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anonymous
writes:Hi guys, So there is a guy who left my work last week that I have grown extremely close to during our time as colleagues. I have spoken to him via text message since he left and received messages such as "I'm missing you so much :( can't wait to see you again!" Over the past few months, I've started to develop feelings for this guy and although nothing has ever gone further than a hug to greet each other, I often find myself daydreaming about things going further. But here's where it gets complicated - I'm in a relationship and have been for the past 18 months. I have never cheated on anyone and would normally 100% disagree with being unfaithful but part of me does not trust myself to meet up with this guy out of work as I honestly don't know if I trust myself! I really do like him but I also love my boyfriend. Help!!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (11 July 2016):
 It is simple really, if you love your boyfriend and you are happy and want to be with him, then delete this other guys phone number and don't meet up with him if you cannot trust yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2016): Is there any problems in your current relationship? Are you happy with your current situation? If your considering someone else those should be the questions you answer for yourself first.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (9 July 2016):
 You know that when people cheat they have often done it in their heads first. Is that you? Perhaps you need to think hard about what you want. Do you want to keep this little fantasy in your head or are your ready to move on from your boyfriend?
The choice is yours.
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