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Archived questions from: February, 2017 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Did this guy actually love her? Or did he just want to have sex with her, despite her telling him that she was not ready for sex ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2817 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - Hi.i know someone whose boyfriend broke up with her cause she could not have sex with him. Before she accepted to date him she told him and he accepted. Along the line he started really talking about it saying he thought she will let him have sex...

Is there a way to hint to a guy that you are not interested?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2818 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - I went on a few dates with a guy, but I just didn’t feel a connection with him. He seems so enthusiastic about our next date, but I don’t want to date him anymore. So is there a way I can hint to him that I’m no longer interested? ...

My boyfriend and I are in a good place, but his mother doesn't me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2819 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - Hi all. It might be a long one so I'm really sorry. I'll set te scene a little bit. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. We are saving for a house but are both currently living with our parents. A while back (probably 6 months ago) we had ...

I'm worried my reaction means I am not over him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2826 days ago

27 February 2017 (F) - I had a one year relationship. The guy was a jerk, and anyway we boke up. After not even seeing eaach other for like 3 months i suddenly see him on the road and i vomit. why does this happen? please tell me it's normal and that i don't still have ...

My boyfriend appears to be attracted to transgender women!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2818 days ago

27 February 2017 (F) - A few weeks ago I noticed my boyfriend had sent a friend request to a young lady. When I went to her page her pics were mostly of her in sexy lingerie and telling all to visit her on webcam. I also noticed she had obvious breast implants and a ...

His family want us to marry, mine don't!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2819 days ago

27 February 2017 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I 'was' dating this guy for a little over two years. We have both met each other's families and all was well until last December when his family started asking him to get married. Now the problem is I am in my early 20s ...

Is my boyfriend being truthful about his parents?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2819 days ago

27 February 2017 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a little over three years now. He's currently in his forties. We broke up last year for about a month because he and I talked about getting married but then when we actually started trying to pick a date he told me ...

I worry I am being led down the garden path again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2828 days ago

27 February 2017 (F) - Im really confused I hope someone helps. A few years ago I've met a guy and I've actually lost my virginity to him. he meant a lot to me and things were going great however I was afraid of commitment and I thought negatively so my thoughts were th...

We/ve been back together for a year but it just isn't like it was.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2824 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - Okay so I don't quite know how to start this, but my friends have been helpful and supportive, but I suppose I'm still lost. My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years minus the 2 that we were broken up for. We broke up because he said he ...

I'm scared to follow my dreams in case my past could be viewed as a scandal!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2824 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - I married a man who is my mother's ex-boyfriend's younger brother. Let me explain. So my mother dated a guy for two years, ten+ years ago. I was 18/19 at the time. The man lived with us as a 'step-father'. I was never around due to college, a jo...

We both want to have sex but I'm not sure I am ready

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2824 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months and he has fingered me and I have given him a hand job. We've both considered having sex but I'm not sure if I'm ready. Sometimes I want to have sex and I feel confident but sometimes I get too scared I ...

Workplace problems... Did I deal with Jimmy in the right way? How do I handle the situation now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2824 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - I've worked at 4 different job locations during my 8 years of working for this company. I've never really had "true friendship" with any of my co-workers because I was always the "new person" to join the facility. I came to this location about a ...

Am I going through a mid-life crisis? I have everything going for me but I'm so unhappy and empty inside

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2824 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - I want to get to the point- ever since I was 9 years old I have always wanted to be around people - I hate being alone and most people; the ones that know me well say that I'm never satisfied and I'm never happy. lately I feel like the rug has been ...

New man doesn't want me to go to fetish party

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2824 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - I arranged to go to kinky, fetish-scene party while single but now have new boyfriend who doesn't want me to go. Am I being unreasonable still wanting to go, even though he doesn't like it, and is not into that. He thinks I will be looking for ...

How much detail should I put in my online dating profile?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2792 days ago

24 February 2017 (M) - I have cerebral palsy, I am not in a wheelchair but am a bit unsteady on my feet at times. I have got a dating profile on Match, should I include my disability on there?...

I lost respect when I found out my friend was a home wrecker.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2825 days ago

24 February 2017 (F) - I have a friend, lets call him x, who recently told me he's got a new girlfriend. I was happy for him, and asked the typical questions, appears she's a colleague of his and she's got two kids ages 7 and 4, that he hasn't met yet but is excited about ...

I wondered if he could be flirting because his comment seemed out of place.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2829 days ago

23 February 2017 (F) - Hello everyone, a business meeting was scheduled with the owner of a company through common friends. So here i was walking into the conference room where he was waiting for me and introducing himself. he was very proper, professional and pleasant ...

I feel he guilt trips me into staying with him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2825 days ago

23 February 2017 (F) - My partner needs help with his anger and possessive behaviour , how do I help him .. I know I can't help him he needs a professional but what do I do in this process !? It's sounds horrible because im finding it hard to believe he will change and ...

