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*andomando
writes:I have been in a couple relationships before. They all ended pretty badly and we just stopped talking. My ex girlfriend, who I just broke up with about 2 weeks ago, was the first serious girlfriend I have broken up with and still actually like...The reason behind our break up was I found out she cheated on me. She blacked out I guess and made out with another guy. Supposedly that was it but who really knows.. I didnt think she was the person to do that so after finding out and confronting her I waited about a week to think about it a calm down and see if i could still be her boyfriend. I realized I couldnt. I broke up with her and pretty much right away I met a girl through a friend. We have alot in common and we ended up running into each other for the next 3 days randomly. I got her number the third day I met her. We have ended up hanging out ever since then. We went out one day to a party and several hours later my ex girlfriend showed up. I herd she was really jealous and talking alot about me but I didnt cheat on me.. She did and I shouldnt have to sit in a corner and cry. Im getting on with my life. Even tho we just met and I just broke up with my girlfriend I feel more closer to this girl of a couple weeks, then to my ex girlfriend of a year.When we broke up I ended it really badly. Just said some mean things to her and she was trying to apologize and work it out. We havnt talked in a week. I want to just text her and say hey, whats up.. or something. I feel like she will never talk to me again and it really makes me sad. I really do like her and still care about her. Just dont know if I should leave her alone or try to talk to her.. ugh
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reader, Daisy_Daisy  +, writes (16 September 2013):
 Definitely leave her alone. Don't start sending her mixed messages, because that's what they'd be to her. You don't like her or care for her enough to want to be in a relationship with her, so there's no use telling her these things.
You feel sad because you said mean things her; you want to ease the guilt you feel by contacting her, being Mr. Nice Guy. It's not necessary and not appropriate. You dumped her for good reason, remember.
You've been 'lucky' enough to replace her within a nano second!
So let her move on, too. Leave her be.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 September 2013):
 Leave her alone
you broke up with her
you would not listen to her when she tried to patch it up
you made a choice
you now have this lovely rebound friend...
leave your ex alone to heal and grieve her loss.
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