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Archived questions from: July, 2012 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

We had a very emotional and nasty breakup and haven't spoken since.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4512 days ago

31 July 2012 (M) - My ex-girlfriend and I dated inconsistently for over three years. We also lived together for most of that time period. Throughout that time period, we had some rocky times, but also some amazing ones. However, the major problems were her twin ...

Lack of communication caused me to break up with boyfriend. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

31 July 2012 (F) - Hey, I've been having issues with my boyfriend for a while, and eventually they became overwhelming. There suddenly was too many to fire fight. It was to do with my bf not really finding it easy to communicate. He slowly got better, but when m...

Is it normal for people in long-term relationships to develop romantic feelings for others?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4526 days ago

31 July 2012 (F) - The ex and I broke up after 8.5 years together two days ago. The immediate cause: his attraction for his coworker over the last 2 years, which in the last half year or so, has developed into romantic feelings (my gut feeling is that he's in love ...

We broke up, and now he want his gifts back.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

31 July 2012 (F) - hi guys 3 months ago i broke up with my boyfriend who was really bad to me,we are now exs. i wrote in about him a while ago and i got some really nice advice to just leave him,so i did that and everything has been okay but i havent been able to get ...

What are things to consider when planning on getting divorced?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - when planning to get divorced, what are the things to consider. My husband and I are separated and I would like to know what to expect if our marriage does not survive, especially from those in the RSA. Thanks......

Things don't feel right with my boyfriend and I am interested in a guy at work. Things don't feel right!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together about 2.5 years and we've had a very bumpy start and mid. At the beginning of the relationship, he wasn't even sure he wanted to date me, but we somehow just started dating. Then, after about 9 months, we moved ...

How do I pull her up on her behaviour without hurting her feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - My parents have been on rocky waters for the past few years. They married young and have found it hard to keep the passion a live. They have been separated for a couple of years but hadn't verified it exactly. They still live in the same house. ...

I want to break up but he hasn't done anything wrong!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - I've been going out with a guy for a while now and I don't like him any more. (I think it's because I don't want a boyfriend right now but I'm not sure.) I want to break up with him but I don't know how because he hasn't done anything wrong. I can't ...

Tw guys head over heels in love with me.Torn loyalty to each. What should I do? One has been in jail.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - I've got a huge dilemma. I have 2 guys pretty much head of heels in love with me. I was with Guy A for 4 and a half years. 3 of those years were spent getting beat up, abused and treated like a dog. Within that time, I gave birth to his 2 childre...

He's my first love. He took my virginity, and then cheated on me. Help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4367 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - I’m very confused. Hurt. Scared. And i don't know what happened to my life. I need help. Summer of senior year I got a friend request from this boy that was going to one of the Universities I was going to. I left it there for like a month but when...

My feelings for him are strong. His actions indicate he doesn't care. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I know i need to split up with my boyfriend, he is constantly out with his friends even though he has no job. We have a child together and when he is out im stuck in the house myself with no one to speak to, it has gotten so bad that it has driv...

Do you think this Work colleague likes me, after he said my husband, "would be crazy to not love me"?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4519 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I'm a 35 year old married lady though not happily and on my way out of a marriage. I just got chatting with a collegue and as part of a conversation i said 'i dont thing my husband loves me' and he said 'He'd be crazy not to' Do you think he has f...

What's he on about? Wedding called off, he's moving out, but doesn't want to split !?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - Okay...so I'm feeling heartbroken and I don't know where to go from here? My fiance and I have been together for 4 years and we were supposed to be getting married this September. We've lived together for the last 3 years and we bought a new hom...

Why ask? Should I comply? My married lover wants to know about any other women I sleep with

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 July 2012 (M) - I have been sleeping with a married woman for over a year now. She has an open marriage (within some limits) and we get along great both inside and outside of bed. She and I were talking and I asked her if she'd be upset if I slept with other...

Is it that he just does not like me? I feel neglected and hurt by his actions.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I met this guy at a club. we exchange numbers and texted time to time. then he invited me to come over his place to watch movie together. so I came to his place and had a small conversation with him suddenly he invited his friends and left me ...

What should I do? We broke up but he wants me 'on hold' but in his life? Yet he is talking to other girls already?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - Hi all, I have recently (2 weeks ago) broken up with a boyfriend of 4 months. The circumstances of the break-up were as follows: He stopped showing me any affection, he was cancelling plans to see me and he has avoided calls, simply texting m...

We broke up last week. With No Contact, his idea. But can I still text him to wish him good luck with exams? Or wait?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - Hey Me and my bf broke up last week. I met him after 2 days asking him to be friends he disagreed for any contact. I maintained the no contact rule and today is the sixth day. He has exams on monday therefore, can I text him to wish him good lu...

