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writes:Should I tell him how I feel?Ok, my ex decided that he wanted to be just friends. I agreed because something didn't feel right. I still love him, but decided that we both needed some space. It's been almost 2 weeks, and I had not heard from him. Out of the blue, he texts me and gives me his new number, I responded just with, "ok thanks" and left it at that... Is he missing me as much as I miss him? We have been here so many times. But he has my heart...
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reader, lili1203 +, writes (31 January 2011):
lili1203 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for takin the time and answering, he did contact me last night and we talked for a while, he told me he misses me to, but he gets confused sometimes because we go to different skools and its hard. And I just told him that I think we should leave things the way they are because if its meant to be then it will be, Thanks all of you for your opinions but it did help a lot to talk to him :)
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reader, CandyAppleRed +, writes (31 January 2011):
 Aww this sounds like me when I was your age... As much as you love him, I think you should wait til theres someone that you aren't doubting. Trust me lili, it only gets better :) I was like that with my ex at your age and it tooke me about 3 years to get over it. He would come back to me life, just like he is with you, and all. It was confusing. I refused to go back with him because I was afraid that what had gone wrong the first time, would happen again. I am glad I did. I am now in a beautiful relationship that would not have happened had I been with that ex from long ago still. Good luck. You'll get over him :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2011): I've been on the opposite end of this situation before. I'm not trying to sound harsh, but if he really wanted to talk he would probably contact you himself. If you absolutely MUST tell him, contain it to something short and sweet and only tell him once. If he feels the same way, he will let you know. I know it hurts, but I would try to move on. I've never really seen a relationship work after several breakups.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2011): i doubt hes feeling the same way as you, since he ended the relationship, and he hasnt spoke to you recently, i think you should tell him how you feel, because first, its the best thing to do to continue the relationship, and maybe its what the relationship needs, and secondly, you'll never know how he feels until you do.
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