him twice, but i really fancy him because i think he is very good looking. but i wish i did not feel this way ...

I live with my fairy tale boyfriend, but he has a wife!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together and living together for a year and a half now. He is truely the most amazing person I've ever met! Our relationship is almost perfect. We spend every day together and every second is REALLY like a fairy tale. I ...

Where is a good place to meet viable men?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6306 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - Where do you meet people to date? I don't know where to meet worthwhile guys. I go out to the bar but all that those guys seem to be interested is sex, I don't go to school anymore and I work in a small office where there are no guys my age. I don't ...

How do the men feel about dating an older woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6328 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - Men only please! I am a woman in my early fifties and have met a guy in his forties, there is a 8 year gap. He is grey haired and a bit overweight and I am hardly grey at all and trim, fit, and told I look much younger quite often, even in my thirt...

I am confortable being frumpy, but want to be attractive

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I feel a bit Bridget Jones writing this but I am truly feeling like life is passing by. I'm 35 and have one failed marriage of 13 years behind me - no children. I am comfortable in my own company but I feel like I am stuck between wanting to find ...

Why did she flirt with me if she isnt gay or bi?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6329 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - It's a long story but basically a female friend flirted with me (I'm bi). Then after a couple of weeks of talking (mostly initiated by me) I said I really liked her and wanted a relationship. She said she's kinda too busy but seemed to still be ...

He keeps changing his mind about our relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - should i finish with my boyfriend as he never wants to spend time with my children and always changes his mind about our relationship? one minute he tells me we should move in together, and the next that he needs time to get his head around the ...

The love of my life went out of town and I had sex with his best mate!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 7 month...he's the love of my life, and I want to spend my life with him. We've talked about Marriage, and moving in together. Eric is the best friend anyone could ever have, and its not in his character to ever-EVE...

He's going out with my best friend but I like him and he keeps calling me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I have liked this one guy forever and a few months ago he started going out with my best friend even though he liked and still likes me. He has been calling me alot lately and we are talking about an hour everyday. It has become very obvious that he ...

I am cheating on my boyfriend with his friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - Ok, I have been with my current boyfriend for 6 years. We have twins together who are 18 months old and we are not married because I know that we are not right for each other we have had so many problems and he has been in jail like 5 times since ...

My ex is using me for sex, but I still like him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - Hi I was with my ex for a few months. Then we split up but he said he still liked me afterwards and we did sexual things together. He messed me around basically. Soon after we would do something toegther he woudn't want to do anything and woudn't ...

My boyfriend mentioned the fantasy of a threesome and I cant get over it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend said, that like any guy, a part of him wants to have a threesome, But he doesnt really want to do anything to the other girl, just me. Well Of course I made a really wierd face because I didnt know that he had thought of having a ...

My girlfriend allows her ex and her kids to talk to her like she is a dog

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

31 July 2007 (M) - My girlfriend has been divorced since 1998 and has two boys. She still pays his bills for him (ex husbands), cleans his pool, and allows him to talk to her like she is a dog. If he calls her and she don't answer, he will call until she does. He lies ...

I would like to change the kind of guys I attract

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I keep circulating around the same type of guys in my love life. If the guy does not belong to someone else, he probably has a baby. I'm single and would like to change the type of guys i attract. How do i do that?...

My boyfriend doesnt just glance at other women, he GAWKS

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - Dear cupid, I have a question about men who gawk for long periods of time at other women. I understand that it is human nature for a man to glance. Is it a problem when it gets to the point to where my BF is spending the whole night at the pub gawk...

I want to get this girl I used to date something really special for her birthday

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6329 days ago

31 July 2007 (M) - there is a girl at my school. we used to date but she then said she wasnt attracted to me. we was great freinds before, and we still are but i still want to date her. her birthday is coming up and i wanna get her something really special, but i dont ...

Should I pursue this guy or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6329 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - hello . i have a question i just started a new job and i found the guy that i like and he likes me as well. what should i do in terms of persuing him or shouldnt i? i mean i know he likes me and i dont know what to do. he gave me his number on the ...

He ignored my calls and I said we should just be friends, but I dont know if I did the right thing

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for 4 months and he sais he loves. We have been friends for 4 years before that. He alwayed text me every day and phoned me most and told me to not stop texting him but last weekend i heard nothing from him and he ignored my ...