Why did she throw me away for this other guy when it clearly wont work out? Is this a case of 'the grass is greener on the other side'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

27 July 2012 (M) - Hello, About 5 months ago i got dumped out of nowhere. We were together for 4 years and it was a really good relationship, we have real love, we did alot together, shared everything and our family's loved us both. Then all of a sudden she wante...

If my ex Gf breaks No Contact, is she just checking up on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4530 days ago

27 July 2012 (M) - Been in a relationship for 8 months. Month ago we got into heated discussion over something silly which resulted in break-up. Over next two weeks I tried to talk to her. It was not on a daily basis but rather every 3-4 days with no contact in ...

We broke up, got back together, and then he lied about a plane ticket!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years. The relationship had been great, but during one blow up fight we ended things. We were broken up for a month, but after talking things out we got back together. That was 3 weeks ago. Things have ...

How can I heal his heart?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - My bf's first gf i.e A broke his heart so he has been playing with the feelings of girls since then, A and i have become good friends and she told me she was the one who broke my guy's heart because she isn't in love with him but with someone and ...

How to entertain introverted and quiet guys if you're introverted and quiet as well?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - I have a big crush on this boy.We're both members of a performing organization in our university. He plays the violin and I play the piano. Because of our common interest in the same music genre, we get along well. We're good friends and we're ...

I'd be with my ex but for the sex! New guy or the ex? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - hey everyone im writing because im really confused on who to be with or at least who to try and be with. okay so the first guy is my ex boyfriend of about six months now but we still live together after the first part of the breakup due to a lease. ...

Now that I'm getting my life back on track, I'm afraid of losing him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - We love each other but are now having problems making it work. I first met my boyfriend in my early teens, i was friends and used to help out his younger sister. We became closer at uni then started a relationship nearly 2 years ago, i had been ...

Should I consider this other man? My husband is not intersted in me. Does this other man only want sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4522 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - Hi, iam 25 years old married and have a kid,my husband is not interested in doing any sex with me... Nor will he discuss any matters to me. I saw some SMS in his mobile , which is related to a girl. I think he has another affair, if i ask him, he ...

How do I start to get over this? I am still affected by my parents infidelity and how it made me feel as a child

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - My question is regarding cheating parents. A few years ago, my father cheated on my mother. I am considerably younger than my siblings AND when this infidelity occurred, I was placed in the middle of the drama because of my age difference. Althou...

I don't want to be a bitch but I want to break up with him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 July 2012 (F) - Its been three years with this guy. Im over it i'm done.i'm a senior in high school now I need to get my life together and I can't when i'm being held back because of him.I recently went to Paris and its changed my perspective on life and ...

We broke up. How long will it take him to relent and text me back? He thinks I don't trust him any more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 July 2012 (F) - A month ago, my boy friend and I broke up beacuse of a fight we had. Got back as friends and were coming back into our relationship and two weeks ago I went to his place for a movie. I was lying on his chest him cuddling me and everythi...

My boyfriend says we can no longer be together because my family dislikes him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 July 2012 (F) - so hurt, my boyfriend and I have been together, for 3yrs now, and we just moved to Ohio. we get along with each other pretty well, most of the time. But there's this big issue, that keep us from going any future, in our relationship like marriage. ...

Good relationship or good sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 July 2012 (F) - I always wanted the relationship, but is having better sex worth leaving? I love my bf with ALL my heart and we are both stable and mature enough to get married. but my friend wants to sleep with me, and unlike my low testosterone bf, this guy can ...

My girlfriend of 5 years ended things and kicked me out. Now I think she's playing games with me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

25 July 2012 (M) - So my girlfriend of 5 years ended things over something that most of our friends claim was not a big deal because they understood it as a joke. She however is not the joking type sometimes and over-reacted. I understand why she was upset at some ...

I want to go out and live a little, meet other guys, spend more time with my friends. Do I just tell him that? Or will that completely break his heart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

24 July 2012 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for 17 months now, but lately I don't feel the same around him. Most days, I don't even want to talk to him or see him. He just makes me mad all the time, tells me i'm doing everything wrong, and I just don't feel like ...

We broke up a month and a half ago and she wont let me see my kids. I need advice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

23 July 2012 (M) - will my girlfreind and i broke up a month and a half ago..we have kids..shes started sseing a guy rite after we seperated..i still help her out with our kids..and lately shes wont let me see my kids..its been a week tht i haven't seen my kids i ...

