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writes:Dear allI have posted before asking for advice on a Fwb that got back in touch, I'm slightly heartbroken because although he wasn't getting in touch as much (not for Fwb) a mutual friend sent his friend a message (little bit childish) asking him to date me.I told him had nothing to do with me but he now won't speak to me, I'm so upset... What can I do?
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reader, Queenie2015 +, writes (23 September 2015):
 HelloI'm not sure I've fully understood what you were saying. But from what I gather, you were friends with benefits with this guy, you lost touch a little and then your mutual friend messaged another guy to ask if this new guy would go out with you? I think this is what you are saying - please correct me if I'm wrong. Ok so to answer from my understanding above - you seem to like this guy a lot but there must have been a reason that you were FWB and not in a relationship - am I right?It seems a little childish of him to give you the cold shoulder because your friend messaged his friend to go out with you. If you weren't dating and not performing as FWB then he should have no reason to be upset with you as he did not 'stake a claim' for lack of a better phrase. Have you asked him why he won't talk to you? It seems that maybe he was staring to distance himself anyway - as you state he wasn't really contacting you as much as he used to anyway. Are you sure he is not talking to you because of the incident you mention and not because of some other reason? I'm not really sure what else to say to be honest, I mean do you want a relationship with him or just to continue as FWB?
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