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Archived questions from: July, 2012 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

We had a very emotional and nasty breakup and haven't spoken since.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

31 July 2012 (M) - My ex-girlfriend and I dated inconsistently for over three years. We also lived together for most of that time period. Throughout that time period, we had some rocky times, but also some amazing ones. However, the major problems were her twin ...

I want to know how to gain my jailbird boyfriend's forgiveness!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

31 July 2012 (F) - I was friends with this guy for the last two years, he helped me out when I was in difficulties and needed emotional support. We were close friends plus I thought he was gorgeous and was very attracted to him. A year ago he was sent to prison for ...

I know the truth, still he tries to blame our son!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

31 July 2012 (F) - My husband of many years has been on the internet chat with numerous girls, but one in particular for years.....I just found out this information of late. My problem is he will not admit to it....he blames it on our son...and calls me sick in the ...

Does he still want this to continue?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

31 July 2012 (F) - Hi Aunts. This is about a married man i have been seeing for about 7yrs, No judgements please,but i would like you insight on this He knows that i love him but he will only say to me,you know my situation,I can't give you more than i do,but obvious...

My guy has never cheated on me but I give him the 3rd degree after he goes out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - I have been with my man for almost a year now, we get along pretty well and love each other very much. the one problem that has occured repeatedly is me not trusting him when he is out. i have no basis for this except my past seems to be constantly ...

My girlfriend got drunk and cheated, she's devastated but I'm not sure what to do

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

30 July 2012 (M) - So here's the situation. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 months and things were going absolutely perfect for us until yesterday/today. She went out to a pub with a friend on sunday night, she asked me if i wanted to go however i ...

We both love each other but I am jealous about the men he hooks up with!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - I am 18 and have been seeing a boy on and off for well over 2 and a half years. We're both in love with each other but about 9 months ago I found out that he thinks he's bisexual. At first I was so shocked and thought he was jokin with me. We had a ...

It broke my heart and I cried my eyes out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - Okay I've never done this before and don't know where to even begin. The other night I did something stupid and went through my boyfriends msgs on facebook. We've been together for just over 5 weeks. We have just started renting a property in both ...

Did he want a threesome or was he testing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4481 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - okay so when i was in high school sophmore year i kissed a girl just a peck it was like a dare and i never kissed a girl ever again so 2yrs. after i met my boyfriend i told him about it and now 4yrs that we have been togeather he asked me ...

He texts other girls, does that mean he could be cheating too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - So ive been dating ths guy for like almost 4months an were pretty close. But how do i know he isnt cheating? i mean i know he texts other girls but is that all..? im not really the jealous type, just the curious type. Please dont comment if your ...

I love her but how can I trust her? I've caught her doing things twice!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

29 July 2012 (?) - What do I do? My girlfriend was acting suspiciously. I knew something wasn't right. Anyway I caught her on a dating website chatting to guys! We didn't fight about it. We talked and she told me how sorry she was. She told me she was going to clo...

He's my first love. He took my virginity, and then cheated on me. Help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4328 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - I’m very confused. Hurt. Scared. And i don't know what happened to my life. I need help. Summer of senior year I got a friend request from this boy that was going to one of the Universities I was going to. I left it there for like a month but when...

He still hasn't stopped communicating with her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for five years, about 10 months ago he became friends with a girl. I was immediately uneasy about this friendship as he was very secretive and kept everything under the table so to speak. I only ever saw her ...

My boyfriend spends too much time helping another woman through her separation

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - Hi. I could really use your advice to help me determine if I am over reacting in this situation. I have a boyfriend. We have been dating for about five months so the relationship is very new. But I am having a problem with his attention on a f...

My ex fiance's sister is sending me cryptic messages!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4490 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I'm a little confused about a certain situation and not sure how I should react. My ex-fiance's sister recently posted personally to me on fb that if I observe something (didn't say what) I will obtain great wisdom and also, that if I pray t...

Is he cheating? I love him with all my heart but I'm now caught and lost in his deception

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - my bf is always lying and taking off for hours or days without saying he is leaving and doesnt call while hes gone. then lies about where he was who he was with, etc. then i find out from other people he was kicking it with other broads. he alwa...

I told my lover's wife about us but it is as if she doesn't care!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I am so hurt right now, I decided to tell my married lover's wife about our affair, because I knew that would be the only way to stop it. I am 35 yrs old and he is a 43 yr old man. It started out as a friendship with casual dinners, and no sex. ...

