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Archived questions from: July, 2016 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

Is she just an attention seeker? A flirt? Where so I draw the line with her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

31 July 2016 (M) - Where do you draw the line when you're a very flirty person and like the attention? What I mean is my work colleague is a very flirty person, the touchy feeling type. But where do you draw the line without making the person your flirting with g...

I don't think I can hide my feelings for my step brother much more. We are not blood related. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3018 days ago

31 July 2016 (F) - When I was 8 years old my parents divorced. Me and my sister decided to live with my mum. My dad met his ex girlfriend and they fell in love again, when I was 9 she introduced us to her children. Lets call them N (he is 11 now) W (he is 17 now) and ...

What are signs a girl wants me to move the conversation to asking her out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

31 July 2016 (M) - How do you know if a woman is into you? I'm a 23 yr old virgin and have had one girlfriend only. It lasted two years. Shyness/lack of confidence gets in my way. Whether I think I'm too short/not good looking/charismatic enough. When...

How can I approach this guy at work to see if he's interested in dating me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3018 days ago

31 July 2016 (F) - I've been working with this guy for a year now and I just recently connected with him because we work in a factory that's very loud and fast paced. He always said hi to me before we started talking because he thought I was cute and I never had a gu...

How can I stop fancying my teacher?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3036 days ago

29 July 2016 (F) - Hello, I am a 16 year old girl (going to be 17 in August) and I have just finished my first year of college. So there's this male teacher who I have the biggest crush on he's quite young (probably in his 20s). It all started as a miny little c...

Could this older man like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3037 days ago

28 July 2016 (F) - I'm sort of embarrassed to be asking this, as I normally don't have problems with this sort of issue. I'll give you a rundown of my situation: This man in twenty something years older than me. I am not underage, in my twenties. We work together...

Major trust issues. I feel that if I like someone, that I'll get disappointed. How should I address these trust issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

27 July 2016 (F) - Hi there. I am in my early 20s. I have this bad fear of men and a fear of liking someone, more of an attachment. Before, I'd thought that it was a phase that I was going through and I'll get it over with but nothing seems to change as I grew int...

Teen LDR. Should I hold on, or just let go? We're perfect for each other.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

27 July 2016 (M) - i'm 16 years old and i met this girl on an online like 4 weeks ago, she needed help so we talked on skype, we kept talking on skype and texting almost everyday. She's 15 years old, we love the same things, we think the same, we're like soulmate...

How can I stop feeling inferior when my crush picked another woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

26 July 2016 (F) - I am confident and know I have plenty to offer a man. However, this guy picked another woman over me and I can't help but to feel inferior to her anyway. My ego is a bit crushed. I saw a picture on IG of them together. I feel like shit and keep won...

I wonder where do I stand in all of this? My deep seated trust issues are affecting me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3037 days ago

26 July 2016 (F) - There is this guy friend of mine. This started when we were around 14-15 years old (well I will be 21 y/o this year). He was my friend, a good friend. We were actually acquaintenced since we were 7 years old (due to the fact we were in the same sch...

Is there anything wrong with liking and crushing for a cousin? My cousin is hot..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3036 days ago

26 July 2016 (M) - so I have this problem i don't know if it wrong or not but , i knew i had a cousin, but never knew how she looked like. Later she went to my college and saw her , but i didn't know she was my cousin, and well nobody told me or showed me a picture ...

I like my best friend. Should I tell him I have feelings for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

24 July 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid, There is this guy i like. I have known him for a long time. I have had feelings for him for awhile. The thing is that i dont know if i should tell him or not. I think he likes me but im not sure... Can you please help me? And it is also ...

I want to date him but I don't want to rush things. Do I tell him now or give it time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

23 July 2016 (F) - Opinions please!!! So I am newly out of a long term relationship, and after it was over, but before I was moved out a met a guy. I was attracted to him physically but that was about it. Anyways long story short we ended up hanging out, talking, ...

Should I give up on a girl I like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

23 July 2016 (M) - I've known this girl, for what seems like an eternity, we get along great and I can always be myself around her, and I've always felt some form of attraction for her, nothing has happened between us, but in the last few months I felt I was losing ...

Four years of texting, how do I let go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

23 July 2016 (F) - Please can someone give me advice on how to forget/let go of someone! I'm holding onto scrapings of hope and I know it won't work! it's been 4 years of texting and only meeting a handful of times and nothing has progressed! ...

Almost twice my age, will he freak out if I tell him I find him attractive?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

23 July 2016 (F) - How would men in their late 40s feel if a girl in her mid 20s had feelings and a few x-rated thoughts about them? Would they be repulsed or find it a joke, or be interested in her? Yes I do like a man a bit older and I'm so scared to hell him inca...

I'm in a committed relationship, so how do I stop thinking about a past love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

22 July 2016 (F) - Hello, I am at the age where everyone I know is getting engaged, married, having kids... I am in a serious relationship going on 3 years this September. I love him, I do, and we have talked about marriage. We live together, we have pets togeth...

