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writes:My girlfriend and I have been dating for two years.we are very much in love and have experienced many things together. We have traveled and we have over come adversity in the past. However a couple of weeks ago she told me we had to talk. She explained the night before, she had gone out with some co-workers for a wine night. She got too drunk and made out with one of her co-workers who has liked her for a long time. She tells me she feels so guilty and understands if I hate her. It did hurt alot but I am able to heal and move on with her. However she feels so disgusted with herself that she feels that she is not ready for a serious relationship and needs space. She is still in love with me, but feels we shouldn't see each other at the moment. I'm just so lost and heartbroken because our relationship was fine before this. I don't want to give up but I don't want to sell myself short. I don't know what to do.
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reader, Lana102  +, writes (6 October 2015):
Surely you do realise she is saying that just so she can hook up with this other guy or do you truly believe it's because she is so upset with herself?
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (25 August 2015):
I don't think there isn't anything you can do. She wants out and wants to experience things more before she settles down. While I prefer to think the grass isn't always greener on the other side, ultimately, some people still want to do things that they couldn't otherwise do being single. It is really unfair and she is being extremely selfish. As weird as it sounds, the only way for her to come back to you is if you actually move on as well and date some other women. She might see you being happy and she would perhaps get jealous of that.
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