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Archived questions from: March, 2008 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

He texts her and says it's to make me mad. Do you think this is cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend for over 4 years have been texting a female from our kid's daycare. I know her she was one of my kid's teachers. A while ago I read his text message to her saying I want to be your man and I wish that baby inside was mines because ...

Is she just scared to leave her boyfriend because they live together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - I have really liked this girl since she started a year ago but problem is she has a boyfriend of 5 years! Everyone knows that she is not happy and recently at a work function we somehow got together, this was great and she said that she felt the ...

I don't know how to trust him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6070 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for nearly 6 months now, we're best mates and in love and can't imagine life without each other. However I can't trust him, I'm suspicious he might go off with someone else all the time so I read his messages...

I feel trapped by holding on to what could have been / might be in my troubled marriage, should I let go of it or give my hubby a fresh start?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I am 35 and have been married nearly 15 years. I realise now that I married too young as my relationship was immature and I had not had time to develop my own interests and friends. Our marriage didn't start well (sexually) and was often awkward. ...

I'm scared that history will repeat itself (my previous partner has cheated with my best friend!) What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6070 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Hi everybody. About 8 years ago i split up with my long term partner after finding out he was seeing my best mate. Over the following years I have found I cannot trust men. I have been with my current partner for 6 months and I love this man...

I had to kick my boyfriend out, he's still seeing the guy he'd been cheating on with me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - How do you get over a bad breakup? Tonight I had to kick my boyfriend out after I found out he is still seeing the guy he'd been cheating on with me, see http://www.dearc...

She keeps cheating on me, how can ever trust her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - Dear Community, I need advice. I have been dating my g/f for 9 months now. Through out the relationship a lot has happened. I am no longer able to conduct my thoughts in a proper manner. I constantly think she is seeing someone now. It all beg...

Why can’t I just let her go? WHY?!?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - Why can’t I just let her go? That’s what I need to know. WHY?!? I enlisted in the army so I could have a good job, so her mother and father knew I had a good job. We had dated for four years, and on my 20th birthday she leaves me, before I was...

What are the tell tale signs?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - How do you tell if your soon to be husband is lying to you?...

My boyfriend is a work-a-holic, and I'm missing his attention!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship for almost three years. The first year and a half was great. The last year and a half has been some what of a struggle. My boyfriend is a work-a-holic. I miss him tremendously and miss the way that we used to be. I am...

If you have a boyfriend and you kiss a guy that is one of your ex boyfriends and you kissed only once, is that cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - If you have a boyfriend and you kiss a guy that is one of your ex boyfriends and you kissed only once, is that considered cheating?...

How can I let go without feeling like I am putting his kids on the street?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - 30 years old and have been divorced for 2 years now. I have 3 children 12,10,6. I met this guy who is 44 years old and has 4 children 16 year old twin boys, 13 year old boy. He and his 3 children live with me and my children and he treats me like a ...

My husband had an affair and says he's fallen out of love with me! Am I doing damage to my kids staying with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - My husband hasn't given me affection for over 10 years now. Our relationship is diminishing with him not wanting to deal with our problems or even discussing them. I very lonely and feel like I am loosing my mind. He won't talk about love at all ...

I think my Dad is having an affair....I found pictures! How do I find out for sure?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - I think my Dads having an affair, I found pictures on his work phone of a family friend topless, he often goes round to their house as he's best friends with her husband. I dont know what to do because I dont know for definate that he's having an ...

Here's a question for the men... can you ever see yourselves settling down with just ONE woman???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for about 8 months, and it's become a bit serious in the past 2 or 3. We see each other every night and make love all the time. We have said "I love you" and he's even starting talking about me being "the one"- like the one ...

I need to know if this is cheating. I have been sex camming with this guy, and he has a spouse. She does not know about us...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - I need to know if this is cheating. I have been sex camming with this guy, and he has a spouse. She does not know about us. Now he wants to meet in person and he wants me to perform oral sex on him. To me this is cheating on his partner. He tel...

Should my wife do a massage course with a male friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

30 March 2008 (M) - Hi my wife wants to do a massage course with a friends husband. i work shift work and cannot do it with her. the thought does turn me on but i am unsure deep down. i have discussed it with his wife who is ok with the idea. any thoughts...