I am getting mixed messages about me and him and his ex and her kid

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I have met this bloke, have known him for about a month now. When i first met him i thought he was really nice but i had just came out of a relationship and didnt really want to jump back into another one. Anyway he made every effort to get wi...

I slept with him on the first date, and think I may have ruined the long term value of our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I feel like a fool! After meeting up with a guy I met on a dating site I did something completely out of character.....I slept with him on our first date! He was a real charmer and kept flattering me telling me I was beautiful etc......he bought me ...

We've been dating 7 years, but I still have trouble completely trusting him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - Hi. Ive been with my guy for nearly 7 years now, and i read on here a few days back (a response to someone elses problem) that if were still dating, dump him, as he doesnt want comitment. Me and my guy are still dating, we would get married but i th...

My boyfriend will be gone for a year and wants to be free to date while he is gone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - Why does he want to see other people while he is away and should i agree to it? Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 years, and are really close and hardly ever argue. However he has gone to study for a year in Australia and I live in En...

I don't know how this is all gonna end?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I've been having an interesting relationship with a man who's married...well it's a whole lot a mess with this dude but it never really effected me and still his before life is no issue except for all the kids he already has... I believe I was told ...

Is this normal that my boyfriend should be as close to his ex???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for a few months now. He has a few friends that are females. One is an ex girlfriend. When they get together it's to help her around her house. Mowing lawn, cleaning patio etc. she then makes him dinner as a thank you ...

We see each other on average about 5 times a week, however unless it's a lucky week where I see him 7 times, then I don't feel satisfied.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6329 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I am 18 years old and this year I started my first real serious relationship. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 6 months now and I have gotten to the point where I find it hard to cope with him not around!!! I get really down, upset and ...

people are saying we're incest and inbreads but we're neither.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I am 16 and when I was 13 my step brother and I started going out. I had fancied him for ages and when he asked me out I was so pleased. I didn't really think anything would come of it, I thought it would probably last a couple of weeks or ...

She seems very stern about breaking up, should I continut to work on our relationship or just let her go her own way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

31 July 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I started out as freinds for over 2 years. We have been dating for 8 months. She is a recovering alcoholic and most of these 8 months has been hell. After a day of drinking she would lose her temper over nothing and cause huge ...

I am tired of my relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I am tired of my relationship.. I am tired of being the one holding out our relationship together.. I feel so much pressure.. I feel that if I stop trying, we'll eventually split up... It is so much work.. I was expecting a more normal ...

Why won't he tell me what went on in Amsterdam???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - Can someone explain this to me because im totally confused!! Recently, my boyfriend of 4 years has gone to Amsterdam with his work for a global meeting. I asked about what has happened there, and he sounded hesitant at first to tell me. I asked...

I tried to give him some space but I don't want to feel that I have to tread on eggshells with my boyfriend or feel that he doesn't even want to be with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6328 days ago

31 July 2007 (M) - Okay so I've been going out with his guy for a while now about a week. And the other night at a party he told me he really liked me and asked if he could kiss me, and we did. But for the past two days or so he has spoke to me very little, and hasn't ...

Problem choosing the right guy. Do I really like them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6329 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - ive got problems on choosing the "right guy"... cause im kind of talking with guys and im starting to grow feelings for them but the problem is that im not sure if i actualy like them or i only think i like them because im realy happy that were ...

I need more than a phone to hold at night, I need for HIM to be here!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I'm really scared for no reason, I guess my fiance went through depression and we have an off and on long distance relationship and we were supposed to get married this month but he wanted to save up some more money but I know that's the level ...

How do I ask him to be my secret boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I am 12 and I really like a guy. His family and my family are really good friends. I even told him I like him and he said he sorta like me too. I want to go out with him but my parents do not allow me to date. I want to ask him does he wanna be my ...

I don't want to be with him but he wants to be with me so bad. What do i do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6329 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - HI, i was involved in a realationship for two years and moved on from that into another one with a really nice guy. yes we had our fights but always got through them for the short time we were together. i dont want to be in a relationship right now. ...

I'm not sure if I actually have a chance with this guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6328 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I like this guy an he likes me he left for mississippi an we were in love with each other but we never went out but when he came home he got another girl friend but they broke up and his mom asked him why we werent together an he said "mom i dont ...

My partner changed jobs, and now I don't think I see him often enough...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6330 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I have been seeing my partner for 14 months. He is a chef and when we met he was living and working in the same town. I have my children on alternate weeks and when they were not with me, I spent the week with my partner. He would come out to me ...