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Archived questions from: January, 2011 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

If we were to break up I have nowhere to go. Advice needed please!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - im with my girlfreind nearly 7 yrs, we're living together and have a 2 yr old daughter i proposed to her on her 21st birthday yr and half ago but since then we'v been fighting a lot and the sex went from occasionally to none. im only 21 and have ...

Fiance cheated, take him back or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I recently broke off my engagement with my fiancé who I have been with for three years. I found out about a month ago by going through his computer (looking for a paper I had written, not to spy) that he was looking at other girls online; not porn ...

He wants nothing to do with me or the child but I want him back...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5042 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - after years of dating, my boyfriend broke up with me when i told him i was pregnant. i due next month. he said at the time he was to young(25) and wanted to enjoy life but he didn't want a serious realtionship. in october 2010 i talk to him over an ...

Still struggling after the breakup...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Hi , I am going through a really tough time at the minute my boyfriend broke up with me the day before new years after nearly 4 years together and i am still absolutley devastated. things were bad for a few weeks beforehand, he felt we were dri...

Any ideas on how I could start speaking to him again?

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31 January 2011 (F) - I went out with this guy for a short while in the summer but then we broke up and said that we'll still be friends and stuff but now we're not even on speaking terms which pains me greatly seeing as we got really close i would just like some advice ...

What should I get my Ex Fiancee for valentine's day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5041 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - Well i have a question to ask the community i just recently broke up with my ex fiancee i want to give some sort of background we together for 6 years we had our ups and down i was very immature and lied because she had trust issues with me i admit ...

He makes me feel like I'm his mother or his household help!

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31 January 2011 (F) - I'm having a hard time with my husbandhe's 25. He's failed at so many things in his life. I've been with him for 2years but known him for 4years. Ever since after his A levels. He flunked and i was there for him. I tried applying for him at colleges ...

He's back in my life but doesn't want to make a commitment.

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31 January 2011 (F) - Me and this guy is ten years apart I am 37 and he is 27. At first we were in a relationship living together. But I messed up and one of his friends saw me at a rehearsal with my ex boyfriend. Afterwards we broke up and he started seeing other ...

Is it to where I don't want to be with him anymore?

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31 January 2011 (F) - I have been living with my bf for 3in a half yrs. And I have for a long time that I have got that strong feeling of not wanting to be with him nomore. I have been wanting to break up but I get the feeling of not breaking up with him. Why I'm I ...

How do I get my girlfriend back?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - hi im 34 and met this girl last summer...well she grew up in my hometown so i guess i always knew of her just didnt talk before and last summer she got one of my friends to ask me out so i gave it a try and we dated for 5 and a half ...

How do you cope with a break-up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - hi all, i need advice on break up. i want to stay healthy and strong. my girlfriend has recently dumped me and i feel devastated. how to cope? thanks....

Heartbroken and don't know what to do......

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5042 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - Hi i was with this girl for 5 and a half monthes and i fell in love with her and wanted to spend the rest of my life with her and a week after new years eve she broke up with me.the last few weeks we were together i could tell that something was up ...

Why does my ex boyfriend keep texting me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - hey guys, was wondering if you could help me make sense of ex-boyfriend's behaviour. We broke up 3 weeks ago after 2 years together due to us both being unhappy and arguing lots. For me the main source of our problems were his alcohol dependan...

Despite all the bad things he has done, he is the only one I want. How do I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Hi everyone it would be really appreciated for help on this because I'm completely confused. My boyfriend of 2 years and I have been off and on since October but on Christmas eve he broke up with me via text not giving me a reason then ignored me ...

I was unsure about trusting him, so he got fed up of waiting and left me! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I REAALLY NEED HELP! I was dating this guy after i broke up with my boy friend...actually; he was the reason why I did break up...It was at a stage when my rel'ship with my ex was almost dead and i met him. At that point of time i was totally...

Will he settle for second best?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I really hope some of you kind people can help me out. Five years ago, I started a relationship with a man who wasn't completely over his ex girlfriend of 8 years. In the beginning, he played me around - going dating behind my back, not turnin...

How can I eraze her from my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - I had a relationship of almost 2 years. My girlfriend has lied to me regularly, shouted at me, has been physically agressive by kicking me multiple time, cheated on me, stole from my house, stole from my computer, watched my emails and skype when...

