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Archived questions from: 31 January, 2011 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

If we were to break up I have nowhere to go. Advice needed please!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - im with my girlfreind nearly 7 yrs, we're living together and have a 2 yr old daughter i proposed to her on her 21st birthday yr and half ago but since then we'v been fighting a lot and the sex went from occasionally to none. im only 21 and have ...

Fiance cheated, take him back or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I recently broke off my engagement with my fiancé who I have been with for three years. I found out about a month ago by going through his computer (looking for a paper I had written, not to spy) that he was looking at other girls online; not porn ...

He wants nothing to do with me or the child but I want him back...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - after years of dating, my boyfriend broke up with me when i told him i was pregnant. i due next month. he said at the time he was to young(25) and wanted to enjoy life but he didn't want a serious realtionship. in october 2010 i talk to him over an ...

Still struggling after the breakup...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Hi , I am going through a really tough time at the minute my boyfriend broke up with me the day before new years after nearly 4 years together and i am still absolutley devastated. things were bad for a few weeks beforehand, he felt we were dri...

Any ideas on how I could start speaking to him again?

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31 January 2011 (F) - I went out with this guy for a short while in the summer but then we broke up and said that we'll still be friends and stuff but now we're not even on speaking terms which pains me greatly seeing as we got really close i would just like some advice ...

What should I get my Ex Fiancee for valentine's day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5072 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - Well i have a question to ask the community i just recently broke up with my ex fiancee i want to give some sort of background we together for 6 years we had our ups and down i was very immature and lied because she had trust issues with me i admit ...

He makes me feel like I'm his mother or his household help!

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31 January 2011 (F) - I'm having a hard time with my husbandhe's 25. He's failed at so many things in his life. I've been with him for 2years but known him for 4years. Ever since after his A levels. He flunked and i was there for him. I tried applying for him at colleges ...

He's back in my life but doesn't want to make a commitment.

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31 January 2011 (F) - Me and this guy is ten years apart I am 37 and he is 27. At first we were in a relationship living together. But I messed up and one of his friends saw me at a rehearsal with my ex boyfriend. Afterwards we broke up and he started seeing other ...

Is it to where I don't want to be with him anymore?

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31 January 2011 (F) - I have been living with my bf for 3in a half yrs. And I have for a long time that I have got that strong feeling of not wanting to be with him nomore. I have been wanting to break up but I get the feeling of not breaking up with him. Why I'm I ...

How do I get my girlfriend back?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - hi im 34 and met this girl last summer...well she grew up in my hometown so i guess i always knew of her just didnt talk before and last summer she got one of my friends to ask me out so i gave it a try and we dated for 5 and a half ...

How do you cope with a break-up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - hi all, i need advice on break up. i want to stay healthy and strong. my girlfriend has recently dumped me and i feel devastated. how to cope? thanks....

Heartbroken and don't know what to do......

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - Hi i was with this girl for 5 and a half monthes and i fell in love with her and wanted to spend the rest of my life with her and a week after new years eve she broke up with me.the last few weeks we were together i could tell that something was up ...

Why does my ex boyfriend keep texting me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - hey guys, was wondering if you could help me make sense of ex-boyfriend's behaviour. We broke up 3 weeks ago after 2 years together due to us both being unhappy and arguing lots. For me the main source of our problems were his alcohol dependan...

Despite all the bad things he has done, he is the only one I want. How do I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Hi everyone it would be really appreciated for help on this because I'm completely confused. My boyfriend of 2 years and I have been off and on since October but on Christmas eve he broke up with me via text not giving me a reason then ignored me ...

I was unsure about trusting him, so he got fed up of waiting and left me! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I REAALLY NEED HELP! I was dating this guy after i broke up with my boy friend...actually; he was the reason why I did break up...It was at a stage when my rel'ship with my ex was almost dead and i met him. At that point of time i was totally...

Will he settle for second best?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I really hope some of you kind people can help me out. Five years ago, I started a relationship with a man who wasn't completely over his ex girlfriend of 8 years. In the beginning, he played me around - going dating behind my back, not turnin...

How can I eraze her from my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - I had a relationship of almost 2 years. My girlfriend has lied to me regularly, shouted at me, has been physically agressive by kicking me multiple time, cheated on me, stole from my house, stole from my computer, watched my emails and skype when...

The grass wasn't greener on the other side.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - I want to work things out with my flame but I don't know how to cope with possible rejection. How should I go about. Keep in mind I crapped on her. Bailed out on her for another woman which flopped because my heart wasn't into her. It's been 2 ...

My friend took my boyfriend away from me, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I like my friend D. I told him that a month ago after I got roped into doing that. And I was happy because he reacted positively. Now, I am angry and sad. My friend J, who knew I liked him, took him from me by asking him to have sex and be in a rel...

He wants to give us another try but I don't feel anything for him anymore! Should I work at getting the feelings back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Ok this is a long shot so here it is. My exbf broke it off with me and I took it hard. I cool now and guess what? He's pressuring me to give it another try. Ok so here's the deal. I'm tolerating him and I'm bored. I've lost every feeling of love ...

I want to get to know this guy better, but I cant leave my boyfriend because of his threats each time I try! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Please help, I don't know what to do. This is a long story and very confusing too. I'm in a relationship for 6 years, on and off. When i said on and off, I meant, i was looking a better different bf. However, my current bf and I fight all the time. ...

I get mad each time he goes to visit his son at his ex's house!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I'm living with my boyfriend for more than two years now, we have a 6 mos old son and he has another 3 year old son from his ex also. everytime he visits him i always get mad. i know i should not to but i just cant stop thinking that his going to ...

I feel really betrayed that he'd get over me while we were in a relationship, talk to this girl who was his "friend" behind my back and then breakup with me after I tried really hard to change.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - OK before i start i want to thank everyone for taking the time to answer my question. Ok my boyfriend for 10 months recently dumped me about a month ago. He said i was too controlling and i didnt trust him. Before this huge breakup i dumped h...

She first told me nothing could happen, then led me on, left off abruptly and started dating someone else after telling me she wasn't allowed to...should I be angry or what??!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - I met this girl, who i really liked and we had a really good friendship. She already had a boyfriend, so I couldn't ask her out or anything. They eventually broke up, and we started hanging out more. Eventually I told her how I felt, and she had ...

Why hasn't he tried to fix this when everything was flowing so great?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I met a man on New Years Day and we had been spending a whole lot of time with each other ever since. We sat and talked the first date for hours not even realizing 4 hrs had passed. Evey couple days we would get together and it seemed that we had ...

How can I be happy with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - So here's my story. It's been 4.5 months since breakup and i realize that I still miss her. I don't love her as much as i did when she ended things with me but i still miss her tremendously. She's in my thoughts everyday. My ex girlfriend's healing ...