I think my husband had gay sex with our dinner guest!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I have a bigger problem than my last one now! I think my husband of 4 years is having a gay affair! Ive talked to him, but to no avail, we just end up arguing, let me start from the beginning, 3 weeks ago, he kept making excuses to go out, 2 weeks ...

Can cheating be justified?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

27 July 2012 (F) - if someones love interest doesnt give enough time,love, emotional and mental support the care and need and also doesnt take part in sorting such differences by mutual talk then does it give the other partner to cheat on him/her, is it justified ...

Now I'm in this predicament. But does he still love this other girl? Or is he just a player?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - My boyfriend (21) has told me he has had 3 past girlfriends (N, G, M) and that he's had sex with only 2 of them and he doesnt even remember who he fucked G or M. Those supposedly are the only girls he has had sex with and also the first girl he lost ...

He has cheated before and I'm scared my boyfriend is cheating again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 2 years we have a baby together and we plan to get married in June 2013. But he has been acting strange getting mad at me all the time for asking him questions like where are you going ? That sort of thing he has ...

Should I consider this other man? My husband is not intersted in me. Does this other man only want sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - Hi, iam 25 years old married and have a kid,my husband is not interested in doing any sex with me... Nor will he discuss any matters to me. I saw some SMS in his mobile , which is related to a girl. I think he has another affair, if i ask him, he ...

I confided in my friend about my partner's cheating and now I feel like I crossed the line

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - I'm in a situation, I found out my boyfriend had cheated on me but we agreed to work stuff out. As it was a year later I found out he confessed everything we confronted the situation spoke to a counceller. But before we did all this I found myself ...

Should I be with my husband knowing he belongs somewhere else?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - pls help be4 i make a mistake im madly in love with this man my husband and i been trying to make this right from the shock of his cheating that was found out 2 weeks after we got married he was still sleeping with his ex. i have tryed to heal ...

Do I continue to put up with his behaviour? Or not? He's Flirting, but not to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - hey :) small question i hope, so my boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 10 months. Urm.. hes never been much of a flirt but we've both had some trust issues however i had a reason not to trust him because he betrayed me before, not ...

Is she cheating on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

26 July 2012 (M) - I have been with my gf for almost 9 years. Like everyone else we have ups and down but I caught her in a lie several months ago and have been suspicious ever since.she signed up for a website and I just happened to find it. I confronted her and she ...

Did I do the right thing? He cheated, and he asked me to tell him when I do forgive him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

25 July 2012 (F) - I found out today that my boyfriend of two years has been skyping another girl, calling her 'sexy', 'love', 'cutie', all things that he calls me, telling her she's 20 times hotter than me, that he'll think of her when he's in bed with me, etc. ...

Would you want to know if your partner was cheating?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

25 July 2012 (F) - If you were in love and in a happy relationship and you been togather for along time, If you could chose to find out for certin if you were being cheated on would you? Or would you just continue the happy relationship with out knowing for certin? ...

He has a girlfriend, but I get the feeling he's into me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

25 July 2012 (F) - I met up with an old friend, who has a new house and a new girlfriend, yet he invites me over every week in the evening when his gf is not there. Is he into me? Okay, the above was basically the cliff notes version. Here's a more elaborate descri...

Why is this man asking me to marry him when he already has a wife and kids?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

24 July 2012 (F) - I met a man online a couple of years ao and I soon found out that he has a family( is married but has not slept with his wife in a loooooomg time because she has gained weight and they also bicker way too much)) so I told him I just wanted to be ...

I'm wondering how my married lover can lead a double life!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

24 July 2012 (M) - This question is directed more towards the experts in the field of infidelity because I'm really curious as to how she can live with herself. What gets me is how some of her peers and co-workers perceive her to be this classy upstanding woman...

Can you tell the difference between a lie and the truth? Did this woman sleep with my man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

24 July 2012 (F) - *I need some ones help please* im in a really horrible place right now in my head and i need someone point view and help on my situation,it would be greatly appreciated. ok so im 24 yrs old and have been with my boyfriend for almost...

Is it possible to overcome a SO kissing someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

23 July 2012 (F) - my SO and I are in a long distance relationship for about 20 months. we've seen each other every 3 months or as often as out jobs/school and pocket books allow. out next planned visit is less than a month away. each summer, my SO goes out of state ...

I think she is cheating again .....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

23 July 2012 (M) - I have been with my girl for about 7 months now. She cheated on me around april of 2012 with my best friend. Now she is ating quite strange. She makes conversations short, always has to go, never tells me anything about why she had to go, stuff like ...

