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Archived questions from: August, 2015 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Boyfriend found out I cheated while messed up and ended things. Will I ever be able to make him forgive me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3365 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together three years and we got engaged last year. We then went through a rocky patch, but then things were great again. Until two nights ago when I ruined everything. I was at a rave, and was off my face and took a ...

I told him had nothing to do with the prank, but he now won't speak to me. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3377 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - Dear all I have posted before asking for advice on a Fwb that got back in touch, I'm slightly heartbroken because although he wasn't getting in touch as much (not for Fwb) a mutual friend sent his friend a message (little bit childish) askin...

I still want my ex-Bf back.Do you any suggestions on how I can convince him to date me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3382 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - I recently rekindled with my ex boyfriend, and after two months he tells me. He is "not interested in a relationship with me. Just fall back." I asked him twice what made him change his mind, and he has not responded. Here is what happened ...

Should I be scared about starting to look for another Gf, due to the fact that I believe I have a small penis?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3400 days ago

31 August 2015 (M) - Okay so I am 16 I am scared to start looking for another gf as I have a small penis there's nothing I can do about it but it sucks. I don't want to get a gf and lose her because my penis is really small. I can't stop thinking about my ex, we've not...

My daughter cut ties with us. How can I make things right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3401 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - My 20 year old daughter moved and cut ties with her step father and I - How can I make things right? I know most of this is my fault. There has been a lot of drama in our household. My husband and I fight often and have not made good decisions ...

Is it time to bring this to a close? Seems I am now just a text friend and there has been no apology.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3400 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - May I ask for advice I fell out with a guy I got close to He gave me the impression he was finished with the person who he was with but was not the case as he has bought into a flat and had to see out the contract Anyway because I felt le...

He's been verbally abusive. My parents call him psycho. Should I move on or try harder in our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3400 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - I don't whether I'm still in relationship with him or not but i will say: I am in a relationship with south indian conservative man,though my roots are from south as well but my birth and education is done in different state due to work reason i...

When will all this hurt, angst and anger ease off or go away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3401 days ago

29 August 2015 (F) - I was treated badly by my ex and his new girlfriend. I thought I was over him as he wasn't the most loyal guy and was kind of seeing this other girl casually just before we split up - so we decided to go our separate ways and I have no wish to get b...

Did I overreact even though he lied to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3402 days ago

29 August 2015 (F) - Dear cupids, I posted a story http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-really-dont-want-to-be-the-victim.html. I want to continue from where I stopped but before that let's just say my healing process has been slow but I am better now. The main point ...

Is there ever a right time to give someone a piece of your mind?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3402 days ago

28 August 2015 (F) - Help. My friend who I thought was a friend was making a play for my man all along. We split up and he blocked me and then chose her instead of me, but mainly because she was stirring things up between us with lies and my ex chose to believe her ...

Should I break up with my boyfriend? I think he can do much better than me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3403 days ago

28 August 2015 (F) - Should I break up with my boyfriend? I love him to pieces but I'm not a good girlfriend. I've never cheated, but I'm very flirty and I struggle with the intimate stuff (I'd blame my past, abusive relationships, but I should be old enough to make m...

I can see this guy isn't my future husband but I don't know how to break things off

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3402 days ago

28 August 2015 (F) - How do you tell a guy that he is not what you're looking for, without hurting his feelings? I've been with my boyfriend for two years now. I love him and I have no doubt he loves me too. We do get along. We laugh and have fun together while also abl...

She used me when she was bi-curious. I want her, she doesn't want me. What can I do? I feel so lonely.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3404 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - Could be long. This has been ongoing for 3 months now and it's getting worse, not better. This girl used me as she was bi-curious and I fell for her. She doesn't want me, I want her. I can't just be friends with her but I don't wanna stop talking ...

Feeling insecure. Do I take notice of what my brother said? Or do I ask the guy I'm dating about what my brother said?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3402 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, im not even sure where to start. But ive been dating a guy for 5 weeks, he's really lovely no problems really. He's my boss so it's a little complicated there but we've kept it out of work. I can separate these things pretty well i...

How do I carry myself forward and ensure that I do NOT go back to him and ensure that I move myself into Normalcy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3402 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm here for emotional support and help. I just broke my 6 years of relationship with my EX-boyfriend which I'm stressing on because it's hard to believe that he's ex. I got into this relationship when I was 17.. the guy had slowly m...

Trouble with Boyfriend, Should I stay? He's jealous and controlling

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3404 days ago

26 August 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating 2 and a half years. About a year into our relationship, we had a lot of problems with him being jealous and controlling, and I broke up with him for about a month. He begged for me back, showed up at my parent’s...

I don't like the way my ex and I fell out. I want to talk to him but I don't think he will allow it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3402 days ago

26 August 2015 (F) - Hi - I have made a bad situation with my ex even worse - how do I stop feeling like it's one big car crash? I know you guys will probably tell me to move on etc - and I am over my ex really - it's just I don't like the way we fell out. First of ...

