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Archived questions from: November, 2013 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Everything is going wrong right now .....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - How do you handle it when everything seems to go wrong and you are under so much stress? I don't want to get into too much detail but over the past few months I have gone through a whole lot. My parents have never been there for me and don'...

Why is he so angry when he wanted it to end?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - Hi so this is definitely the last question about this particular man that I will ask! I'm just trying to get my head round this last development to be honest. So my ex and i were seeing each other for 5 months, it was mainly lovely, we went on...

Its such a slap in my face that my ex would end up with this girl who had made my life miserable

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend broke up last December but we're still friends. However, during and before our relationship started this girl who liked him tried everything in her power to break us up, she threatened me and tried to get some girl to beat me ...

I cursed her out, we broke up, I want her back, but she's moved on.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

28 November 2013 (M) - I never felt this bad in my life. This is the first time I ever truly loved a girl and the first time I've been genuinely heartbroken. We broke up because I felt she was being cold to me, plus I had no job and I guess the sex wasn't great and I ...

I feel like my sou lmate is at the wrong place!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

27 November 2013 (M) - I have posted on here a lot in the past, and I am posting again because I need some help, or words of courage. My ex of one year and I broke up. It was mainly because I was going to the Marines Reserves. I gave that dream up so that she would b...

How to stop thinking about sex with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

27 November 2013 (F) - After my boyfriend and I broke up, I sought out a rebound, and the guy that presented himself to me was a 32 year old unemployed cocaine addict with a kid. I am 20 years old, from an upper-middle class professional family, in college, working ...

No feelings for my new boyfriend and I think I'm in love with my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - Hi i have been in a relationship for 10 weeks now my boyfriend says he adores me the problem is i have no feelings for him even though i have tried and tried i feel to guilty to split up with him though we were friends for 3 years before and we ...

I'm dating a new guy, but I just can't seem to let my ex go.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4012 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - I was dating a guy who I fell head over heels with for 3 months. Things were really awesome in the beginning and then they started to fall apart because I kept pressuring him to put a title on the relarionship. Long story short we broke up a little ...

How do I move past this jealousy? I want to be happy for him but can't.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4012 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - Hello, Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2.5 years. Last summer he broke up with me, we spent 5 weeks with no contact and then decided to meet up again. We chatted for hours and eventually kissed. We talked over all the issues w...

I'm pregnant. Should I leave my Bf? He's addicted to porn, uses weed and now he's cyber cheated.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - I'm 7 months pregnant and just found out my boyfriend has been messaging a girl he knows on Facebook, suggestive and flirty messages. She suggested they do something sexual, to which he replied "will it be soon?? I can't wait to stay in the room ...

We know the relationship will end, so why would he take some of what time we have left for travel?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

25 November 2013 (F) - My boyfriend is here as an exchange student. From the beginning, he made sure, that what he can certainly give is this one semester. After that, he has no idea what will happen. There was a chance he might stay here for internship, he might go to ...

He just broke up with me and I don't think he gave any thought to my feelings

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

25 November 2013 (F) - Hello everyone. I hope you are alright. So I Had this situation where, my close cousins that grew up with me(almost like my brothers cause I call their mom "mom" too since mine died 13 y.a and she is my mother's sister). Obviously they have a cousin ...

Is she telling me have a hope of saving our marriage or is she just not going to bother whatever I try?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

24 November 2013 (M) - I have been in a relationship for 9 years (6 years married) with my wife. We have five children in which the eldest was from another relationship before ours. We used to live in a three bedroom house which got too small for us to live in, so managed ...

Gf and I broke up a year ago, been single ever since. Am I getting too desperate for attention?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

24 November 2013 (M) - Hi guys basically split up with my girlfriend over a year ago after 4 years together I was devastated and still am not healed, I have slept with 4 girls since then and tried to turn them into relationships but the spark was never there so it turned ...

2 months later and I can't get over him. I feel alone!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

23 November 2013 (F) - Hi all So I registered for a dating site and met this one guy after a really long time. Finally found someone I thought I liked. We met and hit it off immediately. We got along really well and he would be really eager to meet me and texted me al...

Why can't I seem to he over my first gf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

23 November 2013 (M) - I was in a relationship with who I was convinced was "The One". We were together for 6 months and 8 days. It was the happiest I've ever been. I loved her more than life itself. She always called me on my break. And we always talked. I didn't smother ...

Do I go to the party or make an excuse not to go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4016 days ago

22 November 2013 (F) - I need some advice on what to do. I was seeing someone from work for about 5 months. He left 2 months after we got together and i left a month later. We were a tight group at work and we both still see the gang we worked with regularly. At first we ...