Is it time to move on and file so I get my rights to my son?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

23 July 2012 (M) - My Girlfriend and I broke up after over 2 years. We have had our issues in the past and none have lasted this long. This has been the longest and after 3 weeks she wanted to take it slow. I pushed when I shouldn't have and it made us fall apart. ...

I know how to keep this relationship alive.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

23 July 2012 (F) - HEy everyone! So i need some advice, yeasturday i planned this romantic evening for my boyfriend, i knew hes been stressed at work and tired, so i put some rose petals on the bed, fake ones, and his favorite cady, i planned on givinging him a back r...

When will these feelings for my ex go away?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

23 July 2012 (F) - Why Is this happening to me? I hate my life:(. Mature answers please? My ex boyfriend and I broke up 15 months ago. I loved him so much, I thought we were in love cause of the way he cared about me. All my friends and family thought ...

After everything that's happened we want to be together again but I don't know if I can trust her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

23 July 2012 (M) - Plzz help me i am in a very difficult situation.I was in a relationship for 6 yrs and i used to love her alot.I done everything for her everything.Both of our parent was ready.And i was very possesive for her.Everything was going great but before 6 ...

I need to break up as painlessly as possible, he doesn't have a clue even though I've tried to give him hints!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

23 July 2012 (F) - I've been seeing someone off and on for the past few months and I need to end things with him. He really likes me and, despite me trying to "clue him in" the past couple of weeks, he's not going to see the breakup coming. I'm seeing him on Thursday ...

Please help...I am deeply in love with my baby's father

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

23 July 2012 (F) - I am 23 years old and so is he. we've had a 5 year relationship.. after finding out i was pregnant our problems began.. I left him when I was 7 months pregnant because of cheating suspicions . after my baby was born, he moved on dating an older ...

Should I contact an ex who's been in an accident?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

23 July 2012 (M) - My ex-girlfriend broke up with me almost a year ago. At first, I had a hard time dealing with it and even tried to get her back a couple of times to my own detriment. I finally gave up and haven't spoken to her in several months. Yesterday, a mutual...

My boyfriend kicked me out...should I tell his family how he's behaved?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

23 July 2012 (F) - Three months ago my now ex boyfriend of a year and a half broke up with me. He said he wanted it to be civil, which it was in the beginning. I had moved to a different country to be with him and we had decided to live together, but he moved out and ...

How do I get over an ex boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

22 July 2012 (F) - i was going out with a boy for a year and a half, but he suddneley didn't feel the same anymore, but i still have all the same feelings for him and i dont know if that is a good thing or a bad thing? how do i get over him??...

Influenced by his new friend, he has filed for divorce!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

22 July 2012 (F) - just over a month ago my husband of almost 12yrs left me we had been together 15yrs.the main problem for me was the fact that my husband had a new friend who would do everything he could to seperate us when we was out on a night our other friends ...

Marriage problems. What should or can I do? I feel like starting over. What are some options?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4532 days ago

22 July 2012 (F) - I really do not want to share this with friends or family. I have been in a relationship for 15 years and married for 4. I have 3 children, work full time and try my best to manage career, husband, children and home duties... Lately, I feel not...

We broke up and I want him back!

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22 July 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend broke up 2 days ago because he thought I was spying on him but I was not it was all because I was jealous.but he does not get that. After breaking up, the 1st day I was angry so he told me hi but I ignored, and so the 2nd day he ...

I got dumped for going to a strip club!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

22 July 2012 (M) - Ok I have a girl friend and she broke up with me because I went to a strip club with my friends on a company trip is she over reacting we been dating for 9 months...

Should I be on my guard?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

21 July 2012 (M) - 3 and a half years ago I fell in love for the first time with a girl that I met at university. Unfortunately I don't think that love was reciprocated - a friend of a friend also had his eye on her and made his advances. My friends tell me she ...

Does this mean I'm not over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4535 days ago

21 July 2012 (F) - so i was dating this person for over a year and we broke up cuz he constantly cheated on me and lied to me throughout our relationship. so we've been talking cool and a girl pops up starts trying to be cool with me on fb and i look at his page and ...

Even though I'm with her, I still feel incomplete and unfulfilled.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

21 July 2012 (M) - Here's the thing, I'm with a girl that I use to be short term friends with. She's a great girl and everything but I just don't feel any real love towards her. How did I up with her then? It all started a couple months ago when I use to flirt wit...

Sometimes I wish she would just yell at me so we could make up!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

21 July 2012 (M) - Well it's been awhile since I got divorced, thanks for the help Aunts. I now have a new problem. I started dating a wonderful woman last October and things were wonderful. Having been in an abusive relationship though I have had a lot to learn a...