Should I ask him what's happening, and if it's just sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

22 July 2016 (F) - I started seeing a guy in September last year. We do work together and have done for a few years and always get on. Another colleague told me that this guy quite liked me so we started talking and went on a couple of dates and started seeing e...

Was it heat of the moment, or serious?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

22 July 2016 (F) - Brief description... My FWB and I bought feelings for each other. We have both been working a lot of conflicting hours. He asked me to be his and I thought it was a joke. We took FWB off the table. It can't work NSA if feelings are tied into it...

Was he interested in me and did I screw something up or maybe he was just being friendly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3045 days ago

20 July 2016 (F) - While I am walking to sit down, I catch this guy staring at me. He does not look away once I catch him. He was on the computer doing his work, but once I came in, he was looking at me. I remember talking to my friend, who was with me, about a job ...

I had a crush on my Teacher while at School. Should I tell him about that crush when we meet for a catchup?.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3045 days ago

20 July 2016 (F) - I had a crush on my Teacher while at School. I recently came across his Facebook page and added him as a friend and we started chatting online. What have I been doing since I left School, (ten years ago). He is in his 50's now and still as han...

How can I find someone else at my age? Why is she ripping my family apart ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3046 days ago

19 July 2016 (F) - I think my husband of 12 years is having an affair. Myself and my hubby are in the same job but work at different locations. One of our colleagues told me she was concerned about how much help and time he was spending with a client. Anytime s...

He's shy. Was he hinting towards going out together and wanted me to take the hint?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3045 days ago

19 July 2016 (F) - This shy guy has a major crush on me. We don't talk much because he gets nervous talking to me. So One day while nervously talking to me he suddenly bring up the food topic ...telling me about his favorite Mexican food he gets from this Mexica...

My close friends are saying he doesn't like me....what do you think ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3046 days ago

19 July 2016 (F) - I work for a big retail food company. I have a shy male supervisor who has a crush on me .He smiles at me and stares at me, notices little changes in me , gets jealous when guys talk to me gets all nervous and blushy around me but very talkativ...

A girl is flirting with my boyfriend. Should I ask him about this girl? Or go see the girl myself?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

18 July 2016 (F) - Hello I have been with my boyfriend for almost 12 months now, and I have been really happy. Everything has been fine until this year, when he was told he had to attend a computer course at a technical college once a week. Since going to col...

Would sending flowers be the right way to get the attention of a beautiful woman I met while working as a contractor at her workplace?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

17 July 2016 (M) - So I work in a variety of places as I am a contractor and last week in my workplace I met the most beautiful woman. We got on well and I think there was a connection and mutual attraction there. As it would have been unprofessional d...

He is 19. Should I break up with him for my parents? His parents are not happy either

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

17 July 2016 (F) - Friends I want help ! ??please give me some suggestions I fell in love I don't know what to do My age is 14 and my bf age is 19 ,we 're best friends now we are dating ! And I really love him I don't wanna lose him any more i have too many ...

Why is this shy guy acting weird?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

17 July 2016 (F) - A shy guy who has a crush on me tries to make me jealous by flirting with other girls around me and then he ignores me but if he sees any other guy even talking to me , he runs and come stands with me and try to be a part of the conversation. If the ...

I've known her for years and I love her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

16 July 2016 (M) - Help, I'm a 20 year old guy and just recently started talking to my best friend from since I was 12, I had a crush on her when we were younger and than we lost contact cuz of the wrong people we were in relationships with... We just st...

Since we spoke and I have not heard from him. Do you think that he's not interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3050 days ago

15 July 2016 (F) - hi there, I would really like some help on a current situation :) basically I have been working at a summer camp for 3 months, I met a guy there but I did not really notice him until the final month. I started to get to know him and I developed ...

Really like this guy, but if he did like me wouldn't he really want to see me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2755 days ago

14 July 2016 (F) - hello, I have been speaking to this guy for nearly 4 years on and off. we have always said we care for each other and have a natural connection but haven't done anything about it due to my travelling and uni and his work. We text all day everyday...

What is all this that I'm feeling and why ? He's a best friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2997 days ago

14 July 2016 (F) - I have been best friends with this guy for nearly 2 years now. Well i consider him as a bestie. He is 19 years old and i know everything about him ranging from his hobbies to his family. I feel like i am really close to him so much so that i know ...

13 years old. Some of our friends have done more than we have ever tried. How should I react if he asks to to do more with him as far as touching?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3051 days ago

14 July 2016 (F) - Errh', okay - so I'm fairly young, just turned 13 a few days ago. I have a very serious relationship with a boy, who is about a year and a few months older than me. (I'm off to gr. 8, and he's off to gr. 9.) It's extremely obvious that he absolute...

I let my feelings for him make me look like a fool!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2982 days ago

13 July 2016 (F) - Hi. I'm currently in a weird state of mind and need some clarity. I really like this friend of mine from college but he works in a different city so we don't get to see each other. The issue is, I always end up acting awkward with him. I talk too ...

