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writes:Help, I'm a 20 year old guy and just recently started talking to my best friend from since I was 12, I had a crush on her when we were younger and than we lost contact cuz of the wrong people we were in relationships with... We just started talking a few days ago when she moved back into town and I feel like we're both flirting with each other and trying to set each other up to make the first move but we never do and I know if we were really amazing friends it wouldn't matter but I'm in love with her and I know it's not just me really caring about her cuz I've felt it before but this time I know it's real,I could figure it out on my own but I need some brain storming so will someone please help?!PS: we always act like we're in a relationship together but a healthy relationship and since we have been friends everyone always thoughtwe were together, we also have never been in a single argument or disagreement...
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (18 July 2016):
 Just go for it, call her and ask her would she like to go on a date with you. Good luck.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (17 July 2016):
Do you know that she is single? Assuming yes, I would take charge of the situation: some-one has to. This obviously means a lot to you. I would tell her how much you value her friendship, tell her how much you enjoy her company and your conversations and tell her that you were wondering how she would feel if you were to ask her on a date. She may say yes, she may say no, or she may ask you to confirm that you’re saying that you have feelings for her (if she does that, answer truthfully that you do). Then if it goes well, take things slowly. There’s no secret to this, and no way to get her to see it without having to do the awkward bit of telling her how you feel. But knowing is better than wondering, and you might just get the result you wanted.
I wish you all the very best.
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