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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:OMG Aunts. I saw my long term crush on two dating sites. I know it is him because he used his real name the second time i saw him on the second dating site. What do I do? He is my neighbour back home (now im studying in the city), so we grew up playing together. He is two years older than me and the dating site said that he was a match for me. What do I do? Do i text him? Im so excited and nervous at the same time, he is also busy with his studies now . It seems like as we grow it becomes even harder to see eachother. No i dont have his number and since he does not know that i have/had a crush on him, can this work? My hopes is that he had a thing for me or two. What do you say? :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2016): Message him and see where it goes from there
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (13 July 2016):
 Contact him on the dating site, say look it matched us up, laugh about it and say maybe it is a sign. Go for it, you only live once, good luck
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (13 July 2016):
 The obvious answer is join the dating site. However it seems a pity to give them money as you already know each other - I have got that right have I?
The other way would be to find out his contact details from a mutual friend back home. Or you could walk round to his house - you say you are neighbours and leave your details with them and ask them to pass them on to him as you would like to get in touch. It's easier than it seems. I mean why not you? Why should you not be the one?
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