The grass wasn't greener on the other side.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - I want to work things out with my flame but I don't know how to cope with possible rejection. How should I go about. Keep in mind I crapped on her. Bailed out on her for another woman which flopped because my heart wasn't into her. It's been 2 ...

My friend took my boyfriend away from me, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I like my friend D. I told him that a month ago after I got roped into doing that. And I was happy because he reacted positively. Now, I am angry and sad. My friend J, who knew I liked him, took him from me by asking him to have sex and be in a rel...

He wants to give us another try but I don't feel anything for him anymore! Should I work at getting the feelings back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Ok this is a long shot so here it is. My exbf broke it off with me and I took it hard. I cool now and guess what? He's pressuring me to give it another try. Ok so here's the deal. I'm tolerating him and I'm bored. I've lost every feeling of love ...

I want to get to know this guy better, but I cant leave my boyfriend because of his threats each time I try! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Please help, I don't know what to do. This is a long story and very confusing too. I'm in a relationship for 6 years, on and off. When i said on and off, I meant, i was looking a better different bf. However, my current bf and I fight all the time. ...

I get mad each time he goes to visit his son at his ex's house!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5042 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I'm living with my boyfriend for more than two years now, we have a 6 mos old son and he has another 3 year old son from his ex also. everytime he visits him i always get mad. i know i should not to but i just cant stop thinking that his going to ...

I feel really betrayed that he'd get over me while we were in a relationship, talk to this girl who was his "friend" behind my back and then breakup with me after I tried really hard to change.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - OK before i start i want to thank everyone for taking the time to answer my question. Ok my boyfriend for 10 months recently dumped me about a month ago. He said i was too controlling and i didnt trust him. Before this huge breakup i dumped h...

She first told me nothing could happen, then led me on, left off abruptly and started dating someone else after telling me she wasn't allowed to...should I be angry or what??!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5042 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - I met this girl, who i really liked and we had a really good friendship. She already had a boyfriend, so I couldn't ask her out or anything. They eventually broke up, and we started hanging out more. Eventually I told her how I felt, and she had ...

Why hasn't he tried to fix this when everything was flowing so great?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I met a man on New Years Day and we had been spending a whole lot of time with each other ever since. We sat and talked the first date for hours not even realizing 4 hrs had passed. Evey couple days we would get together and it seemed that we had ...

How can I be happy with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - So here's my story. It's been 4.5 months since breakup and i realize that I still miss her. I don't love her as much as i did when she ended things with me but i still miss her tremendously. She's in my thoughts everyday. My ex girlfriend's healing ...

He left me to have a good time with his ex, and now that she's out, he wants me back again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5043 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I've had many trust issues with my boyfriend. Most with his ex girlfriend. Many issues in general, including: When they first broke up he started talking to me a couple weeks after.. then we started 'talking'. Before I left for Mexico in the summ...

Changed so much with trying to accommodate the men in my life, I don't even know who I am anymore...

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30 January 2011 (F) - I've been in 2 serious relationships one after another for the last ast 4 years. I've been single for about a week now and I don't know who I am anymore. I've changed to accomadate these men and now I feel like I've depended on them so much I lost ...

My boyfriend has anger issues, but I don't want him to leave. Will he ever change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I really dont know what to do anymore! I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have a 6 month old son. He works nights and I look after our son. He gets really naggy over the slightest thing and will shout, swear, and punch the walls....

3 years after husband walks out, I still grieve, when does it stop?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I was with supposedly the "love of my life" for 32 years. In 2008, I found out he was having an affair. He left my son and I for 2 months, and then returned, stayed for 3 months, kept seeing the other person and then left again. I have not seen ...

Does he miss me too? And should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Should I tell him how I feel? Ok, my ex decided that he wanted to be just friends. I agreed because something didn't feel right. I still love him, but decided that we both needed some space. It's been almost 2 weeks, and I had not heard from him...

Why did he suddenly decide that he didn't want to be with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - So in the beginning of the year, I met this guy at school (first year of college - we're both 18) and he immediately showed interest in me. He also became my lab partner and 3 days after meeting him, he told me he liked me through a drunk text. I ...

Fell in love, married, had children, & struggled with monogamy. Now the wife wants to leave. Why are we doing this to our kids?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Is "male nature" setting us back again? No where in the animal kingdom do we see monogamy more prominent as we see it in human nature. Or is monogamy just something woman have come to believe as true? I, like most men, fell in love with a beautifu...