I Love her to the max! But since she's not talking, has she found a new guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3401 days ago

26 August 2015 (M) - Should I still call her my girlfriend while there's no communication between us,we dated for 1 year and 7 months, so just because we not talking I think she found another guy at her school? Or maybe is't because of long distance relationship? I don'...

Do I get back with my ex? My current g/f is away for six months!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3405 days ago

25 August 2015 (M) - I had a bad break up with my ex 5 years back we were dating 6 years. She had my baby and gave me a choice my new girlfriend or her and the baby. I chose my girlfriend. 5 years have past and now my ex is sending me pics of my child telling me all ...

Girlfriend and I went on a break decided to get back together but now she's acting badly and I don't want to get back with her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3405 days ago

25 August 2015 (M) - Hi, About six weeks ago, me and my fiancee (although now I feel reluctant to call her that) decided to go on a break as we began to experience some troubles in our relationship due to various stresses. We agreed to speak two weeks after ...

Got drunk and cheated on my boyfriend. I feel incredibly guilty. What do I do now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3390 days ago

25 August 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years.I am 27 and he is 29. I love him with all my heart so much so that my friends think it has changed me and I am forever neglecting my own needs. Like many relationships we have had our ups and ...

My girlfriend confessed that on a drunken night out she made out with a co-worker and now says she can't be in a relationship. I'm lost!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3365 days ago

24 August 2015 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for two years.we are very much in love and have experienced many things together. We have traveled and we have over come adversity in the past. However a couple of weeks ago she told me we had to talk. She ...

I hate cheating, but not as much as a failure to forgive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3408 days ago

23 August 2015 (M) - IT’s been the story that hasn’t gone away all week. Ashley Madison sent journalists in to a spin trying to access the 9.7 gb of data leaked on to the internet, trying to find any public figures who may be embroiled in the scandal. Suspicious spouses ...

I'm finding it hard to deal with my break-up and I keep getting tempted to talk to my ex. Any suggestions of how to get through this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3408 days ago

23 August 2015 (F) - I split up with my boyfriend of nearly 3 years. My relationship with him was just awful, he was very aggressive, a bit scary, extremely jealous. I think the reason he got the way he did is because he was very depressed and started drinking a lot. ...

Am I overreacting or am I right to feel there’s something off about this new relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3406 days ago

23 August 2015 (F) - So, I've been seeing this guy for about three months. We met online through Eharmony and he's my first relationship since I broke up with my ex three years ago. The first month was great and I really felt like I'd found someone I really connecte...

How do I break up with him without hurting his feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3407 days ago

23 August 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and I am not in love anymore. He's really a nice guy and I don't want to hurt his feelings. He's going to be very surprised and hurt when I tell him. I know he really cares about me but I don't feel anyth...

He says he ''can't do without me'' but he stays married. I'm single, but what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3408 days ago

22 August 2015 (F) - I'm 22y old and still single. i love married man and he also loves me more. He says he can't do without me. but I can't keep doing fake relationship.what to do?...

Why would a guy break up with his girlfriend but then still be friends and call and message her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3409 days ago

22 August 2015 (F) - My ex and i had been together just over a year until he broke up with me 2 months ago and about three weeks after the break up I ended up getting a job in another country and moved. I had hoped in some way, that this would make moving on easier and ...

How do I tell the guy I've been dating that I found someone else and to please stop contacting me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3409 days ago

22 August 2015 (F) - I have been dating a man for almost a year. About 5-6 months into this I knew this wasn't what I wanted. He was very clingy and I just did not like the behavior he showed towards me at times. I have tried several times to explain to him that alth...

Is it normal not to want to be around anything "lovey dovey" after being hurt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3409 days ago

22 August 2015 (F) - Is it normal to dislike any love scenes, or want to hear about people's sex lives once you've been hurt in love? I had a bad split with my ex a few months back. He didn't love me and went off with a woman I know. Although I do not want him back...

We dated for a year I treated her badly and now she ended things

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3412 days ago

19 August 2015 (M) - i am 19 from india and i am really confused!! I was dating a girl for a year and first 2 months was amazing and then later i didn't spend time with her and i was super possessive and i always use to fight with her and when her birthday was there i ...

My ex says he doesn't hate me but can't be with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3412 days ago

19 August 2015 (?) - My boyfriend of 6yrs broke up with me 5weeks ago. We have remained friends but he will not give me the closure talk I feel I need. I see him Sunday as we have a dog together n he came down as he moved 100miles away to his mums and in that time as ...

Her hot temper leads to fights. So I asked another girl out. Can I continue like this or should I just walk away from my hot tempered original Gf?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3412 days ago

19 August 2015 (M) - I am a teenage guy of 18 , currently I have a gf we have been together For over a year now. She's got all I want, but she has hot temper. We fight a lot of times and this make me think about our future. I decided to ask another girl out, the...

She broke up with me because I'm leaving the country for a year to travel. Anyone else experience this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3411 days ago

18 August 2015 (M) - Hello guys, I have been in a relationship for 9-10 months. We get along very very well, have lots of fun, similar sense of humour, sex is amazing, similar character and from the same "stock", as they say. However, I have been planning ...