Would I be betraying my Mom's memory if I get close to Dad's new girlfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2825 days ago

23 February 2017 (F) - Hello, My name is Bree. 2 years ago my mother died and it has been sad and rough for my Dad and I. When my mom died it really broke my Dad's heart, he loved her so much and misses her, and I miss her too. But last month my Dad told me he met another ...

Chaotic childhood. Do I leave it ? do I dig further to find out more about my mother?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2825 days ago

23 February 2017 (F) - My upbringing was somewhat chaotic. my father 19 when he had me and my mother a drug addict. Me and my twin sister were removed from her care at 1 years old and spent sometime in a foster home until a relative fostered us. we were given a little ...

Why don't my men value my looks?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2825 days ago

23 February 2017 (F) - All my life I have had relationships with men who turned out to not be physically attracted to me. Four relationships in fact. Each was attracted to me for other reasons but the physical just wasn't one and it always ended up being an issue. This ...

The way he manages money puts marriage in doubt

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2825 days ago

23 February 2017 (F) - Hi, So I have a question regarding relationships and finances. What do you think about being in a relationship with a guy who says that it will be a long time before he can get married, and the reason is that he is in a lot of debt because of ...

Is it up to me to make the first move in this situation? Because I think he thinks, in error, that I'm exclusively gay.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2829 days ago

22 February 2017 (F) - I sit next to a guy in one of my classes, and I've realised recently that I'm really into him. I work with him on a production and I think it's been coming on for a while, but best of all I get the impression he's into me too. I just have sever...

How do I gauge how much interest a guy really has in me? I want a guy who cares

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2832 days ago

21 February 2017 (F) - I've been bad w/spotting one sided relationships, so I want a guy who is actually interested in me. I went to an event I go every year, I knew I would meet guys there, but I never expected to find a guy who was really into me. Usually at that eve...

How can this be resolved? I want a Baby. He couldn't think of anything worse.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2827 days ago

21 February 2017 (F) - My husband told me the other day he never wants to have children. I’m devastated. Don’t get me wrong I love him completely and can appreciate that it’s just how he feels but I feel angry and bitter and am having serious thoughts about leaving him if ...

I fear rejection. Could his actions be a sign that he only wants sex, and nothing more serious ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2828 days ago

20 February 2017 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for some time now and it has been amazing and I utterly admire him but the thing is I don't know what we are. He is all sweet and kind and all touchy and shows affections when I'm with him even in public, he is very playful,...

Does she still want this wedding?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2831 days ago

19 February 2017 (M) - Just a quick question? Me and my partner are due to be getting married in october this year not a big expencive one but one we can offord we have put deposits down for most things but now all of a sudden shes saying we cant offord the wedding so i ...

I'm worried that my bf will randomly break up with me. How can face my insecurity and fear of this happening to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2829 days ago

19 February 2017 (F) - I have a sort of silly worry to ask advice about. One of my good friends recently got broken up with. She met her BF in July and everything seemed to be going pretty well for them. I didn't think he was super considerate of her and she went out...

Is he trying to convey something by winking at me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2832 days ago

18 February 2017 (F) - Hello there, My co-worker and I were very good friends at work. We had never gone out together, I felt some subtle hints from him. Then we got into major conflicts, he came by to apologize afterward. After that, I backed off and just be another ...

Should I really start planning a future with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2832 days ago

18 February 2017 (F) - Hello! My boyfriend and I are both 20 and met at his hometown in Denmark in October before we took the relationship to long distance. So far he was my first everything-my first kiss, my first boyfriend, and my first time having sex (i don't regret ...

How do I cope with a gambling addicted boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2832 days ago

17 February 2017 (F) - How do I cope with a gambling addicted boyfriend? My partner of 2 years started gambling a lot about 2/3 months into the relationship. Ive tried my hardest to support and understand this problem ive offered to go to counciling with him or pointed ...

I'm still a virgin with no dating experience at age 26, and I'm starting to feel like something must be wrong with me. Advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2834 days ago

16 February 2017 (F) - I am 26 and am a virgin, have never had a boyfriend, nor have a I really ever dated. I have always just assumed that things would happen in their own time, and I have had two brief and non official experiences with boys (one for a few months at uni ...

Am I too old to make positive changes in my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2833 days ago

16 February 2017 (F) - I'm just going to preface this by saying that I know I may receive answers that I may not want to hear, but I just need honest answers so that I can have closure. When is a woman too old to find someone, to get married, get into a profession or ma...

If he misses his ex does that mean his affection for me was fake?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2833 days ago

16 February 2017 (F) - Seeing him for 3 months. He told me he loved me 3 separate times when drunk, to which I didn't respond. He came over to my place all the time, he said he wanted to meet my parents. Then the last time he told me he loved me, the next day he just sto...