Is cuddling with another guy while watching a movie (minus the kissing or eye-gazing, more like just laying together) cheating if you're in a relationship?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - Is cuddling with another guy while watching a movie (minus the kissing or eye-gazing, more like just laying together) cheating if you're in a relationship?...

She is my soul mate, lover, best friend, wife, and mother of my children. All she wants to do is party!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

30 March 2008 (M) - My wife of almost 8 years left me for partying, and to "miss me" so she can fall in love again, from what she said. I know she is just out partying. This wouldn't be as big a deal, but we have 10 years together, 8 of which is marriage, and 3 chil...

He's cheated on me after 18yrs, and I'm a wreck!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - Husband of 18 yrs is in love with someone else?? Any advice?? Of course he is handling it well...but i'm a wreck! Another problem is he keeps sending me mixed messages...and he says he is confused, part of me wants to kick this woman's butt, wh...

I'm single, he's married, could I get in to trouble for persuing our friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - Hi, almost a year ago something very peculiar happened to me. I met this guy who's military and had 2 encounters with him (not sexual, pure business) then he left a week after that. On the second encounter I noticed he liked me and vice versa, ...

Help!!! Confused and heartbroken...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - I am a 21 year old female mother of 2 beautiful kids. Their father whom I was with for many of years (since a young girl) had broke my heart. He always wanted to chill be around me and everything else. This past Easter Sunday March 2008 he wanted me ...

How come I don't want sex as much any more? Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend thinks that I am cheating on him because I don't want sex. We've had sex before and are engaged to get married sometime next year. For the past month I haven't felt the want to have sex with him. Now he thinks that I am getting it ...

People have witnessed my bf being unloyal, bf says he hasnt...who do I believe?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now. Along the way I have had 3 different people tell me that he is being disloyal.. I've comfronted my fella about this but he says that everyone is causing trouble and not to let it ...

Wondering if the relationship is worth saving - after she has been cheating me on the rent, double charging me to clear her arrears -, and if so, how?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

29 March 2008 (M) - I moved in with my partner in October past having been together for about 18 months, believing that I had found a strong relationship based on love and trust. I recently discovered that she has been cheating me on the rent since I moved in, double ...

He now wants to have a relationship with another girl as well as me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - i have been best friends with a guy for a year and for the past three months we have been in a relationship with each other as boyfriend and girlfriend.initially he told me that he loves me and i felt the same towards him.for the first 2 months we ...

Why would he cheat with me if he was really happy with his girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - I have this friend. (we'll call him jon) I met jon a few days ago while hanging with friends after school. he flirted with me and I flirted with him. he asked for my number and gave me his. that afternoon jon started texting me. he told me he li...

I'm married and afraid in case our families find out my brief fling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6073 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - help i've been unfaithful once with a freind and worried our familiy's my find out.i'm married but my husband does'nt work i have 2 jobs and we have three kids.he talks to me ugly and wants to party with his friends? been with him for a long time ...

My boyfriend is having a child with some one else, what should I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I dated for 10 months and we broke up. After a couple of months, we started seeing each other and reconnecting. Things are so much better now for us however during the break-up period he got someone else pregnant. He says he car...

He didn't tell me he had a girlfriend, should I flirt with another guy to make him jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6072 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - Hi I used to like this guy ........... to cut a long story short i liked him + i thought i liked him + i thought that he liked me, (he might have been joking). Now he has a girlfriend and didnt tell me, + now he is even going out with her. I fee...

We have two children, he says he loves me, but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - I was in a relationship with a man i thought was the one for me we have 2 children together and we have not long split up. We have still been having sex but he has a new girlfried. He says he doesn't love her and he is only with her because her aunt...

After five years of marriage, he now tells me he never loved me!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - I just found out my husband is and has been cheating for the 5 years that we were married. When i asked him why he done this to me he said that he had never loved me. Can someone live with someone, marry them and not love them?...

I am not over him and think about him 24/7...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - Last year I got really hooked on this radio station, it was a right wee hobby of mine! I became famous in its own wee world with the djs and the listenors who all called in and it was alot of fun. At the time I got very close to one of the djs. At ...

Currently in a long distance relationship, but I find myself asking other women out, is there cause for concern?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

28 March 2008 (M) - Hello, I've been in a relationship for 4 years now. We're currently apart (since last August) because of work reasons. Since being apart I have been looking at other women having the urge to ask them out on dates. In some cases I have asked. I...