Fighting! Now I remind him of his ex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

22 November 2013 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months now. Our way of handling stress is much different. I'm suprised we've lasted this long. He is hot headed to the point where he says and does the first thing on his mind. I am pretty quick ...

Three days ago I suffered a miscarriage. Do I tell my ex bf/good friend I miscarried his baby?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

22 November 2013 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I are 11 years a part, Im 18. We dated secretly to avoid the scandel as we knew he was moving away in december. Last week he ended it early and we are still on really good terms. Its tricky when we both are attracted to eac...

Almost 17 and I feel like I'm having an identiy crisis, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

21 November 2013 (F) - For the last couple of months I've been feeling like i'm having an identity crisis. Throughout my whole life I have never been comfortable with my looks and self image, but it appears at this point in my life it is more ...

Is my husband happy that I asked for the divorce?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

21 November 2013 (F) - After 11 years of marriage I found out that my husband was completely diferent of the one I though he was.He always had female friends which he always helped,send some gifts...but since a while he was connecting a lot with them and I was feeling ...

Does my B/f still miss his ex? How often do they talk? Was their relationship better than ours? Am I a rebound to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

21 November 2013 (F) - Dear cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months and we were friends/talking for 2 months before we got together. When him and I first met and were in the friends/talking kind of stage, he still had feelings for his ex and they talked ofte...

How to get my BF back and move on in the old direction?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

21 November 2013 (F) - I was in 4,5 year long distance relationship. We were seeing each other every 2nd weekend, which is quite often for 2 countries that are far away. It was love at first sight, we had the same taste, traveled a lot together, planning to marry and have ...

My ex and I are back together but he was dating another girl during our break and I wonder things like if he "loved" her and how serious they were

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

20 November 2013 (F) - so my ex and i have started to rekindle things a bit. we have been broken up for about 4 months and i know through friends that he had a brief girlfriend sometime during the time we were broken up. i cant help but think about that other relationship ...

My boyfriend wouldn't be sending flowers to his ex girlfriend every year on that date, would he?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

20 November 2013 (F) - I saw that my boyfriend has been forwarding himself an email about a reminder notice to send flowers the last couple of days . I had seen it quickly over his shoulder and then took a peek yesterday which I don't normally do! The flowers were ...

My boyfriend lied and cheated for over a year and got another woman pregnant. Should I dump him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3323 days ago

19 November 2013 (F) - Should I dump my boyfriend he has fathered a child with another woman and lied and deceived me for nearly a year he was having sex with both ov us but I had no idea he was cheating neither did the other girl know about me. He told me cause I caught ...

Help with insecure GF who wants a break

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

18 November 2013 (M) - My GF has really low self esteem and she's really anxious and insecure. She does not love herself and she has had a hard life. She was almost raped and she had to have an abortion amongst other things. She didn't want to get into a relationship but ...

Please tell me it's possible -- genuine love and good sex together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

17 November 2013 (F) - So the kinkiest, hottest and most bullshit free sex I have ever had, is not in a a serious relationship. I am having it right now, but as I get past 10 years of monogamy (including 2 of marriage) in which sexstarted with co-ersion (as a teen) ...

My ex found out about my new guy and the new guy ended things!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

17 November 2013 (F) - I was with my boyf for 8 years. We broke up in June. I started seeing someone new in August. Things with this new guy were going great. I've totally fell for him and see a long term future for us. I have met up with my ex on a few occasions, as we ...

I ended the relationship because my boyfriend called me another woman's name

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

17 November 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a couple of years now but i now have a problem that has really upset me. While we were having sex and my boyfriend was about to cum he said "Michelle"...but that isn't my name...i got really upset but he said he ...

We had a stupid argument and my ex broke up with me. I want her back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

17 November 2013 (M) - Hey there hope you all are doing good! I'll probably say random info but hopefully it helps you help me. Well I need a bit of help here. I've been with my girlfriend for about 7 months now well ex girlfriend cause she broke up with me today. We've ...

Do I break-up and run? My BF engages in self destructive behaviour and I think I deserve better.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

16 November 2013 (F) - I have posted here before and your advice has always helped me make it through bad times. My boyfriend of a year has driven drunk for most of his adult life he exhibits other self destructive behaviors. Says he likes risk. I have spoken t...

She let me come back but she's making me pay

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

15 November 2013 (M) - One and half years ago, I dumped my 4 years old girlfriend, was feeling bored in relationship. She was begging for next 8 months to come back in her life but I didn't. Between I tried different dates and they didn't work for me. So like 40 days ...