My ex wants to try again but she broke things off and I'm afraid of being hurt

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

18 August 2015 (M) - Any advice would be greatly appreciated, honestly I'm unsure about where I should go from here, my girlfriend and I were together over a year and it was great, there were no signs of any problems. She went away for a couple of weeks and then came ...

Please help me see something positive in this high school and help me get over my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3412 days ago

17 August 2015 (F) - Hi, So Recently I've felt very different from how I normally feel. Typically I'm a very generally happy person and even when I'm sad or upset certain people can easily cheer me up and make me happy, as well as I don't normally keep my negative ...

I finally told her how I felt and it's like I'm the bad guy. Did I do wrong? Should I have just walked away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3406 days ago

17 August 2015 (M) - I have a situation that I'm not sure about. I have a girl best friend of eight years. This past year I started to develop feelings for her. I waited until she was single to tell her how I felt. Before I told her she would give me mixed signals, ...

Half of me is says me is saying keep the baby and concentrate on new partner and new family and the other half is saying to terminate the pregnancy as I still love my ex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3400 days ago

17 August 2015 (F) - Ive just found out im 5 weeks pregnant. Ive only been with my partner a couple of months. My ex who i was with for 3 years finished with me in March this year and went straight out with someone else. I was so heartbroken by this that I jumped ...

I am having hateful feelings towards a 'friend' and want to let it go, but we work together and it's more complicated, but not just because of that.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3410 days ago

17 August 2015 (F) - Dear all, This is not a relationship question, but a 'freindship' question. Please help. I have been working with a woman ( I too am female) for seven years now. We developed a rather co- dependant freindship. Basically, I was going through a very ...

Is it worth me hanging on in there as his friend and waiting for when he's ready?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3412 days ago

17 August 2015 (F) - I have met a lovely man who is currently going through a divorce after a very long marriage. I have been divorced for 10 years and have been single for most of that time. We're both in our early 60s. Over the past two months we've been seen ...

I'm wasting a lot of time obsessing over my ex. What can I do to stop thinking about him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3415 days ago

16 August 2015 (F) - Hi. I went out with a guy for over 5 years. He was my first great love ; he would've been 'the one'. Things went rough and we broke 13 months ago. I would say I was very happy about the breakup because he did love me and treated me well but the...

Is my mother and law driving a wedge between my husband and I? Because since my miscarriage I feel like leaving my husband.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3414 days ago

16 August 2015 (F) - My husband and I just lost our first child through miscarriage, and while my family have been supportive and giving us time, his mother has driven us apart and he can't see any of what she is doing as wrong. First, she told my brother in law a...

He wants a divorce, my life is spiralling out of control

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3415 days ago

16 August 2015 (F) - 2 weeks ago, my husband of 7 years sat me down and told me he wants a divorce. After the past 2 weeks of many talks with each other and thinking things through, we have decided/agreed to get one. In a nut shell and without going into too much de...

He said he wanted to work things out and then broke up with me. Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3416 days ago

16 August 2015 (F) - was with this guy for over a year or so. Things were pretty good at first, but then he got too jealous because of my swimsuit pics on facebook. I knew he didn't like it so i stopped posting them. But here and there, he just dig up something, ...

I want to break up but my boyfriend doesn't, how do I go about this the right way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3415 days ago

16 August 2015 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a little over 5 years. He is a nice guy, but I am not in love with him anymore. I find that we have drifted apart, no longer have the same interests, and that my feelings have just changed ove...

Is our relationship over? He blocked me and then he unblocked me. But he is not initiating any conversation with me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3416 days ago

15 August 2015 (F) - My boyfriend blocked me both on facebook and whatsapp after he claimed that he need time to make-up his mind on wheretheir he wants me or his EX in June. Now in August he unblocked me and never initiates conversation? What is the meaning of blocking ...

Why does my heart still feel like its with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3417 days ago

14 August 2015 (F) - My ex of 3 years finished things in March as we were arguing too much. Two weeks later he was in another relationship with a a new girl. It tore me apart and I felt so hurt and betrayed. Fast forward 5 months and I'm now seeing this new guy. He is ...

Should I unfriend and cancel all contact with my ex-boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3417 days ago

14 August 2015 (F) - I broke up with my ex-boyfriend last April and moved on. But we are still friends on Social Networking Sites. Now I am in relationship with a person who understands me better and is very honest too. I love him very much and is 100% honest to hi...

Falling in love with my best friend/housemate, while he's asking my advice on how he should split up with his girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3416 days ago

12 August 2015 (F) - I think im falling in love with my best friend/housemate....help! I dont want to feel this way. Me and "Stuart" met about 3 years ago through mutual friends, both in relationships at the time, and even more messed up hee is still with. We live in...

I need help to convince my girl to give me another chance after a rough break-up. Help, what can I do? or say?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3417 days ago

12 August 2015 (M) - I broke my gf heart when I left her for six month and now I feel horrible because I felt what i did to her. A week ago she told me she met someone new. I am devastated, I only left her because I was in so much pain from my grandmother and father d...