I know he had been lying to me but why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - Ive been talking to this guy on AIM for a few months now (chatting for usualy about on hour evry day), but weve never met. He lives in the same county and a friend of mine went to high school with him so Im pretty sure hes legit. I know hes told me ...

Secretly bi because my boyfriend is a little homphobic-Do I tell him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - Ok, so I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months now - and its fantastic. Generally. We barely argue ever, but everypne has their ups and downs. ANYWAY. I'm bi. My first 'relationships' (continuous hookups for several months?) were with my two...

I want more than this friend with benefits, should I break it up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

28 March 2008 (M) - K so, I'm with a girl atm, well, we arn't dating or anything, we're more like friends with benefits. Anyways, we talk for a couple hours a day on the phone, we get along great, and I was planning on asking her out, but as it turns out she's got ...

I'm so disgusted with myself I didnt mean to kiss this other guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - Please help: Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly three years now and love him so much. It's marriage for sure. He's the most geniune guy I know and would never do anything or cheat on me. Hes not the type. Neither am I, but was out with my ...

What are the Tell-Tale signs of your girlfriend cheating on you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

27 March 2008 (M) - We've all seen those online-articles, magazine articles, about how to tell if you're dating a "playa" or if your man is cheating on you. But I've never seen the inverse of that. How can you tell if your girl's cheating on you? Let's be honest,...

Am I just stupid? Does he even love me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - I've only been married a month and a half and I have learned my husband tried calling his ex girlfriend the other day (anonymously). I know this because I looked at his calls on his cell phone. Let me go back a bit to explain why I did this... ...

He broke up with me and I'm pregnant with his child. Will he come back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - my ex-broke up with me over a text msg and told me that he has been cheating on me. im pregnant with his child that he wanted with me...everyone i talk to dont think that it wont last with them because the girls a skank and her relationships dont ...

He chose my best friend because she is pregnant with his baby, but he loves me actually. I can only think about how happy we could have been...!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - I really like my best friend's boyfriend. I have liked him for about 2 years now and never told anyone about it. We all had a few 3somes together at some point, and me and the boyfriend work together which makes me like him even more. My mate has ...

I really like my best friend's boyfriend, we've had threesomes, but he's feeling trapped because she's pregnant!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - I really like my best friends boyfriend. I have liked him for about 2 years now and never told anyone about it. We all had a few 3somes together at some point, and me and the boyfriend work together which makes me like him even more. My mate has ...

We once had threesomes with my mate does he now like her more than he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - Hi I have been with me boyfriend for 3 years now, that is never a good relationship. He never cuddles me, we would never sit together on the sofa at home and we hardly ever had sex, he spent most of his time in the put as well. About 2years a...

In a relationship for six years and I don't want to ruin it but feeI have more in common with my co-worker...any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

27 March 2008 (M) - I am 24 years old manager at a retail store, i have know this co-worker of mine for four years, she is 22 years old. She had quit this retail job and went to work at a bank, from all the other co-workers i kept in touch with her the most, mostly by ...

Should I tell this girl her boyfriend is cheating or just stay out of it? I would want to know!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6075 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - There is this guy who is cheating on his girlfriend. I know who his girlfriend is and I also know the girl is he is cheating with. I'm not close friends with them, but I know each of them. I want to tell the girlfriend that her man is cheating on ...

How can I stay strong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6075 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - I just broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years he cheated over ten times! I finally kicked him out. I don't wanna be stupid anymore I see now that he will never change. I thought I could help him change and now I know he can only change his self! So ...

I have genital warts! Does this mean my boyfriend has been unfaithful?!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - Hi everyone I have been with my boyfriend for six months and I have genital warts on my vagina does that mean he has been unfaithful or do you think I may have caught it from the past boyfriends? Because I read that it can lay dormant in your body ...

I went too far following a hoax, so I am single but still in love...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6075 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - ok so my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months now and he cheated on me like in the 3rd month. He told me about it and was honest with me that's why I stayed with him. Unfortunately, his ex-girlfriend's friends decided to be immature and ...

She lies to her dad and her ex that she is with me, why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

26 March 2008 (M) - I have an ex-girlfriend. We dated for about 4 years. Been broken up, had so many fights and problems, thats all i seem to remember. but now we are i guess friends. When we hangout its just a little awkward bc its not like how it use to be. she used ...