New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in September, 2013, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (2), 2 (1), 3 (2), 4 (1), 6 (1), 7 (3), 8 (4), 10 (3), 11 (2), 12 (4),
13 (1), 14 (1), 16 (2), 17 (1), 18 (3), 20 (1), 21 (1), 22 (3), 23 (1), 25 (2),
26 (3), 27 (3), 28 (2), 29 (1),

Archived questions from: September, 2013 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

My boyfriend cheated, on top of that we are of different religions.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

29 September 2013 (F) - I am 23 years old and am a doctor. I am in india. I am in love with my boyfriend for 5years our relationship has been fine except for a few ups and downs . During the first year of our college my bf was dating a classmate of ours they then stopped ...

She's unhappy about it. Is it wrong to be in a casual relationship with a guy who has an open relationship with his Gf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4063 days ago

28 September 2013 (F) - Is it wrong of me to be continuing a casual relationship with a guy who is in an open relationship with another girl, and the girl is beginning to be unhappy about it? It's nothing serious between us (though it is ongoing, around once or twice a ...

My Uncle's solution has upset me. What can I do? He wants to disappear as payback for his wife's adultery.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

28 September 2013 (M) - Dear Aunts i now find myself asking you for your advice on this family issue. My uncle and aunt have played a critical role in my up bringing for the first fifteen years of my life. My uncle confided in me that his wife my aunt confessed to him t...

My married male friend has admitted to being in love with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4064 days ago

27 September 2013 (F) - Ok, so I am a 21 yr old female, student, and i have this male friend(30), an audiologist, who is married and has a kid.. I always saw him in this friend area...plus he is my best friend. He admitted of being Madly in love with me. It was a ...

I'm in love with him so why do I think about other men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4064 days ago

27 September 2013 (F) - I really love the guy I'm with. the mention of his name makes me smile uncontrollably. I smile regardless if I'm telling stories about our arguments or something funny he's done. He's absolutely amazing. we have been together for 3 months but I've ...

Block him or fight for him?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

27 September 2013 (F) - I discovered my boyfriend was cheating on me even after he knew my past of being cheated on and how badly hurt I was. I was so surprised because he earned my trust for over a year and a half before we even did anything. I really trusted him because ...

The guy I like went back to his ex because he misses the child. What should I do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4058 days ago

26 September 2013 (F) - Please can someone help me what to do I am so much in love with a guy who loves me to but he's gone back to his ex cos he misses his son which isn't his biologically but has been there since born little one is 3 now he texts me everyday telling me ...

My husband of 9 years cheated for numerous times. How can I get over this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4063 days ago

26 September 2013 (F) - I have asked for help several time on dear cupid and now need more advice. I found out my husband of 9 years cheated. Not just once, but this went on for months during the most difficult time of our lives. It hurts me more because he didnt feel bad ...

Am I crazy is he cheating and taking me for a fool?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4064 days ago

26 September 2013 (M) - Hi Guys and Girls A question about strange behaviour from my partner of 4 years. We live together and have done for 3 years. However I am always suspicious of him and keep checking his texts and Facebook messages. I like to go to bed early...

Why do I want to hold onto my ex when he cheated and I didn't?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4066 days ago

25 September 2013 (F) - Hi and thanks My ex boyfriend and I are still communicating and I still love him but hes distancing himself from me. We broke up about 4 weeks ago and his reason for being aloof is his son is talking back to his mom. Yrs ago we were in a rela...

My ex has been on my mind alot and I want to contact him. Should I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4066 days ago

25 September 2013 (F) - About 3 years ago, I met a man. I'll be completely honest, things weren't always the best and by the end, I was pretty low. He broke my heart. At the time, I was at a very tumultuous phase anyway. I was finishing my undergrad and had no idea where ...

Is he cheating or just really busy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4068 days ago

23 September 2013 (F) - Hello ok I had met this guy who is younger than I am, he is 31, I am 40. He seems like a nice guy and we would talk on the phone pretty much every day. He also kept bugging me about when I would take the Greyhound to meet him. I kept putting it off ...

She asked him to cheat but I don't know what to think!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

22 September 2013 (F) - Im going out with a boy who'd ex is also one of my friends. He dumped her after a huge arguement and she recently told me that she still has feelings for him. Just a week ago she wanted to break up with her current boyfriend. She didnt want to do it ...

Can't stop cheating on my boyfriend -- why?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4067 days ago

22 September 2013 (F) - I'm 25 and have been with my boyfriend for 9 years, but I can't stop cheating on him. Our relationship is really good and we love each other so much, he isn't romantic but he is such an affectionate guy. I've been looking on line to try and ...

Should I break it off because he will not let go of his best female friend that he's too close to?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4068 days ago

22 September 2013 (F) - My partner of 5 years is now losing me as I can no longer deal with his best friend. Shortly after I lost my virginity to him, i found out i was not the only girl in his life, but that he was mingling with others, one of which was this best friend. ...