Did I permanently mess up my chances with this girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3052 days ago

13 July 2016 (M) - Okay, so I've been eyeing this girl both in person and on social media for about 8 months now. She doesn't even know I exist because the few times that I've seen her in person I was really far away for her to notice and it was at a county fair with ...

OMG I just saw my crush on two dating sites, how do I approach this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3051 days ago

13 July 2016 (F) - OMG Aunts. I saw my long term crush on two dating sites. I know it is him because he used his real name the second time i saw him on the second dating site. What do I do? He is my neighbour back home (now im studying in the city), so we grew up ...

The rumors of a crush are ruining my work life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3054 days ago

10 July 2016 (F) - Hi I love my job it's not a chore to go. Someone is spreading rumors that I fancy this guy and everyone is laughing behind my back. I've been friendly but no more than with the other guys there. He does make me feel awkward. he's taken this all the ...

What I did was dangerous, & I want to forget him but I also want to see him again.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3054 days ago

10 July 2016 (F) - Hi. Okay so where should I start. Last year I met this guy online and after a few months we met up (publicly and locally of course). We...well after a little while I guess we got carried away and started making out etc (minus sex). I realised ...

Confused, does he want a relationship or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3056 days ago

9 July 2016 (F) - Hi I'm 15 years old and a girl. I have a "thing" with a guy who is also my age. I met him at the local fair and we hit it off really good fast. I'm super bad at texting so in the beginning he'd text me and sometimes I wouldn't respond. Not because I ...

I met somebody new, but in the past I had sex with his relative

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3053 days ago

9 July 2016 (F) - I recently met someone and we had an instant connection, although I have no idea where this will go as there is a distance factor. The problem is the guilt I'm having about something that happened between myself and this man's relative several ...

I really do like him, but I also love my boyfriend. Help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3054 days ago

9 July 2016 (F) - Hi guys, So there is a guy who left my work last week that I have grown extremely close to during our time as colleagues. I have spoken to him via text message since he left and received messages such as "I'm missing you so much :( can't wai...

Does he like me, even a little bit and if so will he think my behaviour is very strange?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3060 days ago

5 July 2016 (F) - Ok so this guy that i like I also suspect that he likes me but i cannot be sure... He is at the same university as me but we don't see each other all that often - maybe once or twice a week in passing. We have had conversations before (before I...

Is it because I'm a teen that I'm thinking about my friend like this? It's stressful

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3060 days ago

5 July 2016 (F) - This is my first time asking anything here, I am a 13 year old girl, going into 8th grade. I feel really awkward because I've been having kind of dirty thoughts about one of my closest friends who I've known for 3 years now, but I never felt ...

Should I continue as a friend and hope he'll change his mind? Or let him go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3060 days ago

5 July 2016 (F) - I am in love with a friend of mine and he has told me once before he doesnt really see me as what I see him. He doesnt want to date; at first it hurt but I got over it after a while. The feeling is back and I cant shake it off as I used to wors...

All I've met is harsh judgement. But I need advice and some support on what to do in my situation. Help, please?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3060 days ago

5 July 2016 (F) - OK first of all please don't judge me on this but I got with my boyfriend while he was still married, he is now separated from his wife and with me. I guess he had fell out of love by the time he met me. There is 20 years difference between ...

What should I be doing to get him to talk to me again, and not let me down again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3055 days ago

4 July 2016 (F) - I needed your help with my love life. I met a guy in june he is really sweet and nice we both liked each other a lot then he started acting weird ignoring me and not wanting to talk to me I didn't know what I did to trigger him to do that and the ...

Is he interested in me?? He sure has been attentive.Or is he being a great salesperson?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3055 days ago

3 July 2016 (F) - Hi everyone! I need some advice on whether you think this guy I know is interested in me or not. I'll try and lay out the whole situation honestly so you can get a feel for it! So at the end of April I went to a cosmetics store, the one local to ...

Does this girl like me? I can't tell

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 3056 days ago

3 July 2016 (M) - So i talked to this girl over the phone and she kept giggling and saying I'm cute. Then we met in person and she told me that i have a nice body and she told me I'm cute again. She was acting super nervous around me and said to me "Sorry for ac...

We fight, we flirt, we hug and kiss, does she want to date, or for me to leave her alone?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3054 days ago

3 July 2016 (M) - So i work with someone thats been showing inconsistency in her behaviour, just wanted to know whats wrong or going on. So the story goes, we both annoy each other, ignore each other, hate each other, backstab each other. She deleted my phone number, ...

I do like the guy, and we've talked since we had sex, on our first date. How do I handle myself when we meet next time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3061 days ago

3 July 2016 (F) - I went out last weekend to the bar district. I had broken up with my boyfriend of 6 months about three weeks prior and just wanted to go out and have a good time. I met a really hot and fun guy. The two of us went back to his place and, obvi...