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writes:i am 19 from india and i am really confused!! I was dating a girl for a year and first 2 months was amazing and then later i didn't spend time with her and i was super possessive and i always use to fight with her and when her birthday was there i didn't give her a gift. I verbally abused her sometimes. I never got flowers for her whenever we met. I use to meet her once a month because i wanted to spend more time with my friends and i started talking really less to her and always fought with her but she bared it for a year and now suddenly she is like we are over....now what?
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reader, mystiquek  +, writes (20 August 2015):
 Learn to be kind and gentle, OP. Disrespect, carelessness and cruelty will eventually turn love into hate. Even animals learn to shy away and run from an unkind/cruel owner. If you want love you have to give love, its as simple as that. Its over with this girl, you have to move on.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (19 August 2015):
 It's over. That's what.
You can learn from this... When you treat a girl with such callousness and cruelty at some point they will walk away, (run, hopefully) and never look back.
If you can't treat a girl with respect, love, consideration then don't date...
EVERY action have a reaction. And every action have consequences.
GOOD for her to say enough is enough. Learn to be a better man.
Leave her alone. Think on your lesson.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (19 August 2015):
 Now nothing. It's over. Consider it a lesson learned and move forward with your life. Treat the next woman you da
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reader, Benny tolex  +, writes (19 August 2015):
 It happens to teenagers. I will like to put the blame on you for neglecting someone so special to you. Why no flowers at all? Why do u abused her in the first place. Now she said its over you still have a chance. Reconcile with her , let her notice uve changed create time for the both of you
As for your friends they shouldn't be your priority , don't place anyone above her. Let her know that her happiness is your no1 assignment.
I believe she won't break up. She just want to see some changes
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