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writes: It's been 3 yrs!! since my separation my ex a cheater!! I am in a good place emotionally and it seems that my ex's current girlfriend is on facebook under a fake account and messaging me calling me ugly and how my ex is happy and at peace. Funny how she thinks I am the culprit, saying I created all the chaos in the marriage. He cheated got caught and was upset to have been kicked out of my life!! He has been with over 200 women!!!! I am over it, but this woman persists to message me !!!! Why!!!??? could she possibly want ...she just keeps on ranting on how evil I am and my looks.....lol thing is I am not ugly, I am not the best lookiing woman in the world but I am not ugly. at least no has called me ugly lol.My ex was always proud of me and always trying to show my off to his friends now he hates me because I left him. !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for all the advice and I have taken screenshots!! thanks Honeypie!! :) I tried to block her, but shes so darn fast she deactivates her fb everytime I am on, I will check to see if shes on and as soon as I try to block !! I get the logo saying that the person has disabled thier account....but I will catch her and block her..I'm not on it that much ..she has been harrassing me for awhile now, with no responses..shes practically haviig a conversation with herself lol......thanks again for taking the time..I feel some comfort in understanding why this woman feels like she should do this to someones ex wife... crazy ppl !!!!
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reader, GentleGiant  +, writes (14 September 2013):
Well there has to be something that was really great about you other than finding out her cheating ways. Human nature is funny. There is seems to be some jealousy and hate in her statement. If you were as ugly as she says you are then she is the one who is actually evil and ugly. My friend you can google all about her character and what she does and says. I believe she falls into a category that is typical of cheaters.You on the other hand seem to have recovered and hopefully moving forward. I guess there goes that famous statement in one of the those rock songs that says it sucks to be you. And in her case it is definitely the case. Block her out and start your new life. You my friend deserve better and who really gives a rats ass in what she says. Block her out and forget all about it. You are great move forward.Good-luck.
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reader, Daisy_Daisy  +, writes (14 September 2013):
 He's obviously painted a different picture of what happened in the marriage to make him seem the victim and you the nasty one. Doesn't matter, you know better. She must be pretty crazy to go to the effort of making up a fake profile to harass you - sounds like her and your ex are well deserving of each other ;)
Block and report her and don't give her another thought.
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reader, :)31215 +, writes (14 September 2013):
 Report and block her on facebook and dont bother with her, but like "Honeypie" said, get screenshots of the abuse, too.
to be honest, she's probably bored and lonely and jealous of you and where you are in your life!
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (14 September 2013):
 Block and report her to Facebook (her real and fake names) Don't get into it with her, but DO use the tools that FB provide to block and remove people like his GF.
Secondly, before you block and remove - take screenshots, print them out (everything she does/says) and keep them, in case she starts other crap, then you take it to the police and file a harassment complaint.
And honestly, stop worrying about why she does it, it has nothing to do with you. I know that sounds odd, but that is the truth. I'm guessing that your ex have filled her head with all kind of lies where YOU were the "bad guy" to make himself look better. And she was so "blind" with love she took his words for the gospel.
Of course your ex "hates" you for leaving him. Why, you might ask? Because you put a MIRROR up to his face and he had to realize that he isn't/wasn't worthy of a good woman like you. He was a piece of crap you scraped of your shoes and tossed. The truth stings. And the only way he can make it less painful (for him) is painting YOU as the villain. How pathetic. He even hides behind the GF, want to be he knows she is harassing you and is fueling the fire?
Secondly, he could be so self entitled that he doesn't comprehend that he ACTUALLY was the reason you left.
Ignore those two, they deserve each other and their combines stupidity and ignorance.
Take the high road, stay happy and shake your head at their actions.
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