Will I be waiting a lifetime till he falls back in love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend broke up the other day but somehow got basck together, i knbow the brake up was out of temper and he didn't mean it.. However, he has said that he doesn't feel 'as strongly' about me anymore, but i feel strongly about him stil...

Not 100% happy in 2 year long distance relationship. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Okay, well I am 17 (yeah kind of young, I know right...) and I am in a long-distance relationship. He lives in a place all the way across my country. I really want to be with him but it's hard. We have been together for 2 years. We are both too...

We both have partners, but we're in love! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - My situation is awkward! I have been close friends with a guy in another country for a couple of years. We get on great together, have so much in common, and have met a few times in real life, which were fantastic. The problem is he has a partner ...

How do I get over her.. or How do I make her fall for me as well?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - My ex-girlfriend who broke up with me a month ago talked to me today. I am still in love with her and wonder if I'll ever get over her. Our relationship never would have worked because she had to move, but today, she talked to me as if she still had ...

Is it important that I move on first after our breakup?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5043 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - So, I'm in a bit of a situation right now, my ex and I broke up 2 weeks ago, and he's been really flirty with one girl lately.. She's known for being a complete slut, so I wouldn't be surprised if something happened. I talked to him about it, ...

Should I take a risk and talk to my ex, or wait to see what happens when I visit his sister?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - It's been 4 months since my ex and I broke up....the same week we broke up he slept with someone, but didn't tell me... I figured it out! We didnt talk for a month then he got in contact, admitting what he had done and saying how he regretted ...

Worried about leaving my kids with their father who is an alcoholic. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - My existence here in this country depends on my ex. I don't know why I say he is my ex as we still live together. He was supposed to move out once he had the money. Since I've been working (3 months) I've been paying all the bills myself so he can ...

Cheated on my boyfriend and left him for another. 1 yr later I can't stop dreaming about him!

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30 January 2011 (F) - Okay so bear with me please it's a really long one. So me and this guy, he was my high school sweetheart. We liked each other for years then dated for about 2 years or more. I cheated on him with another guy and thought I was falling for the other ...

I want to break up my friendship because he's rude, but how do I tell him and break up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I have a male friend who's 16 and I am 15. He loves me and i love him too, but am not yet ready for a relationship. Sometimes when we talk he's rude, sometimes he's caring. Anytime i tell him he's rude, he says, 'dats d way he is'. I hate rude ...

Distant Boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I am 29 and my boyfriend is 30. We have been together for 2 years. We have been fighting a lot lately about anything and have both decided that we want to work on things. However, he has not been putting in the effort. I havent seen him in over a ...

My boyfriend said he tried to love me but just couldn't!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - OK. I will try to make this story as short as possible while including all the pertinent details. Me - I am 32 years old, divorced, and have a 5 year old daughter that I share custody of. I work and support myself and her. Him - 32 years ...

Was naked with my ex...should I tell my girlfriend?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - So last night was my ex's 22nd birthday, so since we're still on good terms I went out with her and some of my old mutual friends. The night started off fairly well but as the night progressed I got more and more drunk (more so than I've gotten in ...

He cheated, I got pregnant, stayed for the children, and now I want out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - My husband had a four year affair early in our marriage. By the time I had enough confidence in myself to leave him I found out I was pregnant. 15 years later, I no longer want to stay married. His family stated that I don't have the right to leave ...

It all went great at first but then I got kind of bored.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Hello everyone ! First i just wanna say i love this site ! It's great to hear other people's opinions. Ok, so I've been dating a guy for like 2 months already, it all went great first weeks, then I kind of got bored and we are verryyy differe...

How do I become "just friends" with him if I have already fallen head over heels with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Ok, here goes: A year ago I started dating a married man. In that time, we have "gotten caught" 4 times, (but not in the compromising position you are probably thinking) He left his facebook up, she hired a private investigator, text messages, etc. ...

I feel like I have to do everything for him, for us.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and a half. We are'first loves'. We've been living together for about a year, and I'm getting to the point where I don't know if I want to stay with him, but if I think about leaving him, the ...

Should I let him go and accept we just aren't happening or keep at it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5044 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - today me and my friends where talking about my ex-boyfriend whom i still have feeling for. she walks home with him and was telling me how hes scared of dogs and hid behind her when he saw one. she was telling me other things i should have known like ...