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writes:My ex of 3 years finished things in March as we were arguing too much. Two weeks later he was in another relationship with a a new girl. It tore me apart and I felt so hurt and betrayed. Fast forward 5 months and I'm now seeing this new guy. He is everything I ever wanted - funny, kind, good looking, ive been on dates with him and found that we talk and laugh for hours. We have so much fun together. So why does my heart still feel like its with my ex? I sometimes feel a longing for him. Sometimes I crave him so bad it feels like I'm gong insane. What's wrong with me?? My ex lied to me he treated me bad I should be glad I'm rid of him. But why do I want him espeicially now when I have met this amazing man. I don't want to let this new guy go as we genuinely do enjoy each others company but on the other hand I feel like I'm not being true to him as im not giving him undivided attention. What should I do? I'm 31 years old.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2015): Hi there.
How long have you been dating him for? If it's a few weeks, I wonder if you have felt this way since your new relationship or since you split with your ex?
it could be you aren't yet ready to date and aren't yet over your ex....how much time did you have on your own?
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