My grandmother died and I've lost my job

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2838 days ago

16 February 2017 (F) - I'm not one to ask for advice but I really need some. I've been under a tremendous amount of stress and I'm not sure how to cope, I feel like everything is crashing down around me. On January 10th my grandma who I was really close to died a...

My previous teaacher was awesome. I do not like my new teacher, so how can I stay positive in this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2834 days ago

15 February 2017 (F) - My friends and I have had so many awesome teachers in the last few years, but there is one who stands out in particular. I always learnt best in her classes; she had a tendency to find so many ways to visualize the topic and make even the most ...

Will my life improve? What do I need to do? I feel so alone and scared.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2834 days ago

15 February 2017 (F) - Am a 41 year old woman and I've asked for help and taken advice from here. Which is probably why I'm back. Asking for advice. I'm divorced from an alcoholic husband and with the advice given to me, I have even found the strength to end an affair...

I don't want to snoop through his phone but I think my husband is cheating

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2834 days ago

14 February 2017 (F) - I'm worried my husband is cheating. We've been married 7 years and have had the happiest relationship. He started a new job 6 months ago and his behaviour has changed. He's started keeping his phone on silent, or constantly on his person, somethin...

My husband wants me to give his friend a hand job!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2839 days ago

14 February 2017 (F) - my husband has been trying to talk me into giving his best friend a mercy hand job , Because his wife has some kind of a medical problem ? His friend has been so sad ever since his wife has cut him off . I am seriously considering doing it for him ...

Two years and I should be over the treatment at my last workplace!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

14 February 2017 (F) - It's been nearly 2 years since I left my precious work place. This workplace was awful. I was treated horribly by both management and staff. I was talked about behind my back, was given almost all the workload and I was even called 'their bitch' a...

Relationship going no where. Am I just too accommodating, and maybe I should just not be like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2839 days ago

13 February 2017 (F) - Hi. Been in a relationship for a few months now, he comes here ever other weekend as we are about an hour and half away from each other. I have kids and it's all pretty cool with them too. We also try other bits of time, face time a lot and text...

She made me wait until marriage for sex, but we are now married and still no sex!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2839 days ago

13 February 2017 (M) - I know these questions get asked plenty of times - and I know there is no cut and dry answer, but here is my story. I'm 34 years old and my wife of 5 years is 24. She wanted to wait until marriage to have sex which was more than fine for me seei...

I fear our cultures will clash too much!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2843 days ago

12 February 2017 (F) - Dear agony aunts Recently I have been seeing a guy that I really like and starting to have feelings for, we have been on several dates and been seeing each other for the last couple of months I like this guy so much but he is English living i...

I think he might want more than to be my friend.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2839 days ago

12 February 2017 (F) - Does my male friend fancy me?. I have spoken to him about my ex boyfriend sometimes. He kept saying that I deserved to be treated better than how my ex was treating me. We had a night out last night. He touched my leg with his foot in a jokey way a ...

Our arguments often lead to physical altercations!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2839 days ago

12 February 2017 (F) - ive been in this relationship for about five months now and things are definitely not the way i thought they would be. I care deeply about this man but the communication is limited. We get into arguments which some end in physical altercations. Both ...

A year after breaking it off with me he wants my phone number, should I give it to him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2839 days ago

12 February 2017 (F) - So I have a question I'd like some help with. I'm really confused as to whether I should get back with my ex. I was with my ex for 9 years 15-24. There were no issues everything was great almost perfect but nothing is perfect I guess. I loved h...

I like her but she is a prositute, how can I get her to leave that work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2841 days ago

11 February 2017 (M) - Please help me. I have been in hiding wishing there was someone to love me with true heart. I am searching a true and honest woman to be my good friend and possibly marry her if God decide we should be together. I am tired of boy and girl friend ...

My husband cheated on me with his brother's wife and now she's saying her child is his. Do I stay or leave? We have children of our own.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2818 days ago

11 February 2017 (F) - i just found out my husband of 17 years slept with his brothers wife on his wedding night. This is the most disgusting thing I have ever heard or had to endure, the pain that i am going through is so unbearable. His brother met his wife 3 years...

My ex' could be ready to start again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2845 days ago

10 February 2017 (F) - Hi I was with my ex boyfriend for 3 years we split up 4 years ago but for that 4 year he is constantly around near where I live and each time I see him it brings all the pain back that he caused me he is always staring at me. A mutual friend told me ...

Is it just looks men care about?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2842 days ago

10 February 2017 (F) - Do men ever think highly of women for anything other than how the look. My partner never seems to give credit to any woman based on anything other than her appearance and I've been thinking that this actually seems to be such a common thing when I ...