It's a success story regarding my relationship with a divorced teacher, now my friend wants to do the same.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

21 September 2013 (F) - In 2009, I posted a question on dearcupid regarding my relationship with a married high school teacher of mine. We had an affair, broke it off when I moved east for university from my hometown in the Midwest, and he then filed for divorce and moved ...

Do I pursue this girl who has a boyfriend living faraway?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

20 September 2013 (M) - So there's this girl... She's 17 about to turn 18 and I'm 21...not that this is an age related question, I just thought I'd throw that info in. We went to school together but we never really talked, she was shy then. We started talking like two week...

Can an affair with a married man ever end happily for the other woman?

This question has 52 answers - newest was posted 4064 days ago

18 September 2013 (?) - Hello everyone. Before I begin, I realize I am opening myself up to a firestorm of very harsh judgment, name calling and comments from Dear Cupid's advice givers and readers. Please do not judge me. We all walk different paths in life and make...

My b/f of 6 years cheated on me with my friend and now I have trust issues!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

18 September 2013 (F) - Hello, i am in a relation with my boy friend for about 6 years. We met in in college .He had an affair with my friend while we were together i came to know about that and told him i was disappointed because i believed him a lot, he said that he made ...

My boyfriend's wandering eye

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

18 September 2013 (F) - Please help!!! I have been seeing someone for about 9 months now and i have a problem. I was coming out of an elevator with him and there was a girl and her mom in there. The girl and her mom got out the elevator and once we got out i started ...

I am giving him a second chance although he lies and cheats.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4066 days ago

17 September 2013 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for just over three years now, and it's my first long term relationship. We've had our ups and downs just like anyone. Recently we had a heart to heart, he went out to lunch with a girl who he had been deleting messages ...

I think this guy I've been talking to is cheating on me! How do I handle this? Should I be mad?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

16 September 2013 (F) - I'm talking to this guy and I'm in college. He lives an Hour away but he went back to his original home because he's on vacation. we usually talk everyday, but when I told him I was going home he told me he wont contact me this weekend, so I can sp...

All I really need to know from you is do you think he can love me if he's done that? And does he want to be with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

16 September 2013 (F) - I assume you will all tell me to get rid once youve read my question but what I really want to know is can he love me if he did this? Do you think he really wants to be with me? So ive been with my boyfriend since feb, neither of us were looking ...

Why is my ex's girlfriend telling me I'm evil and ugly?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

14 September 2013 (?) - It's been 3 yrs!! since my separation my ex a cheater!! I am in a good place emotionally and it seems that my ex's current girlfriend is on facebook under a fake account and messaging me calling me ugly and how my ex is happy and at peace. Funny ...

People think my guy is so great but they don't see what I see!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

13 September 2013 (F) - Has anybody ever gone through this, or at least seen it happening before? I have what I would call a normally very sweet guy. My family love him and my friends always tell me how lucky I am, and wish they could meet someone like him. They ask why we ...

I know I need to let her go because of how she treats me, but I'm in love with her and scared to be without her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4079 days ago

12 September 2013 (F) - This past week and a half my girlfriend hasn't been acting the same and shes done nothing more than push me away, she picks fights for no reason and no matter what i say i'm a monster, there is no making her happy anymore and when i ask her whats ...

How can I forgive myself and regain his trust?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

12 September 2013 (F) - This question is about sexual fantasies, alcohol, and a mistake that may have jeopardized my fiance's trust in me. My fiance' and I are getting married in June. We are both in professional school, 25 years old, and live 1 hour apart because we...

Should I contact my ex? Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4079 days ago

12 September 2013 (M) - I left my ex last January. She moved to be with me from another province 2 years ago. Things were not working, but I loved her very much. After months of still spending time with her bc she had no friends or family here, and her crying and begging, ...

Since the baby is in our room, sex has gone downhill and I'm worried about him contacting another woman!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

12 September 2013 (F) - i met my partner 3 years ago , he lived with his daughter and i lived with my two teenagers. although we werent living together we both decided we wanted a baby . after trying for a while i feel pregnant but even though the pregnancy was planned he ...

How to tell my sister the disturbing news about her husband that he is player?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4079 days ago

11 September 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I need your advice. I had disturbing news about my younger brother-in-law from a friend who works at the same place and I try to digest it. She says that he is a player and emotional seeker. According to her, she plays games to lead the...

What can I do to convince her I'll never cheat?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

11 September 2013 (M) - hello all. i am in a relationship for 4 1/2 years now. i love my gf very much. ive never felt for someone else in my life. she has all the qualities i like in females. smart, calm, a good listener and a better advisor, supportive , loyal. with ...

