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Archived questions from: 23 July, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My boyfriend seems to have control issues; he said he needs time to think. How much time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - Dear cupid, I am in love with a man 12 yrs my senior. We have been dating for close to 11 months now. We have great chemistry have had alot of good times together. On the other hand we have had some drama as he calls it. His pace is a little s...

We met up and became intimate, then a few months later, he called it off; what's going on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6335 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - I met a man a little more than half a year ago. We live very far from each others, but he was very keen on getting to know me and would call me every day. After a month he traveled to see me again for about a week. During this week we became closer ...

My boyfriend dumped me and I still have to see him, as his friends are my friends; he's started flirting with another girl too and it's killing me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - Well i was with this boy. And he was really sweet and everything but he was also a d**k at the same time and never called me, never made the effort with me, never came up and said hi to me when we were out with our friends. And just plainly treated ...

What should I do during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - Hey I'm 16 and I have never had sex before because I don't know what to do, I'm scared that the guy I'm with may not like what I do... What should I do during sex? please help ...

He has a fear of commitment as well and thinks right now just isn't a good time but possibly in the future.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6033 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - So just recently I decided it was time to end a relationship after almost a year. Don't get me wrong we never fought and we got along so well. Basically I just didn't feel like a top priority in his life and he never said I love you. We talked about ...

My best friend said he fancies me; we decided not to date but in truth, I love him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6179 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - there is a boy i really like and he is my best friend the other week he told me he fancyed me and wanted to go out with me so i suggested we both thought it through. we both came to a conclusion that it would be best not to but deep down i love him ...

He said 'Good Girl' as i was giving him oral.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - I have several problems that I am not sure how to deal with. Firstly, I am concerned that I am getting too intimate with my boyfriend too soon (I feel this was the problem in my previous relationship even though we had known each other for year...

I'm the 'other man'; should I pull away and see if she leaves him for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

23 July 2007 (M) - I am in a love triangle where im the other man. I know none of her friends or family and she has been in a relationship for about few years that has run most its course. Been seeing her 6 months on/off. I know she is not happy as she made choices to ...

He seems obsessed with building a collection of online friends; I think he's choose them over me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is adding new single women (who look like me by the way) on his MySpace Account and he gets defensive with me whenever I try to ask him why. He says most of his friends male or female have actually asked him to be his friend and I ...

I like a guy from the gym but can't work out if he likes me too

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6337 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - Hey all, I need some advice. Theres this guy I like but I don't know whether he likes me. Basically, he works at the gym i go to, he signed my mate up and initally joked with me about not being allowed in as i have a free membership, so i pl...

How can I tell my protective parents that I'm dating someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - hi all ok so heres the things i met this guy a month ago and weve been dating ever since , and really happy having fun chattting , and socialising , anyway hes told his parents about me and ive met them and the thing is i havnt told my parents ...

I'm 16 and my 23 year old crush knows I like him; he has a girlfriend but he says he doesn't like her anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - Hi i am 16 and i like this boy/man who is 23 is this wrong? he knows i like him but he has a girlfriend at the minute. He calls her names and says he doesnt like her anymore. I really like him alot though any ideas on how i could get over him? ...

How can someone stop loving you after one month of dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - how can some one say i love you at the begginning of a relationship then stop a month into it ? ...

I worry what my boyfriend is doing when I'm not with him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - is it silly to worry what my guy would be doing if he isn't checking his phone? il ring and he'll pick up..i just sit there waiting for him to text thinking he may be in trouble is he hurt or is he up to something..i perfectly trust him and when i ...

After 2 failed marriages I'm seeing a woman I love but we fight all the time; is this relationship worth the pain?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

23 July 2007 (M) - I have so many questions I need help with. I am 47 been married twice with children, now have a child and stepson although we are not married with another woman. I love this woman more than I think I have ever loved anyone else. I seem to be in a ...

He always treated me different from other girls but we've never really dated; he moved away for a job and we now don't speak as often. I love him, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6337 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - hi all the guy im in love with is birthday today...but i aint wished him happy birthday he has never told me when his bday is and i've never told him when mine is. i only know because he sent his cv to me to check over about 6months ago and...

He's not Ok with me going out with a male friend but isn't it a bigger deal for me that he has an ex wife and a daughter? Am I being paranoid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - I’ve been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years. He has a daughter with his ex-wife. For some reason, I get really jealous whenever he mentions things like: Oh, she use to not let me cook. It was just a general statement but I just get paranoid ...

He won't say 'I love you' or include me in his future plans because he doesn't want to feel 'trapped' but I'm just confused about what he really wants

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6337 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - I have been with a lovely man for just under nine months now and after about 4 months I blurted out I love you which he didnt say back. he treats me very well and is so sweet to me and reliable and says things that he loves about me or loves being ...

How can I make my relationship what it used to be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6337 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - my boy friend and i have been together for 8 months now but there was a time when he broke up with me because we couldnt see each other. after 2 days we got back 2 gether. but when we started seeing each other again it wasn't the same. i asked him ...

I'm basically having to choose between my sister and my ex, whom I still want to be with; am I wrong to feel like this isn't fair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6335 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - iv been split up with my ex fiance for nearly 2 month now. but hes suddenly arrived back on the scene asking if he can see me and stuff, which i have agreed to as only friends, even thou deep down i want more. he has told me his life has went do...

