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I have genital warts! Does this mean my boyfriend has been unfaithful?!!

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Question - (26 March 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 9 April 2008)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

Hi everyone I have been with my boyfriend for six months and I have genital warts on my vagina does that mean he has been unfaithful or do you think I may have caught it from the past boyfriends? Because I read that it can lay dormant in your body for months or years and then appear suddenly. Please help I am sick with worry.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2008):

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Good news guys!!!!!! I went to the sex clinic and they told me it was skin tags and not genital warts. xxx

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A male reader, Passthrough United States +, writes (26 March 2008):

Passthrough agony auntBest forum for peers with HPV (papilloma virus- genetal warts):

http://yoshi2me.com/phpbb/viewforum.php?f=14

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008):

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Thanks guys for your answers, I spoke to a clinic on the phone and said exactly what you guys said. I am going to the clinic tomorrow and I hope it will be ok.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (26 March 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntThere's probably no way of knowing exactly, have you spoken with your doctor about it? If you've both been sexually active, then it could have been from his previous sex partners, or yours.

Here's a link for further research, but do speak with your doctor about it for the best information.

http://www.webmd.com/sexual-conditions/hpv-genital-warts/hpv-virus-information-about-human-papillomavirus

Be sure to practice safe sex from now on, you could infect future partners, and be sure to disclose the information before becoming sexually active with them.

All the best.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008):

Don't be sick with worry. Having them makes it no more likely that he has been unfaithful than not having them. My husband and I got them after being married 18 months and were weren't unfaithful. You can carry them for ages without knowing. Sometimes they stay on the cervix which is hidden and sometimes they appear outside. It is no different than getting veruccas from a changing room. It doe show how important it is to limit the number of sexual partners you have and always use protection unless committed and fully vetted at a clinic. Just the same as wearing flip-flops in the changing room if you get a verrucca! Don't be hung up, being unfaithful has nothing to do with it. Both of you will need treatment, you may as well be pragmatic about it (but careful from now on). Good luck. I had it 20 years ago by the way and I am fine, married with family etc. It does not stop you being normal, it is just a poke in the ribs about being responsible.

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A female reader, Pinkbees09 United States +, writes (26 March 2008):

Pinkbees09 agony auntIt could be either.

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