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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I had a crush on my Teacher while at School. I recently came across his Facebook page and added him as a friend and we started chatting online. What have I been doing since I left School, (ten years ago). He is in his 50's now and still as handsome. I am meeting him on Friday for a drink. Should I tell him about my crush or just forget the past? Then show him the adult I am today, I have a college degree, steady job and and a 3 year old. So I would say if something did happen, it would be OK? Or is this a bad idea. I'm separated from my child's father before anyone asks. He is divorced.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (20 July 2016):
 You could tell him, no harm in that, but it may make things very awkward indeed. Going for a drink with a former pupil doesn't seem like a normal thing to do, so maybe he has already got that impression from you, but really do you want to date someone so much older than you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2016): Why not?. You are both adults. I'm assuming he was your high school teacher, not primary school?.
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reader, Ivyblue  +, writes (20 July 2016):
 Depends on how things are travelling and what direction they take. He may see the funny side of things or he may not. Cant see the harm myself but I take things light hearted.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (20 July 2016):
 No, don't.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (20 July 2016):
 Let it go. Personally, I think the age gap is too big for you to be in compatible life stages and I think it's a bad idea to date former teachers. Even meeting him for a drink sounds a bit iffy to me, but to each their own.
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