My ex-girlfriend saw me with my new friend!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4079 days ago

10 September 2013 (M) - I was in a relationship for a year and I recently broke up with her. Its been about two weeks and we only talked once. I broke up with her because she cheated on me. She blacked out and I guess from what she told me she made out with another guy ...

Should I just leave my ex alone or should I talk to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

10 September 2013 (M) - I have been in a couple relationships before. They all ended pretty badly and we just stopped talking. My ex girlfriend, who I just broke up with about 2 weeks ago, was the first serious girlfriend I have broken up with and still actually like... ...

Is it possible to ignore someone this long and still want to work things out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

10 September 2013 (F) - Please help. My man and I got into an arguement because he was talki g to an ex flirting and sending pics. I made him delete her on facebook and tell her to stop texting. I then admitted I sent my ex a pic after i found out he did and i came forward ...

I don't want to be single my whole life! Is there hope for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

8 September 2013 (F) - I was with my ex for 4 years, the last 2 years was LD. He was my first. He cheated me twice the first two years and I caught him kissing someone else while he studied abroad. I forgave him and gave him chances even though he hurt me so much. We were ...

2 yr update on being married and cheated on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

8 September 2013 (M) - original post http://www.dearcupid.org/question/revenge-cheatingwill-it-help-.html I would like to start by saying thanks to all those people who commented and gave positive advice to me when i had nobody to speak to about what i was feeling and ...

Does he really care for her if me and him have something that good?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

8 September 2013 (F) - I know what i did was wrong but if someone can try and answer my question without the lecture I would be so grateful! I started seeing a guy from work and totally fell for him. Despite being in two serious relationships for over 3 years each time,...

Friendship turned sour after our forbidden secret got out.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

8 September 2013 (F) - I have a load of regrets. I do a lot of things that I think'll beay.So here we go, problem one: I had/have this friend (let's call him O) who I have gotten pretty close with, and he isn't really the most trustworthy person. But I trusted him. Now if ...

I've fallen for my best friend's boyfriend. She treats him horribly and he wants to leave her for me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

7 September 2013 (F) - My best friend got her first boyfriend 5 weeks ago. And, unfortunately in that d weeks I've fallen for him.... Not on purpose though! We've been best friend for 10 years but she always made me feel worthless, she treat me like a slave and talked ...

Will working keep him off those websites looking for random sex? Should I leave or stay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

7 September 2013 (F) - Hi. Been with my fiancee for a lil more than nine years. We have a four year old son together and have been living together practically since we met. We have set wedding dates and changed them several times over the years. One of the reasons it ...

He's looking at porn on his phone instead of being in our bedroom with me dressed all nice and sexy! Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

7 September 2013 (F) - my fiance watches porn everyday every chance he can while i am in our bedroom dressed all nice and sexy (so i thought) waiting for him.when it foednt hapen i be all sexy makin a move on him but he always says he doesnt feel like it but yet i find ...

I've seen her on online dating sites but she won't admit it

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

6 September 2013 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for just over 18 months. Recently I have found her 3 times on dating sites. We have argued and almost broken up over it. Even though I saw it with my own eyes, she is still denying it. Is it just a bit of a joke? or ...

Why is he being cruel? Is his ego just bruised?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

4 September 2013 (F) - I was getting along well with this man, and even agreed to go on a date with him. He made it pretty clear he liked me as more than a friend, although nothing had ever happened between us that went beyond talking. The night before our date, a mutu...

Friend from childhood resurfaced. He's married and we started an affair. How can I end it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

3 September 2013 (F) - I'm a separated mom of 3 girls. In early May of this year, my childhood friend started coming around me and my kids. At first it was just casual visits and then he started making advances which I was totally against. I made it clear to him that we ...

How much abuse is too much? ( physical and emotional) How to move on after abusive relationships?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

3 September 2013 (F) - I was with this man for two years. He was perfect the first eight months of us dating, I realized he started becoming mean. He would tell me awful things like I was stupid, bad at sex, or had an ugly vagina. He would break up with me, block me off ...

How do I stay strong when I tell him to get out?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

2 September 2013 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't work, contribute to bills, rent, groceries and he is destructive. How do I stay strong when I tell him to get out? I met him in January of 2012 and he my first impression was not to feel like he was a very nice person. ...

Am I going to lose my husband to his female business partner?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4083 days ago

1 September 2013 (F) - I think my husband is in love with his female friend of 2 years. I think I should be worried. I check the phone bill and her number is almost the only one on it that he calls and he calls often. They talk for hours every day. This is strange becau...

I found out my girlfriend is cheating and want to give her a taste of her own medicine!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

1 September 2013 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for about seven months now, we separated for a month and then got together. Things haven't been the best but we have managed to be together. Last month her friend, G, came to live in our town. I talk to her a lo...