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anonymous
writes:I'm 22y old and still single.i love married man and he also loves me more. He says he can't do without me.but I can't keep doing fake relationship.what to do?
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (23 August 2015):
 Never give your time, your youth, or your beauty to a worthless cheater who is using you. A cheater's very words are worthless and are nothing more than his manipulation tools to keep you on your back with your legs wide open.
He will never leave his wife, not even if you tell her he's cheating on her. You think he loves you? If his wife ever found out about you, he would tell her that you mean nothing to him. That it was just sex. That she means everything to him and that you were just sex on the side. I know this because he hasn't left her, and he won't leave her, and this happens in 90% of all cheating that's found out.
You need to leave him. If you don't, you'll enter your 30's or maybe 40's, used up, no one to call your own, abandoned and discarded like an empty beer bottle by this guy who only sees your use as an ego boost and penis holder.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (23 August 2015):
 He CAN do without you OR he would have left his wife already. HE is NOT going to leave her.
It's a choice to stay married, it's a choice to cheat and it's a choice to be someone's mistress.
He wants to stay married AND have you on the side, so he will say all the SWEET things YOU want to hear so that you won't walk away. That way HE gets to have two women, and you... get the wife's leftovers.
WANT more for yourself than to be some guy's dirty secret.
Walk away, cut the contact 100%. Find a guy who is SINGLE and who WANT to be with you, and ONLY you.
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reader, daydreamer2  +, writes (23 August 2015):
Hi im so sorry but I think you are on very dangerous grounds, in my opinion ' can't di without you' equals ' I'd like my cake and eat it'
I'm sure you are a fantastic beautiful person so why don't you shock him by rediscovering how wonderful you are are and cutting him loose, you deserve to be loved by someone who is available to appreciate and adore you and only you, you don't need another persons husband. If he is able to do this to her then he is capable of doing it to you. I know this hurts but you know deep down its true xx
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