I have a secure marriage and a satisfying affair!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

23 July 2012 (F) - I am very torn, and I need advise not criticism pls. Anyways I have started and an affair with one of my husbands friends. It isn't purely physical, I had some feelings for "Bob" for a few yrs prior. And now they have intensified.. My husband is ...

How to tell if women are interested in a married man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

23 July 2012 (M) - I am moving away from my wife due to work for 6 months. She realizes that as a type of a male I am, it will be hard to abstain from the natural urge of sex. So she told me that if I really need to have sex I can do so as long as it does not turn...

He seems distanced from me since he met her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

22 July 2012 (F) - My bf and I have been together 2.5 years now. We both in our early to mid 20s. He lives in a houseshare and I live with parents. Around 3 weeks ago my bf was sent to work 100 miles away and the company has put him in a hotel. He works 5 days and...

Should I be on my guard?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

21 July 2012 (M) - 3 and a half years ago I fell in love for the first time with a girl that I met at university. Unfortunately I don't think that love was reciprocated - a friend of a friend also had his eye on her and made his advances. My friends tell me she ...

Does this mean I'm not over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4496 days ago

21 July 2012 (F) - so i was dating this person for over a year and we broke up cuz he constantly cheated on me and lied to me throughout our relationship. so we've been talking cool and a girl pops up starts trying to be cool with me on fb and i look at his page and ...

Even though I'm with her, I still feel incomplete and unfulfilled.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

21 July 2012 (M) - Here's the thing, I'm with a girl that I use to be short term friends with. She's a great girl and everything but I just don't feel any real love towards her. How did I up with her then? It all started a couple months ago when I use to flirt wit...

Is it for the thrill of it all?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

21 July 2012 (F) - Hi Aunts, I have a question i would like to ask you all,as i can't seem to make any sense of it. I have been having a affair with a married man for quite some time,years actually,so please if any of you are going to preach to me that i'm doing wr...

Was I played for a fool by my ex-girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

20 July 2012 (M) - First off, here’s a quick background of our past relationship. We randomly met almost four years ago, when I was in town visiting from out of state. She was a graduate student and I was visiting my hometown. We connected very randomly and initially ...

Does this married man love me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

20 July 2012 (F) - Is this love or not,This man i'm seeing never has said he loves me,but do these actions say otherwise, he texts me every morning and nite calls me everyday some times more than once 7 day a week,tells me he misses me heaps,calls me sweet names,like ...

I'm confused does this guy like me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

20 July 2012 (F) - I recently met this cute guy on a cruise, he talks about his gf, a lot and stuff. But he always asks to give me massages and asked me a lot of sexual questions. he says he likes tall girls like me and that his gf isn't super hot and wishes he was ...

My boyfriend goes to a friend for advice who hasn't ever had a relationship and he doesn't like me, so he always makes me the bad guy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4498 days ago

19 July 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend will been together 13 this nov but the last month just been hell, He had cheat on me and just last year he stop talking to other female but im still with him now every time we got a problem he go to his friend for advice knowing ...

I am pretty sure my baby's father is the man I cheated on my husband with, and he wants access to the baby but wont do it properly because he cant afford to pay maintenance!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

19 July 2012 (F) - I am married, and have a child whom I conceived before getting married. I had issues with my hubby, (then boyfriend) and cheated on him. There is a high possibility that the baby is for the man I cheated with (still cant figure out why I sunk so ...

Why won't guys ask me out???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4499 days ago

18 July 2012 (F) - I have had one real boyfriend in my life (who treated me horrible) but he is the only guy who had ever asked me out. We were on and off for three years, but he cheated constantly while lying to me about it. I dont understand - im a pretty woman, ...

My partner cheated and says he doesn't know why but it was 4 different times!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4456 days ago

18 July 2012 (M) - Ok so here goes...After 9 years together and nearly two years Married, My partner has had a so called affair. I found out in June that he met another guy from an IPHONE app called Grindr, and this fella he met came into our home on 3 occasion...

Does this woman want to make love with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

18 July 2012 (M) - hello friends,Does this woman wants to make love with me?I am 42 years old,my brother's wife, 52-year-old.touched the woman's breast from behind twice in elbow.In the second gave me to touch my elbow stroked her breasts.she did not give me any ...

How do I confront him without sounding childish?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

18 July 2012 (F) - So ive been with my boyfriend for 4 months and he's currently on a lads holiday to magalluf. I recieved a text of 2 images from facebook where he is calling a girl who he's slept with hun and putting kisses on the end of the messages. She's the type ...