So my dilemma is should I tell him about the other guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

15 November 2013 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 7 months now. We are in the same class(both 19) and in march we started dating! We used to be best friends before that, and I liked him for a couple months before we started dating, and I ...

I have a second chance with my ex but its on harsh terms- should I go for it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

15 November 2013 (M) - Hey all Its day 4 post breakup here, i havent started 'no contact' we are still talking every night all night (i know this is not the way to go) Our split was down to distance..5 years in an LDR with neither of us willing to give up our jobs ...

Am I right to let go because of cultural and religious differences?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

14 November 2013 (F) - I need some advise regarding a coming break-up that I am going to face. My bf and I have been together since 2010, starting off as friends. We both know we will not end together eventually as he is a Muslim and I am a Christian. At one point he ...

My marriage is old, and I need advice!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

13 November 2013 (F) - I'm 53, hubby is 66! We have not spoke to each other for several days! Even though we live in the same house and sleep in the same bed!We have grown children and grandchildren. He has no care for his family but would do anything in his power for a ...

Am I getting my hopes up for nothing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

13 November 2013 (F) - I left my ex because he has a temper, wasn't putting the effort into the relationship. That was nearly 5 months ago, we where only together for 6. After we broke up, he went through a few periods of talking to me and not talking to me. He didn't ...

My ex is dating my friend's sister and treating her like gold!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

13 November 2013 (F) - I dated a man for about six months last year. Things proceeded slowly (I was fine with that). I actually really liked him - I had sworn off dating after coming off a 14 year relationship. I liked him - and I truly feel like it was mutual. How...

My deployed boyfriend cheated! I need advice!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

13 November 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend been going out for 2 years we were plaining on getting married and everything we'll before he deployed I found out he cheated when he went home on leave 4weeks before deployment I flipped on him and wanted to break up but he ...

How do I break it to her? I want to end this nearly 10 year relationship.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

12 November 2013 (M) - Hi, I'd like to know how to end a long term (nearly 10 year) relationship? I'm 27 and have been in the same relationship since 18. Initially it was long distance and we saw each other every weekend or other weekend but I inherited a house close to...

Breaking up and what am I entitled to?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

12 November 2013 (F) - Can anybody tell me if you have been living with your partner for 9 years and you decide to break up, would you be entitled to half or any of the property? I'm in this situation and I don't know much about legal stuff. The house is in his name b...

Could someone give me a little pep talk or something about how I am not a bad person for cutting her out of my life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

12 November 2013 (F) - Am I a bad person for cutting off an ex who wants to remain friends? My ex of 7 years (we mutually broke up 3 years ago) won't stop contacting me out of the eventhough I am now married and she is engaged. What is really confusing is that she was emot...

I'm hurt he ignored me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

12 November 2013 (F) - Hi OK so i just don't know what to do in this situation and who's right and wrong really. :/ I was seeing my boyfriend for 5 months. We started off lovely, then after about a month he backed off and said he wanted to take it slow. I respec...

I ended it so it should be easy, right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

12 November 2013 (M) - Hi all I have been with my ex for a very long time (5 years 1 month 2 days) We split 2 days ago. Its been LDR the whole time, spending weekends and holidays together. We probably average 2-3 days/week together We have both been in our j...

Dealing with his pain

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

11 November 2013 (F) - I don't know how to feel right now. My boyfriend and I broke up Friday night and it was a pretty bad fight for something really stupid. It always happens. We fight and make up. We were together for a little over a year and a half, and we were pret...

I'm too scared to break up with my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

11 November 2013 (F) - I am in a bit of a sticky situation. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now in a relatively stable relationship. Because of my job I've had to move away for a while and my boyfriend is still back at home and now I rarely get to see him. ...

After breaking up I realized I was overthinking

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

11 November 2013 (M) - I broke up with my girlfriend on friday because i thought i couldnt trust her and i was fed up of feeling confused etc. Throught the week about things between us. However after reflecting after a few days i spoke to her on saturday about i...

All I want is someone to love me! I need some advice!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

11 November 2013 (F) - Here we go, I am going to try and do this without breaking down into tears . I have only been divorced since May of 2012 however my husband left in 2008 I met this man and started seeing him and at the time i didnt know he was married because he ...

He has become so self-centered that I'm crying every night!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

11 November 2013 (F) - My current situation is that I live with my boyfriend and my son from my previous relationship. He is great with my son and we get along really well the only thing that is bothering me is that he seems to think time with my son and me is our time ...