A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I work for a big retail food company. I have a shy male supervisor who has a crush on me .He smiles at me and stares at me, notices little changes in me , gets jealous when guys talk to me gets all nervous and blushy around me but very talkative with other girls/people in general. I am going to another city to take a crash course for 6 weeks so I will be away.He has no way to contact me once I leave but he still hasn't asked me for my number or email. .so far. And he knows that I am not on facebook either...my close friends are saying he doesn't like me....what do you think ?
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female
reader, aunt honesty +, writes (19 July 2016):
I wonder why your friends don't think he likes you, could they see it from a different point of view that you are seeing it? How do you know he has a crush on you?
Either way it is up to you if you want to make a move or not, I think it is clear that he is not going to bother, but maybe you could give him your number or ask for his so you can keep in contact.
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male
reader, Denizen +, writes (19 July 2016):
You ask what do we think? To be honest it doesn't really matter. What do YOU think? Do you want to take this further? Just because someone is interested in you doesn't mean you have to respond.
However if you do want to encourage him, find ways to give him an opening to ask you out or to phone you.
You could for example give him your phone number, 'In case anything crops up while you are away that he needs to talk to you about'.
It's up to him then.
As I may have said before, faint heart never won fair lady.
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