He seems to care about me but he never asks questions; not even about my job, my family or any of the usual things like that

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - I've recently started dating a man who seems to be very nice, very quiet but very respectful and thoughtful. He seems to really care for me and want to spend time. My concern is that he never asks questions about me even though I ask him. I have ...

We are in a lond distance relationship, but i think he talks to others.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. But, I susspect that he talks to other girls on the phone when he is not talking to me. I also think that he is interchanging text, message too. Which I think is very disrespe...

I'm 16 and think I'm in love; is this possible, or should I wait?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - basically am 16 and am already in love is this possible..even though we see each other twice a week..we don't live together..and even though its bin a month and a bit, i fantasies about him, we havn't had sex i won't do it and he respects that i...

Want to experience other people now, but i have a boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 months we lost our virginity together but now i feel like i want to experience other people but i don't want to end my relationship please help!!!...

What does witty mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

23 July 2007 (M) - A girl i fancy so badly told me she would love to have a boyfriend with great sense of humour, witty comments who's loving and tender. I get some of it, but what is witty comments? And what does she mean by being tender?...

She claims the anniversary of her Mother's death took a toll on her and she needs space from the relationship! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

23 July 2007 (M) - i have been dating this older lady (8yrs older) in a long distance relationship for approx 6mos me in l.a. she in n.y., now her spouse past about 7-8yrs ago and her mother passing a year ago. now she had relationships but one only lasting about 1 ...

I don't like the sex organs i have.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

23 July 2007 (M) - I am male and am attracted to females but I dislike having the male parts I have. I am also not sporty and don't really like cars nor do i fit into the catagories of a typical bloke. Could I be a lesbian in a man's body?...

He doesn't want anyone to know about our relationship! If they do find out, he lies! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - 22/7/07 I'm 16, my boyfriend says he loves me, wants it to last forever, wnats to marry me, this is all in texts! When i talk to him or see him, he never says it unless we're physical he'll say i love you.. but not in the way i want to hear i...

He's seeing my mate, but telling people he's single.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - What does it mean when your ex is being flirty towards you;giving you wedgies and teasing you? He suppossed to be going out with a close freind of mine but says he is single! What is going on in his head?? ...

He doesn't have time for me but he does for his work and friends. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - Although my boyfriend seems to be interested in me he seems that he doesn't have a lot of time for me. He is spending many hours to work and he wants to go out with his own friends sometimes. I am tired of asking him to spend time together and ...

I'm not sure about marriage.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - I am in love with this guy for a year and i am not sure of spending the rest of my life with him because of our diffrences. We fight alot and argue most times. We have been able to tolerate each other for this years but i think marraige is diffrent...

My stepbrother is in love with my gf! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6337 days ago

23 July 2007 (M) - I'll start by saying this involves my gf of 5 1/2 years Chelsea, and my step brother Mark, who i have known and been best friends with for 16 years. My brother has always been an odd guy. Not very social, and extremely moody, though he's extremely ...

My close guy friend distanced himself after I found a bf..why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - Hello- I a fairly sure that one of my best friends has abandoned our friendship because I am no longer single. I will describe the situation and perhaps you all can tell me what you think. I met this man several years ago while in college. We bot...

He thinks if we have sex he will lose interest.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

23 July 2007 (M) - I am posting this because i am really looking for non involved opinions and what you all think about this situation. First and foremost I am gay I have just started dating this guy about 3 weeks ago in which we flirted on and off for at least 5 ...

What's the problem?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - I had a baby 3 months ago. I just found out I am pregnant again. I am happy because I wanted my daughter to have a sibling close in age to play with etc. I feel that it will make her happier, I also really love being a mom. I am not married to t...

I love him but he has problems.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - We are both near 50yrs and have both had multiple relationships and want to settle down. We've been together 4yrs, lived together 3yrs. My grandchildren love him, I love him....but I can't stand to be around him for more than a couple of days at a...

Would it be a sin or illegal to be with my first cousin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

23 July 2007 (M) - Ok, over the past few years me and my first cousin and i have gone really close and want to go further she lives kind of far and we talk time to time but i am afrain my family will not accept me. What should i do? and also is this a sin if we have ...

Never been on a date or had a boyfriend! How do I get this stuff started?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6338 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - well, this question has probably been asked quite a few times on here, but here it goes i am 20 yrs old... I'll be 21 in january actually. and I have never been on a date or had a boyfriend. I've had crushes on plenty of guys, and most of my ...

I like this girl but she's shy whenever we're alone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

23 July 2007 (M) - i like this girl. I want to ask her out to bowling or cinema. Any ideas? If she acts a bit quiet or awkward does that mean she does not like me or could she be shy? Because this girl is perfectly fine in school, and over the phone but i think ...

My girlfriend is losing interest, how can I make her interested again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6338 days ago

23 July 2007 (M) - my girlfriend seems to be getting bored or fed up of me n da relationship. I'm becoming boring to her. How do I become interesting again? P.S.* i can't meet her or go out wd her, i'l b seeing her after 2 more weeks....

I'm not allowed to be with him; should I go ahead and see him anyway?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - should i do what i want? i have been seeing this boy for about three months and am not aloud to be with him as he is no angel should i do what i want and get into trouble for seeing him or not see him at all???? ...